In this powerful episode of the Fatherhood Foundation Podcast, Pastor Brandon Sanders shares his raw and redemptive journey—from witnessing his mother’s murder as a child to ultimately forgiving the man who took her life… his own father. #father #god

What begins as a story of trauma and abandonment transforms into a testimony of healing, grace, and the life-changing power of forgiveness. Pastor Brandon opens up about addiction, fatherlessness, marriage struggles, and how God met him at his lowest to restore what was broken.

Whether you’ve been through pain, loss, or betrayal—this episode reminds us: no one is too far gone for redemption.

From Fatherless to Fathering | Pastor Brandon’s Redemption Story

“I didn’t know how to be a father… because I never knew how to be a son.”

In this powerful episode, Pastor Brandon shares his raw, redemptive journey from growing up fatherless to becoming a spiritual and practical father. He opens up about the wounds of his past, the mentors who showed up when he needed them most, and how God transformed his understanding of identity, masculinity, and love.

Whether you’re a father, mentor, or someone healing from your own story — this conversation is for you.

00:00 – Intro
00:28 – The impact of growing up fatherless
01:31 – Finding identity through scripture
02:30 – Why Pastor Brandon joined the Fatherhood Foundation
03:24 – Early mistakes as a father
04:32 – Learning to father through healing
05:08 – What a good father really provides
06:29 – Fathering vs. living through your kids
07:29 – Intentionality and being present
08:20 – Why masculinity becomes toxic
09:13 – A mentor asks: “Who are you?”
10:55 – Feeling like a failure as a father and pastor
12:22 – Love will always cost you something
13:37 – When they’re finally ready to receive
14:58 – Final encouragement: Don’t give up

What if leadership wasn’t about power, but about service?

In this episode of the Fatherhood Foundation Podcast, we sit down with Pastor Brandon from Mobile, Alabama, who shares his journey from growing up in foster care to leading global missions and mentoring at-risk youth. His take on servant leadership flips the script on everything the world teaches about success.

👉 You’ll learn:

Why true leaders serve first
How to lead without a title
The difference between Pharaoh leadership vs. Fathering leadership
Real stories of toxic vs. transformational leadership


01:00 – Introducing Pastor Brandon
02:25 – Birth of Urban Missionaries
03:55 – The Power of Intense Men & the Call to Lead
04:30 – Do Leaders Need Titles?
05:32 – Worldly Leadership vs. Servant Leadership
06:57 – Story of Toxic Leadership
08:29 – Mindset Shift: Learning from Bad Examples
08:58 – Good Leadership Modeled by Pastor Robert
09:58 – Fathering vs. Pharaoh Leadership
11:30 – First Steps to Leading Well
12:33 – Why Great Leaders Give Their Secrets Away
13:25 – Recap: The 3 Big Ideas on Leadership

In this episode of the Fatherhood Foundation Podcast, we break down the four key relationships that every man must master to live a strong, purpose-driven life. Pastor Robert shares insights on:

✅ Building a real relationship with God
✅ Finding brothers who walk with you in faith
✅ Seeking wise counselors for guidance
✅ Strengthening your marriage and valuing your wife

These relationships shape your destiny, leadership, and legacy as a father, husband, and man of God. Don’t miss this powerful conversation!

00:35 - 01:08 | Welcome to the Podcast – Host introductions and episode setup

01:08 - 03:12 | The Crisis of Fatherlessness – The impact of absent fathers on families and society

03:12 - 04:50 | Men & Isolation – Why men struggle with relationships and finding strong friendships

04:50 - 06:42 | Relationship #1: God – Why a relationship with God is the foundation for everything else

06:42 - 09:57 | Signs of a Real Relationship with God – How to know if you truly know God

09:57 - 12:06 | Relationship #2: Brothers – The importance of having strong, loyal friendships

12:06 - 15:32 | Building Brotherhood & Loyalty – How real friendships strengthen men

15:32 - 17:54 | Relationship #3: Counselors – The power of wise counsel in decision-making

17:54 - 21:38 | Choosing the Right Counselors – Why the right mentors shape your destiny

21:38 - 27:21 | Relationship #4: Wife – Understanding marriage as a spiritual partnership

27:21 - 35:50 | How Marriage Transforms a Man – The deeper purpose of marriage in spiritual growth

35:50 - 38:39 | Breaking Generational Curses – How strong marriages and fatherhood impact future generations

38:39 - 40:00 | Closing Thoughts & Call to Action – Summary of the four relationships and final words

Many men think the fight ends when they give their lives to Christ—but in reality, that’s when the real battle begins. In this episode of the Fatherhood Foundation Podcast, we dive deep into the spiritual and personal battles men face every day. How do you fight the right way? Who is the real enemy? And how can you become someone worth following? Join Pastor Robert as we break down the path to true leadership, faith, and fatherhood.

🎙️ Topics Covered:
✅ Identifying your real enemies (it's not people!)
✅ How faith and a strong conscience keep you on track
✅ Why training is essential for spiritual and personal battles
✅ The power of mentorship and fatherhood in building strong men

✨ Are you searching for your purpose in life?
In this episode of the Fatherhood Foundation Podcast, Pastor Robert and the team uncover what it means to live with God-given purpose and how to align your life with His plan. We’ll explore identity, affirmation, and practical steps to fulfilling your mission.

🔥 What you'll learn:

How to discover your purpose.
The link between identity, affirmation, and action.
Why making disciples is key to living a meaningful life.
How to avoid chasing self-serving goals.
🎯 Watch now and start living a purposeful life today!

What if the missing link to your purpose is something you’ve been overlooking? In this powerful episode of the Fatherhood Foundation podcast, we explore the transformative power of affirmation—from Biblical lessons to real-life stories of fatherhood. Whether you're a father, husband, or someone searching for purpose, this episode dives deep into how words can set a generation in motion.

In this powerful episode of the Fatherhood Foundation Podcast, Pastor Robert dives deep into the core of every man’s greatest struggle: identity. Are you defining yourself by your job, your role, or your achievements? Discover how embracing your true identity as a son of God can change everything—from your relationships to your sense of purpose. Tune in for heartfelt stories, biblical wisdom, and practical steps to break free from the ‘orphan mentality’ and step fully into sonship."

👉 Topics Covered:

-The difference between identity and role
-The orphan mentality and its impact
-How to rediscover your identity through faith