What is internalized misogyny, how does it form, and how it shows up in everyday life — even among feminists? Bethany breaks down the science, calls out examples (yes, even the “I’m not like other women” energy), and gives practical strategies to unlearn harmful beliefs. Includes research-backed insights, real-life examples, and resources to keep growing. Trigger warning: discussion of gendered harassment, mental health, suicide, and body policing

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