You're good at what you do. You know it somewhere deep down. But if you're not doing your most fulfilling work and getting paid at a level that makes your eyes pop – you're underselling yourself. And the fix isn't working harder. It's communicating smarter.

In this episode, I share how – literally overnight – I doubled my own income applying for a corporate job. I also share how a client landed a VP role within a week, and how another client made $250K in additional revenue adding just two calls a month. The thread through all of it? Powerful communication.

I break down the two-part problem keeping most entrepreneurs spinning their wheels, why your most valuable skills are completely invisible to you, and the three principles of communication that change everything – in business, in corporate, and in life.

If you've ever felt like the best kept secret in your industry, this episode is your wake-up call.

In this episode you'll learn:

• Why you're underselling yourself – and it has nothing to do with your skills
• The two-part block keeping you from being seen and paid at your level
• Why people only buy at the level of their own belief – and what that means for how you show up
• The three principles of powerful communication that helped Jen double her income overnight
• Why asking one question beats a thousand words of convincing every time
• What it actually means to own your sh*t and get paid to be you

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Everyone says you need better messaging, a clearer niche, or a more polished offer to make sales. But what if that is not actually the problem?

In this episode, I'm diving into what is really going on when you know you have something powerful, but it is not landing the way you want it to. It's for the people who - when it comes to communicating it, selling it, or fully owning it, something holds you back. We are talking about the gap between having something extraordinary and actually being seen, felt, and paid for it.

I'm personally passionate about helping people to turn what you already have into something people instantly want, without overcomplicating your offers, forcing your messaging, or trying to become someone you are not. (Fuuuuuuuck that)

We also unpack the deeper patterns that keep you playing small, hiding in almost ready, or waiting for permission, and how to shift into full ownership so your work becomes undeniable. I even talk about how we lose ourselves in things like Human Design, Enneagram, astrology, tarot, and other modalities.

If you have been sitting on something big, this episode will show you how to finally own it and let it sell.

Takeaways

• You do not need more ideas. You need to fully own what you already have
• If your work is not landing, it is often an ownership gap, not a strategy problem
• Playing small often looks like overthinking, tweaking, and staying in preparation mode
• Your audience needs to feel your conviction before they can buy
• Clear, compelling offers come from clarity in self, not just structure
• Selling becomes easier when you stop trying to prove and start expressing
• The real shift is moving from questioning if it is good enough to deciding this is it

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Everyone talks about being authentic, but the truth is most people are still holding themselves back. They’re filtering what they say, softening parts of themselves, and showing a version that feels acceptable instead of actually letting themselves be fully seen. And even if it looks like things are working on the outside, there’s often a disconnect underneath it—in their relationships, in their business, and in how much they’re actually able to receive.

In this episode, I’m breaking down what’s really going on when you’re not fully expressed and why that creates a ripple effect through every area of your life. This isn’t just about visibility or content. When you’re not fully being yourself, people aren’t actually connecting with you—they’re connecting with a version of you. And that changes everything, from the depth of your relationships to the way clients experience you and the amount of money you’re able to make.

I also share a personal story from my relationship with Joey that brought this into sharp focus and revealed what happens when someone doesn’t feel able to fully be themselves. It opened up a deeper understanding of connection, safety, and what it really takes to feel seen in a relationship.

If you’ve ever felt like something isn’t quite clicking, like you’re showing up but not fully landing, or like there’s a more expressed version of you that hasn’t fully come online yet, this episode will speak directly to that. Because authenticity isn’t just a nice idea—it’s the thing that creates trust, magnetism, connection, and ultimately, results.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why not being fully yourself creates disconnection in your relationships and your business
• How holding parts of yourself back impacts how much money, love, and opportunity you receive
• The “kink in the hose” effect and how it blocks natural flow in your life
• What actually happens when people are connecting with a filtered version of you
• Why being fully seen can feel risky—and why that’s the doorway to everything you want
• The subtle ways you might be performing instead of expressing
• How authenticity creates trust, magnetism, and deeper connection
• Simple ways to start showing up more fully as yourself without overthinking it

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TLDR: What I Learned From Separating From My Husband (And Getting Back Together)

Have you ever felt completely alone in your personal growth journey - like the more you expand, the further apart you and your partner grow? You're doing the work, investing in yourself, evolving... and instead of bringing you closer together, it's creating distance, tension, and maybe even resentment.

You are not alone. And you are not doing anything wrong.

In this episode, I'm sharing something I debated making public – last year, Joey and I separated. And what we learned on the other side of that is the most important thing I've ever figured out about relationships, personal development, and choosing yourself without losing the person you love.

In This Episode You'll Learn:

• Why your partner feels threatened by your growth — and why it has nothing to do with them not loving you or wanting to hold you back. When you start expanding, your partner often hears something you never said out loud. Understanding what that is changes everything.
• The reframe that changes the whole dynamic — your desires are activating inadequacy in your partner. This isn't your fault. But it is your responsibility to understand it — and this episode shows you exactly how.
• What I wish I had known — the honest masculine perspective on what was actually happening for him when I was deep in my growth journey. This is the thing most women never get to hear, and it will shift how you see your relationship completely.
• The really uncomfortable truth that nobody talks about – The exact thing that set me free. I know that sounds scary. Stay with me.

Key Takeaways:

— Your growth isn't the problem. How you're relating to the gap between you is.

— Your partner isn't resisting you. They're scared. And probably don't have the language for it yet.

— The work starts with you — getting clear, getting honest, and being willing to speak your truth even when the outcome isn't guaranteed.

— Agency in your relationship starts with embodying your own truth first. Not waiting for him to catch up.

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I mentioned an exercise in this episode that I'm not going to walk you through here because I want to do it WITH you live so you can actually feel it.

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In this episode of F**k Around & Get Paid, I’m sharing a real-time conversation about what it looks like to run a business, stay visible, and stay true to yourself when the world feels loud, uncertain, and destabilizing.

I talk about why this moment is asking us to listen differently – not just to our minds, but to our bodies, our intuition, and our deeper sense of truth.

This episode is for women entrepreneurs, healers, spiritual teachers and coaches who might be feeling the clarity that's coming with the Fire Horse energy right now but who might also be experiencing bouts of confusion. And it's for all of us who are are moving through a lot right now.

It's wild how we can experience both joy and grief at the same time, and more than anything – I want to normalize that experience. All of it gets to be here, and you can surf so much better when you allow it to.

That's why, in this episode, I share how I’m navigating this personally, what I’m paying attention to energetically, and why your most powerful work will always come from joy-first alignment, not obligation.

In this episode:

• How I’m navigating business during uncertain times
• Showing up online without self-abandonment
• Why intuition matters more than strategy right now
• Letting go of what no longer fits
• Holding multiple truths at the same time
• Staying rooted in what feels true and alive

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What if joy wasn't something you earned after the hard work - but the actual strategy that gets you there? In this episode, we're breaking down Alysa Liu's jaw-dropping Olympic gold medal performance and extracting the real business lesson hiding inside it: authentic joy is the most magnetic marketing tool you have.

If you've been white-knuckling your way through your business, burning out from performing a version of yourself that isn't really you, or grinding through a strategy that just doesn't feel right - this one's for you.

We're talking about joy as a business strategy, burnout as a masking problem (not a workload problem), and why owning your sh*t through your own joyful enthusiasm is the only path to real freedom and real money.

In This Episode, You'll Learn:

• Why joy is an actual business strategy - not a reward you earn after you've suffered enough
• The real reason most entrepreneurs burn out (hint: it's not about working too hard)
• How Alysa Liu's performance is a masterclass in authentic entrepreneurship
• What it actually takes to quit something that isn't working — and why that's the most powerful move you can make
• How to identify where you're masking, performing, or tolerating misalignment in your business
• Why doing it YOUR way is what makes you magnetic to clients and money

Resources for this episode:

• Watch Alysa Liu's Gold Medal winning performance
• The 2021 Running Playlist I referenced
• Julia Cameron's book The Artist's Way

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“To niche or not to niche?” It’s one of the loudest questions in the business world, and also one of the most misunderstood.

In this episode, we’re talking about a truth that doesn’t get enough airtime: Not everyone is meant to build the same kind of business.

Some people thrive with structure, specificity, and clear lanes. But others are here to have fun, follow desire, and get paid doing what lights you up.

If you’ve ever felt boxed in by niche advice, if you’ve tried to “clarify your message” and somehow felt more disconnected, and if you secretly know you’re built differently but haven’t fully owned it yet – This episode is for you.

We’ll explore why your desires aren’t random, why joy is a valid business strategy for certain people, and what shifts when you realize You are the niche.

In This Episode, We Cover:

⭐️ Why niche advice works beautifully for some people, and not at all for others
⭐️ Why wanting more fun, freedom, and joy isn’t “normal”
⭐️ What changes when you stop trying to niche down and start owning your desires (because desire is a calling, not something you need to justify)
⭐️ How talking to your people becomes effortless when you claim the life you want

When you claim your desires and lead from that place, the people who are just like you will hear you – and they’ll know you’re speaking directly to them.

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Not all growth is loud, viral, or immediately visible, and that does not mean it is not working.

In this episode of Fuck Around & Get Paid, I explore why the smallest steps we take matter more than we think. From skills we have quietly developed to creations that did not seem to go anywhere at the time, nothing we have done was wasted.

I share how we can reframe our progress using the concept of the Lego Business, and how to recognize the invisible wins that are actively building our confidence, capacity, and next level in life and business.

✨ Small growth is still growth.
✨ Quiet wins still count.
✨ Intuition-led action always leaves value behind.

In This Episode, We Cover

⭐ Why progress often looks smaller than it actually is
⭐ The Lego Business concept and how every creation becomes a meaningful building block
⭐ Why we do not need to see the full vision for our actions to matter
⭐ How intuitive action supports business growth, confidence, and future opportunities
⭐ A powerful reframe for things we once thought were failures
⭐ How to recognize the hidden value in what we have already created

Reflection Questions

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• What has shifted for you in the last six months, even if it feels small?
• What skills have I learned?
• Where have you stretched yourself, even if it's a small stretch?
• What have we created that still exists, even if it did not take off?
• What small win actually changed us?

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