Church can be one of the hardest places to be when you're grieving—and yet, it can be one of the most vital. In this conversation, Kristin sits down with author and pastor Eric Schumacher to talk honestly about when church feels hard, especially after loss.

Together they explore why gathering with believers can stir both comfort and pain, how shame often gets tangled up with sorrow in church settings, and what helps us keep showing up when it would be easier to stay home. Eric shares from his own experience of pastoring through grief and reminds us of the beauty of being part of Christ's body—even when (or especially when) our hearts feel heavy.

They also discuss:

• The importance of hearing others sing, pray, and confess when we're hurting

• How baptism and communion point us back to our hope in Christ

• Practical ways churches can better care for grieving families

• What it means to be "saved into a family" rather than a solo faith

If being in church feels especially tender right now, this episode is for you. May it remind you that Jesus has not given up on His Church, no matter how difficult things may appear.

Links:

Dads Hurt Too: A Father's Memoir of Miscarriage

Eric Schumacher

Rediscover Church: Why the Body of Christ Is Essential (The Gospel Coalition and 9Marks) by Collin Hansen and Jonathan Leeman

Hope Mommies Website

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In Loving Memory

This episode of the Hope Mommies Podcast is sponsored by the McInerney Family, in honor of Teagan Paul McInerney. The McInerney Family shares,

"Happy birthday, beloved boy! How humbling to think you've been part of our family for 6 years. We miss you greatly, but rejoice knowing that heaven is your home and one day Jesus will call us to Himself and reunite us all. What a day that will be! Holding onto hope and eternal purpose has been one of the most challenging journeys of our lives - yet until we are together, we promise to send hugs and kisses and keep looking for Teagan Turtles!"

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With Special Thanks

This episode of the Hope Mommies Podcast is made possible by Dads Hurt Too: A Father's Memoir of Miscarriage by Eric M. Schumacher.

Miscarriage is not only a mother's grief—dads hurt too. In this honest and grace-filled memoir, Eric opens his heart about his own journey through loss, giving voice to a sorrow many fathers silently carry. With humility and hope, he reminds dads that their grief matters and that they are not alone.

This short, accessible book offers gospel-centered comfort for fathers in the raw hours and weeks after loss, pointing them to the God who draws near to the brokenhearted and promises resurrection through Jesus Christ.

Dads Hurt Too is a meaningful resource for grieving dads, as well as for friends, family, and church leaders who want to care for them well. Order your copy of Dads Hurt Too by Eric M. Schumacher on Amazon.

The Hope Mommies Podcast is a ministry of Hope Mommies, a non-profit 501(c)3 organization that exists to bring bereaved families comfort, encouragement, and relational support as they continue to walk this side of eternity without their beloved son or daughter. The music used is Sparrow Song, courtesy of Katie Cobbs and Flourish Creative.