Intro
Too many engineers stall their careers waiting for certainty, consensus, or approval. In this episode, Steve and Jake break down how professional judgment is actually built long before you earn a senior title. This is a direct conversation about agency, decision-making, and why deferring responsibility feels safe but quietly kills momentum. Not theory, practical, tactical advice you can apply immediately to stand out, gain trust, and move faster without burning out.

Key Topics Covered
• Why waiting for certainty is one of the most common career-limiting habits in engineering
• How constant deferral disguises itself as collaboration and delegation
• The difference between sharing information and driving a decision
• How to present recommendations without overstepping authority
• Using partial information to move work forward responsibly
• Why leaders expect engineers to guide decisions, not just supply data
• How fear of being wrong suppresses growth and confidence
• Borrowing judgment from others without becoming dependent
• Using AI and senior engineers as thinking partners, not crutches

Actionable Steps
• Replace asking for answers with proposing 2 to 3 viable solutions
• State your recommendation clearly and explain why you believe it is best
• Use “What could break this?” to pressure-test your own ideas
• Treat the urge to ask permission as a trigger to form a recommendation first
• Ask who the decision is for and what outcome they actually need
• Accept being wrong as part of building judgment, not a failure
• Stay engaged even after pushback instead of retreating
• Track how often your recommendations influence final decisions
• Use tools and mentors to challenge your thinking, not replace it

Who This Episode Is For
• Early-career engineers who feel stuck or overlooked
• High-performing ICs who want leadership without burnout
• Engineers afraid of making the wrong call
• Professionals who defer too often in meetings
• Anyone who wants more ownership, trust, and visibility

Why It Matters
Careers don’t stall because of a lack of intelligence. They stall because of a lack of agency. Engineers who build judgment early earn trust faster, reduce friction for leaders, and create momentum without waiting to be told what to do. Visibility, energy, and impact all grow when you stop waiting for permission and start owning decisions.

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