In this episode of But Did You Die?, we unpack why love feels unfamiliar—and sometimes irritating—after years of living in survival mode. Using the viral “Club Husband Video By T-Pain” moment as a teaching tool, we explore how leadership, clarity, and emotional safety show up outside of what you learn in survival. This conversation challenges why “your type” keeps failing you and how familiarity is often mistaken for chemistry. We also examine how irritation can be the first sign of healing when safety finally arrives. If you’re unlearning survival-based dating and ready for love that feels steady, regulated, and real—this episode is for you.

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