Episode 3: The Map of Deeper Connection: Understanding the Six Dimensions of Relationship

In this episode of The Deeper by Design Podcast, Dr. Trevor Hislop introduces one of the foundational tools behind his clinical and relational work: The Relational Funnel.

The Relational Funnel helps us understand the six dimensions of connection and why relationships often move from more surface-level connection toward deeper, more vulnerable connection. It also highlights one of the most important realities of relational health: connection continues with the presence of safety, and protection happens in the absence of safety.

Trevor explains why the funnel has become a signature part of his work and how it helped shape the development of Renovi Relational Therapy. He also connects the framework to the heart of Deeper by Design: we are designed by God for deep connection, and we can design deeper connection through intentional practice.

In this episode, we explore:

• Why the Relational Funnel is part of the Deeper by Design logo
• How connection deepens through six interconnected dimensions
• Why emotional safety is essential for deeper vulnerability
• The difference between surface-level connection and deeper relational intimacy
• How protection shows up when safety is missing
• Why not every relationship is meant to move to the deepest level
• How to reflect on where connection is strongest and where it feels limited
  

The six dimensions of the Relational Funnel are:

1. Physical — shared presence
2. Experiential — shared experience
3. Intellectual — shared thoughts, ideas, and opinions
4. Emotional — shared feelings, fears, and longings
5. Spiritual — shared meaning, values, and purpose
6. Aspirational — shared hopes, dreams, and future
   

This episode is for anyone who wants to better understand relational depth, emotional safety, connection, attachment, communication, spiritual formation, leadership health, marriage, family systems, and the patterns that help relationships move from protection toward connection.

View the Relational Funnel visual:
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Learn more about Dr. Trevor Hislop, Renovi Relational Therapy, and additional resources at:
trevorhislop.com