In this episode, Juan and Jenna open up a tender conversation about what happens when love starts to look more like control. Sometimes, our attempts to protect or help the people we care about are really ways we try to manage fear — fear of failure, rejection, or loss.

Together, they explore:

• How control disguises itself as “care”

• Why fear often hides beneath our good intentions

• The difference between protecting and possessing

• What it looks like to love like God — patiently, freely, without manipulation

• How to begin trusting again when control has always felt like safety

Whether you’re a leader, a parent, or a partner, this episode invites you to pause and ask: Is my love freeing the people I care about… or trying to manage them?

Because real love doesn’t tighten its grip — it loosens it.

In this episode, Juan and Jenna open up a tender conversation about what happens when love starts to look more like control. Sometimes, our attempts to protect or help the people we care about are really ways we try to manage fear — fear of failure, rejection, or loss.

Together, they explore:

• How control disguises itself as “care”

• Why fear often hides beneath our good intentions

• The difference between protecting and possessing

• What it looks like to love like God — patiently, freely, without manipulation

• How to begin trusting again when control has always felt like safety

Whether you’re a leader, a parent, or a partner, this episode invites you to pause and ask: Is my love freeing the people I care about… or trying to manage them?

Because real love doesn’t tighten its grip — it loosens it.

1. Where in your life might love have turned into control?

2. What fear might be hiding underneath your desire to manage outcomes?

3. What would it look like to release that control — and trust God with the results?

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