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  • Ep. 146: Why Black Men feel like we’re Never Doing Enough with Dr. Rose Moten
    2025/12/22
    In XYBM 146, I sit down with Dr. Rose Moten, a renowned psychologist and trauma healing specialist, to discuss the challenges Black men face when it comes to asking for help and not feeling like we’re doing enough. Dr. Rose shares her personal and professional insights into emotional wellness, the importance of being present, and navigating family dynamics and grief, especially during the holiday season.

    This episode is a must-watch as we head into the holiday season, when emotions tend to surface in ways we don’t always expect. Tune in on all podcast streaming platforms — including YouTube.

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    1 時間 57 分
  • Ep. 145: Why you shouldn’t let your Trauma keep you from God with Vincent Casey
    2025/12/01
    In XYBM 145, I sit down with Vincent Casey, a dedicated minister and relationship mediator, to discuss his profound journey from experiencing church hurt to rediscovering God. Vincent shares his raw and heartfelt story of betrayal, healing, and the power of vulnerability. He talks about leading his family with love, understanding emotional healing, and the significance of men developing a strong relationship with God.

    Tune in on all podcast streaming platforms, including YouTube.

    Leave a 5-star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this episode or a previous episode!

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    HOW TO FIND A DOPE, BLACK THERAPIST:
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    We are teaching a FREE webinar on how to find a dope, Black therapist – sign up for the next session here: https://event.webinarjam.com/channel/black-therapist

    All webinar attendees will have the opportunity to be paired with a Black mental health professional in Safe Haven. We have had 5K+ people sign up for this webinar in the past. Don’t miss out. Slots are limited.

    SAFE HAVEN:
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    Safe Haven is a holistic healing platform built for Black men by Black men. In Safe Haven, you will be connected with a Black mental health professional, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about AND you will receive support from like-minded Black men that are all on their healing journey, so you don’t have to heal alone.

    Join Safe Haven Now: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven

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    2 時間 35 分
  • XYBM Clips: Every Black man can relate to this
    2025/11/26
    If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 144) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 144: Why are BLACK MEN so ANGRY? (Part 2) with Odi" it was released on November 17, 2025

    In XYBM 144, I sit down with Professor Odi — a psychotherapist doing incredible work with Black men in our community @blackmansafehaven. For his third appearance — and part two of a two-part series — Odi returns to share new insights on his personal stories of depression, suicidal ideation, and heartbreak, offering advice to Black men struggling with self-worth and societal expectations.

    Tune in on all podcast streaming platforms, including YouTube.

    Leave a 5-star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this episode or a previous episode!

    HOW TO FIND A DOPE, BLACK THERAPIST:
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    Looking for a Black therapist? Sign up to our webinar where we’ll either teach you how to find a therapist or connect you with one from our network, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/sign-up-htfadbt

    We have had 5K+ people sign up for this webinar in the past. Don’t miss out. Slots are limited.


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    SAFE HAVEN:
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    Safe Haven is a holistic healing platform built for Black men by Black men. In Safe Haven, you will be connected with a Black mental health professional, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about AND you will receive support from like-minded Black men that are all on their healing journey, so you don’t have to heal alone.

    Join Safe Haven Now: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven


    SUPPORT THE PLATFORM:
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    11 分
  • XYBM Clips: Black therapist explains why Black men say “I’m good” when we’re not
    2025/11/25
    If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 144) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 144: Why are BLACK MEN so ANGRY? (Part 2) with Odi" it was released on November 17, 2025

    In XYBM 144, I sit down with Professor Odi — a psychotherapist doing incredible work with Black men in our community @blackmansafehaven. For his third appearance — and part two of a two-part series — Odi returns to share new insights on his personal stories of depression, suicidal ideation, and heartbreak, offering advice to Black men struggling with self-worth and societal expectations.

    Tune in on all podcast streaming platforms, including YouTube.

    Leave a 5-star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this episode or a previous episode!

    HOW TO FIND A DOPE, BLACK THERAPIST:
    ————————————
    Looking for a Black therapist? Sign up to our webinar where we’ll either teach you how to find a therapist or connect you with one from our network, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/sign-up-htfadbt

    We have had 5K+ people sign up for this webinar in the past. Don’t miss out. Slots are limited.


    BOOK US FOR SPEAKING + BRAND DEALS:
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    Explore our diverse collaboration opportunities as the leading and fastest-growing Black men's mental health platform on social media. Let's create something dope for your brand/company. Take the first step by filling out the form on our website:

    https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/speaking-brand-deals


    SAFE HAVEN:
    ————————————
    Safe Haven is a holistic healing platform built for Black men by Black men. In Safe Haven, you will be connected with a Black mental health professional, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about AND you will receive support from like-minded Black men that are all on their healing journey, so you don’t have to heal alone.

    Join Safe Haven Now: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven


    SUPPORT THE PLATFORM:
    ————————————
    Safe Haven: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven
    Monthly Donation: https://buy.stripe.com/eVa5o0fhw1q3guYaEE
    Merchandise: https://shop.expressyourselfblackman.com


    FOLLOW US:
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    TikTok: @expressyourselfblackman (https://www.tiktok.com/@expressyourselfblackman) Instagram: Host: @expressyourselfblackman (https://www.instagram.com/expressyourselfblackman)
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    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ExpressYourselfBlackMan
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/expressyourselfblackman
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    10 分
  • BEST MOMENTS of Ep. 144 with Odi
    2025/11/24
    If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 144) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 144: Why are BLACK MEN so ANGRY? (Part 2) with Odi" it was released on November 17, 2025

    In XYBM 144, I sit down with Professor Odi — a psychotherapist doing incredible work with Black men in our community @blackmansafehaven. For his third appearance — and part two of a two-part series — Odi returns to share new insights on his personal stories of depression, suicidal ideation, and heartbreak, offering advice to Black men struggling with self-worth and societal expectations.

    Tune in on all podcast streaming platforms, including YouTube.

    Leave a 5-star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this episode or a previous episode!

    HOW TO FIND A DOPE, BLACK THERAPIST:
    ————————————
    Looking for a Black therapist? Sign up to our webinar where we’ll either teach you how to find a therapist or connect you with one from our network, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/sign-up-htfadbt

    We have had 5K+ people sign up for this webinar in the past. Don’t miss out. Slots are limited.


    BOOK US FOR SPEAKING + BRAND DEALS:
    ————————————
    Explore our diverse collaboration opportunities as the leading and fastest-growing Black men's mental health platform on social media. Let's create something dope for your brand/company. Take the first step by filling out the form on our website:

    https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/speaking-brand-deals


    SAFE HAVEN:
    ————————————
    Safe Haven is a holistic healing platform built for Black men by Black men. In Safe Haven, you will be connected with a Black mental health professional, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about AND you will receive support from like-minded Black men that are all on their healing journey, so you don’t have to heal alone.

    Join Safe Haven Now: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven


    SUPPORT THE PLATFORM:
    ————————————
    Safe Haven: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven
    Monthly Donation: https://buy.stripe.com/eVa5o0fhw1q3guYaEE
    Merchandise: https://shop.expressyourselfblackman.com


    FOLLOW US:
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    TikTok: @expressyourselfblackman (https://www.tiktok.com/@expressyourselfblackman) Instagram: Host: @expressyourselfblackman (https://www.instagram.com/expressyourselfblackman)
    Guest: @professor.odi (https://www.instagram.com/professor.odi/)
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ExpressYourselfBlackMan
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/expressyourselfblackman
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    10 分
  • Ep. 144: Why are BLACK MEN so ANGRY? (Part 2) with Odi
    2025/11/17
    In XYBM 144, I sit down with Professor Odi — a psychotherapist doing incredible work with Black men in our community @blackmansafehaven. For his third appearance — and part two of a two-part series — Odi returns to share new insights on his personal stories of depression, suicidal ideation, and heartbreak, offering advice to Black men struggling with self-worth and societal expectations.

    Tune in on all podcast streaming platforms, including YouTube.

    Leave a 5-star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this episode or a previous episode!


    HOW TO FIND A DOPE, BLACK THERAPIST:
    ————————————
    Looking for a Black therapist? Sign up to our webinar where we’ll either teach you how to find a therapist or connect you with one from our network, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/sign-up-htfadbt

    We have had 5K+ people sign up for this webinar in the past. Don’t miss out. Slots are limited.



    BOOK US FOR SPEAKING + BRAND DEALS:
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    Explore our diverse collaboration opportunities as the leading and fastest-growing Black men's mental health platform on social media. Let's create something dope for your brand/company. Take the first step by filling out the form on our website:

    https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/speaking-brand-deals


    SAFE HAVEN:
    ————————————
    Safe Haven is a holistic healing platform built for Black men by Black men. In Safe Haven, you will be connected with a Black mental health professional, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about AND you will receive support from like-minded Black men that are all on their healing journey, so you don’t have to heal alone.

    Join Safe Haven Now: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven


    SUPPORT THE PLATFORM:
    ————————————
    Safe Haven: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven
    Monthly Donation: https://buy.stripe.com/eVa5o0fhw1q3guYaEE
    Merchandise: https://shop.expressyourselfblackman.com


    FOLLOW US:
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    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ExpressYourselfBlackMan
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/expressyourselfblackman
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    1 時間 13 分
  • XYBM Clips: A lot of Black men feel invisible
    2025/11/12
    If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 143) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 143: Why are BLACK MEN so ANGRY? (Part 1) with Odi" it was released on November 3, 2025.

    In XYBM 143, I sit down with Professor Odi — a psychotherapist doing incredible work with Black men in our community @blackmansafehaven. For his third appearance — and part one of a two-part series — Odi returns to share new insights on the emotional landscape of Black men, exploring why so many feel unseen, unheard, and misunderstood. We unpack the “deficit model” that defines Black men by what they lack, the male loneliness epidemic, and how patriarchy harms everyone — especially those it claims to empower.

    Tune in on all podcast streaming platforms, including YouTube.

    Leave a 5-star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this episode or a previous episode!

    HOW TO FIND A DOPE, BLACK THERAPIST:
    ————————————
    Looking for a Black therapist? Sign up to our webinar where we’ll either teach you how to find a therapist or connect you with one from our network, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/sign-up-htfadbt

    We have had 5K+ people sign up for this webinar in the past. Don’t miss out. Slots are limited.


    BOOK US FOR SPEAKING + BRAND DEALS:
    ————————————
    Explore our diverse collaboration opportunities as the leading and fastest-growing Black men's mental health platform on social media. Let's create something dope for your brand/company. Take the first step by filling out the form on our website:

    https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/speaking-brand-deals


    SAFE HAVEN:
    ————————————
    Safe Haven is a holistic healing platform built for Black men by Black men. In Safe Haven, you will be connected with a Black mental health professional, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about AND you will receive support from like-minded Black men that are all on their healing journey, so you don’t have to heal alone.

    Join Safe Haven Now: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven


    SUPPORT THE PLATFORM:
    ————————————
    Safe Haven: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven
    Monthly Donation: https://buy.stripe.com/eVa5o0fhw1q3guYaEE
    Merchandise: https://shop.expressyourselfblackman.com


    FOLLOW US:
    ————————————
    TikTok: @expressyourselfblackman (https://www.tiktok.com/@expressyourselfblackman) Instagram: Host: @expressyourselfblackman (https://www.instagram.com/expressyourselfblackman)
    Guest: @professor.odi (https://www.instagram.com/professor.odi/)
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ExpressYourselfBlackMan
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/expressyourselfblackman
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    13 分
  • XYBM Clips: Nobody talks about why so many Black men are angry
    2025/11/11
    If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 143) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 143: Why are BLACK MEN so ANGRY? (Part 1) with Odi" it was released on November 3, 2025.

    In XYBM 143, I sit down with Professor Odi — a psychotherapist doing incredible work with Black men in our community @blackmansafehaven. For his third appearance — and part one of a two-part series — Odi returns to share new insights on the emotional landscape of Black men, exploring why so many feel unseen, unheard, and misunderstood. We unpack the “deficit model” that defines Black men by what they lack, the male loneliness epidemic, and how patriarchy harms everyone — especially those it claims to empower.

    Tune in on all podcast streaming platforms, including YouTube.

    Leave a 5-star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this episode or a previous episode!

    HOW TO FIND A DOPE, BLACK THERAPIST:
    ————————————
    Looking for a Black therapist? Sign up to our webinar where we’ll either teach you how to find a therapist or connect you with one from our network, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/sign-up-htfadbt

    We have had 5K+ people sign up for this webinar in the past. Don’t miss out. Slots are limited.


    BOOK US FOR SPEAKING + BRAND DEALS:
    ————————————
    Explore our diverse collaboration opportunities as the leading and fastest-growing Black men's mental health platform on social media. Let's create something dope for your brand/company. Take the first step by filling out the form on our website:

    https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/speaking-brand-deals


    SAFE HAVEN:
    ————————————
    Safe Haven is a holistic healing platform built for Black men by Black men. In Safe Haven, you will be connected with a Black mental health professional, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about AND you will receive support from like-minded Black men that are all on their healing journey, so you don’t have to heal alone.

    Join Safe Haven Now: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven


    SUPPORT THE PLATFORM:
    ————————————
    Safe Haven: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven
    Monthly Donation: https://buy.stripe.com/eVa5o0fhw1q3guYaEE
    Merchandise: https://shop.expressyourselfblackman.com


    FOLLOW US:
    ————————————
    TikTok: @expressyourselfblackman (https://www.tiktok.com/@expressyourselfblackman) Instagram: Host: @expressyourselfblackman (https://www.instagram.com/expressyourselfblackman)
    Guest: @professor.odi (https://www.instagram.com/professor.odi/)
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ExpressYourselfBlackMan
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/expressyourselfblackman
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    14 分