When life hits its hardest moments, most people turn to family and friends. But when those relationships are the ones breaking apart, they turn to someone like Brett Berman — a highly respected family law attorney who’s spent over 20 years guiding people through some of the most emotionally charged chapters of their lives.

In this conversation, Brett pulls back the curtain on family law: the pressure, emotional volatility, court battles, personal toll, and the profound responsibility of helping families move forward. We also go deeper into Brett’s inner compass — his boundaries, struggles with balance, leadership evolution, and the spiritual meaning he finds in service.

This episode is a masterclass in truth-telling about relationships, stress, purpose, parenting, and what it takes to keep going when life demands everything.

Episode Highlights

• How Brett accidentally entered family law and discovered his calling
• Why divorce cases are emotionally raw, unpredictable, and rarely have clear winners
• The truth about mediation, litigation, and protecting children
• Managing emotionally charged clients while telling hard truths
• The difference between being a great lawyer and running a great firm
• Brett’s own divorce and the decision that changed his son’s life
• Leadership, delegation, and building teams in a hybrid world
• Boundaries, burnout, discipline, and staying aligned
• What fulfillment looks like in midlife

In This Episode, You’ll Learn

• What really happens behind the scenes of divorce cases
• The emotional cost of family litigation
• How to support clients without absorbing their pain
• Why boundaries and discipline matter in demanding careers
• How service and perspective shape a meaningful life
• Why “show up every day” still wins

Memorable Quotes

“Nobody whistles their way home from a successful mediation.” “If I don’t manage my boundaries, this job becomes a mistress.” “I became an overnight success — it only took 25 years.” “Hard work, discipline, and serving others… that’s my compass.” “Sometimes the most loving thing you can do is compromise.”

About the Guest — Brett Berman

Brett Berman is the managing partner of Moder Berman in Los Angeles, with nearly 25 years of experience handling high-conflict divorces, custody disputes, and complex financial cases. He has published in the LA Daily Journal, lectured on divorce taxation, judged statewide mock trials, and volunteered extensively with the LA Domestic Violence Project. He also serves on the board of the ACFLS Charitable Foundation, supporting families affected by domestic violence, elder abuse, and fractured relationships.

About the Host — Andy Petranek

Andy Petranek is an Executive Leadership & Fulfillment Coach for high-achieving entrepreneurs and executives facing burnout or disconnection. A former Marine officer, professional athlete, and lifelong entrepreneur, Andy helps leaders succeed without losing themselves, their relationships, or their peace.

Connect: andypetranek.com | @andypetranek