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“God often gives a word before He gives understanding, so the heart learns to listen before it learns to define.”

In this episode with Tajala Battle-Lockhart, we explore what she calls her “re-season,” a deeply personal journey that began after the end of a 23-year marriage and unfolded through grief counseling, faith, reflection, and intentional stillness. Taj shares how releasing her mother’s ashes, shedding titles, and spending three years in sacred isolation helped her reset her life from the inside out to become who she was always meant to be.

If you’ve ever found yourself at the end of a chapter you didn’t choose or felt called to start over without knowing how, this episode will remind you that your re-season can begin the moment you decide to make room for what’s next.

Song of the week: Feeling Good by Nina Simone

Topics Covered:

00:00:00 – Episode snippet

01:25 – Introducing our guest, Tajala “Taj” Battle-Lockhart

03:03 – What is a re-season?

07:16 – Making room through letting go

10:25 – Words matter

13:06 – Key “re-words” on the healing journey

16:27 – The reveal: Daughter mirrors blind spots

18:17 – Learning self-reassurance

20:06 – The role of isolation in healing

22:32 – Pouring into others with more intention

25:10 – Relaunching “Phenomenal Young Women/Men”

28:32 – Start with honesty

31:03 – Ambushed by grief

33:31 – Protecting space, energy, and peace

36:01 – Our children are watching our healing

38:00 – Anchoring

42:00 – Connect with Tajala Battle

Key Takeaways:

“We have to be cautious of the words that we use, because it can be misleading, and somebody that we're trying to provide a message to can be fed incorrectly.”

About Our Guest:

Tajala “Taj” Battle-Lockhart, CHE, CSCC, is a Licensed REALTOR, Certified Hospitality Educator, College & Career Advisor, and award-winning Nonprofit Executive. With over 26 years of experience, she helps students, families, and professionals prepare for their future with confidence. Through her work in education, real estate, and community programs, Taj is committed to empowering people to grow, rebuild, and move forward.

Connect with Tajala Battle:

Web: https://www.tajconsultingevents.com/

FB: https://www.facebook.com/tajala.battle/

IG: https://www.instagram.com/tajconsultingevents/

About Your Host

Dr. Nicole is a pediatrician, the owner of a successful healthcare consulting company, a riveting keynote and TEDx speaker, and the mom of two beautiful young adult daughters. From the outside, she appeared to have it all. But in 2023 she faced the most difficult challenge of her life- ending a 28-year marriage and navigating heartbreak, deception, and loss. Dr. Nicole is committed to creating a safe space where other women who have experienced a “divine disruption” can heal, recover, and THRIVE!

Connect with Dr. Nicole:

Web: https://yournextchapter.co/

IG: https://www.instagram.com/yournextchapter_co

FB:https://www.facebook.com/yournextchapter.co

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