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In this unapologetically honest episode of Witchin’ and Bitchin’, Juan and River tackle one of the most essential — and most violated — aspects of modern life and folk magic: boundaries. From people trespassing on private land to strangers forcing unwanted conversations, this episode explores what happens when politeness is mistaken for permission and kindness is taken as weakness.

Through real-life stories, folk magic wisdom, and practical witchcraft, your hosts break down physical, emotional, social, and energetic boundaries — including how to deal with “takers” who drain your time, energy, and spirit. You’ll learn why “no” is a spell, why rudeness can be protective, and how witches have always guarded thresholds, homes, and personal sovereignty.

In the longest episode we've had so far, we include a practical boundary ward, listener insight, and Bitchin’ Break about the pressure to be “nice” at the expense of safety and sanity. If you’ve ever felt guilted into silence or pushed past your limits, this one’s for you.

In this episode, Juan and River discuss:

• Why boundaries are sacred in folk magic and witchcraft
• Physical boundaries, trespassing, and land stewardship
• When politeness becomes a liability
• Conversational ambushes and forced religious or ideological interactions
• Energetic boundaries and dealing with emotionally “taky” people
• Why “no” doesn’t require justification
• Folk traditions around thresholds, wards, and protected space
• How witches have historically enforced boundaries without apology
• And we share several stories about our recent experiences with having people mess with our boundaries!

Practical Magic Featured:

• A simple, effective Boundary Ward using salt, water, and a protective object
• Threshold magic for homes, land, and personal space
• Using intention and repetition to reinforce energetic limits

Listener Segment:

• A real-life story about dealing with inner conflict when it meets with external feedback.

Bitchin’ Break Highlights:

• The myth that being “nicer” would solve boundary violations
• Why safety matters more than social comfort
• Letting go of guilt when enforcing limits

Wild Wisdom:

• The historical use of keys, thresholds, and wards as symbols of permission and access

Content Note:
This episode contains strong language and discussions of boundary violations. Listener discretion advised. Seriously, folks, the F-bombs fly.

🌙 Connect with the Witches

Want more magic, insight, or righteous boundary-setting energy in your life?

✨ Juan can be found at Descendants of the Moon on Facebook:
https://www.facebook.com/DescendantsOfTheMoon

✨ River can be found at Moonlight and StarShadows on Facebook:
https://www.facebook.com/Moonlightandstarshadows

or on TikTok at @moonlightandstarshadows

Both Juan and River are available for private tarot consultations, intuitive readings, and custom spellwork. Whether you need clarity, protection, guidance, or a little magical backup, we’ve got you covered.

Come find us, say hi, and remember: your magic is valid, your boundaries matter, and your intuition knows what’s up. 🌿