A lot of the women I work with are carrying the same fear: the fear of disappointing other people. We were taught that being good means being nice, low-maintenance, and emotionally contained–even when it costs us. But staying silent doesn’t just strain our relationships; it takes a real toll on our bodies and our health. In this episode, I explore how self-silencing is making women sick, why it quietly creates resentment and loneliness, and simple ways to start speaking up and building more health, honesty, and real connection in your life. Here’s what I cover:

• A Time article that dives into the statistics and psychology behind women and self-silencing
• How staying quiet to keep the peace actually prevents real closeness
• The cultural conditioning that causes self-silencing and why it’s not your fault
• Why your emotions are a rich source of information about your needs and well-being
• Three core skills that will help you be more honest without abandoning yourself

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