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  • How To Talk To Your Kids About Sex with Sam Jolman

    How To Talk To Your Kids About Sex with Sam Jolman
    2025/07/09
    Sam Jolman says, “Talking to your children about sex should be likened to having 100 one-minute conversations.”

    As we continue season 5 on relational intelligence, therapist and author Sam Jolman joins us once again, this time to talk about how to help our kids script a narrative of romance.

    In this episode, Sam shares profound insights on age-specific ways to talk to your kids about their body, why it’s important to follow their questions, and how to cultivate a value-based, not a fear-based conversation. In the end, the goal is to help our kids experience awe, not live in shame.

    Time Stamps:
    0:00 Introduction
    2:19 Sam Jolman joins the show!
    3:10 Talking to kids ages 0 to 6
    6:40 A profound insight on shame and glory
    12:09 Talking to kids ages 7 to 12
    20:50 Moving from fear-based to values-base conversation with your kids
    24:40 Talking to teens
    30:10 The difference between arousal and lust
    33:20 Preparing our kids for marriage
    40:02 Innocence, not naivety

    Show Notes:
     Get Sam Jolman’s book The Sex Talk You Never Got.
    https://amzn.to/4kflULX

    If you’re interested in a marriage you love, fill out this form: https://www.famousathome.com/loveyourmarriage

    Register now for the Tender & Fierce Fall Cohort: https://www.famousathome.com/offers/dDt2Aobj/checkout

    Download NONAH's brand new single Find My Way Home by clicking here: https://bellpartners.ffm.to/findmywayhome
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    42 分
  • How Screens Shape Our Nervous System

    How Screens Shape Our Nervous System
    2025/06/25
    How well do you manage your relationship with the screen? How would your spouse describe how well you manage your relationship with the screen? What about your kids?

    As we continue season 5 on relational intelligence, we discuss screen time and its effects on our nervous system. We share some sobering statistics about screens and hope by the end you honestly evaluate the answer to the question, “What role does the screen play in the quality of my life?”

    Time Stamps:
    0:00 Introduction
    3:20 How do you relate with your screen?
    8:57 Screens and the nervous system
    12:12 Dopamine, screens, and temper tantrums
    19:00 Multitasking, nervous system dysregulation, and attunement
    27:20 Inattention in children’s television shows
    32:29 Becoming relationally intelligent with screens

    Show Notes:
    If you’re interested in a marriage you love, fill out this form: https://www.famousathome.com/loveyourmarriage

    Register now for the Tender & Fierce Fall Cohort: https://www.famousathome.com/offers/dDt2Aobj/checkout

    Download NONAH's brand new single Find My Way Home by clicking here: https://bellpartners.ffm.to/findmywayhome
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    38 分
  • The Complicated Beauty of Forgiveness

    The Complicated Beauty of Forgiveness
    2025/06/18
    Forgiving others can be complicated. Especially when you’ve been hurt deeply by those you love the most.

    As we continue season 5 on relational intelligence, we discuss the reality of forgiveness, why it’s so complicated, and a helpful process for forgiving others. We also offer a beautiful story of deep forgiveness in marriage as a model and a path forward.

    Time Stamps:
    0:00 Introduction to forgiveness and why it matters
    3:16 The reality and process of forgiveness
    7:50 The people we have to forgive
    10:22 The complicated beauty of forgiveness
    17:32 An example of forgiveness in marriage
    21:30 The grace of our own forgiveness

    Show Notes:
     If you’re interested in a marriage you love, fill out this form: https://www.famousathome.com/loveyourmarriage

    Register now for the Tender & Fierce Fall Cohort: https://www.famousathome.com/offers/dDt2Aobj/checkout

    Download NONAH's brand new single Find My Way Home by clicking here: https://bellpartners.ffm.to/findmywayhome
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    29 分
  • How Self Protection Hurts Relationships

    How Self Protection Hurts Relationships
    2025/06/11
    Why do we self-protect in relationships? Especially if it hurts our deepest levels of intimacy with those we love?

    Though we’re hurt in relationships, we’re also healed in relationships. As we continue season 5 on relational intelligence, we discuss the ways we self-protect, why self-protection is a form of artificial intelligence, and how to break free. Our hope for this episode is to give you hope that you can surrender self-protection and discover deeper relational connection with those you love.

    Time Stamps:
    0:00 Introduction
    4:00 The ripple effect of relational intelligence
    5:00 Self-protection as a form of artificial intelligence
    8:12 The ways we self-protect
    18:38 Ways to surrender our self-protection
    24:06 Christi shares what she’s learning in her own journey of self-protection
    31:43 Self-protection, overcoming fear, and the softening of your heart toward others
    38:22 Disconfirming experiences, holding hope, and healing your heart

    Show Notes:
     If you’re interested in a marriage you love, fill out this form: https://www.famousathome.com/loveyourmarriage

    Register now for the Tender & Fierce Fall Cohort: https://www.famousathome.com/offers/dDt2Aobj/checkout

    Download NONAH's single Find My Way Home by clicking here: https://bellpartners.ffm.to/findmywayhome
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    45 分
  • Marriage and Relational Intelligence

    Marriage and Relational Intelligence
    2025/06/04
    In season 5, we’re talking about relational intelligence. In this episode, we’re specifically looking at it through the lens of marriage, the delicate dance of intimacy, and why emotional safety is so important.

    We also introduce season 5, which covers hot topics that challenge how we think about relationships, why we become numb to them, and how to navigate relational connections with those we love in a world becoming more artificially intelligent.

    Time Stamps:
    0:00 Introduction to season 5
    3:00 The face-to-face nature of relational connection
    4:19 Why and how we numb in relationships
    13:11 Defining relational intelligence
    16:00 Marriage coaching options
    17:30 The delicate relational dance of marriage
    24:51 Emotional safety in marriage
    31:54 Your relationships in light of eternity
    38:40 The inside-out nature of marriage

    Show Notes:
    If you’re interested in a marriage you love, fill out this form: https://www.famousathome.com/loveyourmarriage

    Download NONAH's brand new single Find My Way Home by clicking here: https://bellpartners.ffm.to/findmywayhome
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    47 分
  • Everyday Realities of Parenting: Constant Demands & Interruptions

    Everyday Realities of Parenting: Constant Demands & Interruptions
    2025/05/21
    In this episode, we address listener submitted questions, each of them around the constant demands and interruptions that come with raising children. Christi also walks us through an exercise to help calm nervous system dysregulation.

    Time Stamps:
    0:00 Introduction
    4:15 Costco trips, homeschooling, and the evolution of a marriage and family
    8:48 A practical exercise for nervous system regulation in the moment
    15:55 Listener question: Mom of 4 littles trying to find a soul at rest with all the demands
    26:36 Listener question: How to prioritize our sanity when constantly interrupted

    Show Notes:
    Ladies, interested in the fall Tender & Fierce Coaching Cohort?
    Register here: https://www.famousathome.com/offers/dDt2Aobj/checkout

    If you’re interested in a marriage you love, fill out this form: https://www.famousathome.com/loveyourmarriage

    Get John Eldredge’s latest book called Experience Jesus. Really.
    https://amzn.to/4ks1NdL

    Download NONAH's brand new single Find My Way Home by clicking here: https://bellpartners.ffm.to/findmywayhome
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    38 分
  • Loving Your Marriage

    Loving Your Marriage
    2025/05/14
    What does it mean to "love your marriage?" Is it something you've thought about? Or perhaps something you brag about to others?

    In this episode, Josh talks about what we mean by loving your marriage, the deeper meaning of marriage, and poses three revealing questions to ask yourself about your marriage.

    Time Stamps:
    0:00 Introduction
    1:50 Tender & Fierce coming up
    2:55 What we mean by loving your marriage
    9:50 The purpose of marriage
    13:44 Falling in love over and over again
    16:27 How our marriage influences our kids
    17:30 Cultivating our marriage with the Bridegroom
    23:00 Three revealing questions to ask yourself about your marriage

    Show Notes:
    Ladies, interested in the fall Tender & Fierce Coaching Cohort?
    Register here: https://www.famousathome.com/offers/dDt2Aobj/checkout

    If you’re interested in a marriage you love, fill out form: https://www.famousathome.com/loveyourmarriage

    Download NONAH's single Find My Way Home by clicking here: https://bellpartners.ffm.to/findmywayhome
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    36 分