In this bonus episode for International Women's Day, Bev Williams is interviewed by her long-time friend Roslyn Robertson. They discuss the theme of giving to gain, the challenges women face in the construction industry, and the importance of mentorship and leadership. Bev shares her personal journey, including her experiences with self-belief, motherhood, the lesson of the Fact or Thought Filter and the pressures of visibility in her career. The conversation highlights the significance of vulnerability, the impact of burnout, and the lessons learned through failure. They conclude with hopes for a more inclusive future in the construction industry and the importance of supporting one another.

Key Insights:

1. Mentoring and Coaching: One of the most rewarding aspects of Bev's career is mentoring others. She finds fulfillment in helping individuals navigate their challenges and achieve their goals.

2. Authenticity: In this reinventive stage, it's essential to allow yourself to be authentic. Bev believes that shedding the need to please others leads to greater clarity and confidence.

3. Neuroscience of Change: Bev discusses a fascinating concept from neuroscience about how as we age, our brains undergo changes that allow us to prioritise what truly matters. This process can lead to a significant shift in how we perceive ourselves and our roles in society.

4. Clarity Over Complexity: The clarity that comes from embracing your true self is liberating. It allows you to focus on what truly matters rather than conforming to external pressures.

Takeaways:

· Giving is not a subtraction, but a multiplication of impact.

· Leadership is about authenticity and resilience.

· Fact vs. Thought is a powerful tool for clarity.

· Vulnerability does not equate to victimhood.

· Burnout is a significant issue for women in leadership.

· Failure can lead to personal growth and understanding.

· Visibility in the workplace is essential for success.

For more information on the 3 phases of a woman's career please head to the resources section at www.breathecoaching.co.uk

Breathe by Becky Hemsley https://breathecoaching.co.uk/poem-breathe/

Ellen Scherr article: https://themidst.substack.com/p/aging-out-of-fcks

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction

00:04 Learning from Failure and Vulnerability

35:12 The Pressure of Hyper Visibility

38:04 Supporting Women in Construction

41:50 Hopes for the Future of Construction