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Episode 14 - Sparkle Spikes & Turdy

Episode 14 - Sparkle Spikes & Turdy

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What Bali Taught Us About Parenting, Neurodivergence & Letting Go Fresh off the annual Solo Mum Society Bali trip, Alisha and Rhiannon sit down for an honest post-holiday debrief. What started as a conversation about forgotten chargers, unnecessary scooters and overpacked suitcases quickly became a much deeper discussion about neurodivergence, parenting expectations, mum guilt and what children actually need from a family holiday. This year’s trip looked very different from previous years. With an all-inclusive resort, kids club, nightly shows and dozens of solo mums and children spending time together, there were plenty of opportunities to learn what worked, what didn’t, and what they'll be doing differently next time. Alisha shares her struggle with feeling guilty about using kids club while balancing work commitments, while Rhiannon offers a different perspective: what if the kids were genuinely having the time of their lives? Together they explore: Why parents often create pressure around "quality time"The reality of travelling with neurodivergent childrenHow overstimulation affects both adults and kidsWhy holidays don't always look the way we imagineThe importance of flexibility and adjusting expectationsWhat happens when routines disappearLearning to trust that children can enjoy experiences differently from us The episode is packed with funny travel stories, practical lessons and relatable moments for any parent who has ever planned the perfect holiday only to discover their child had a completely different idea of what fun looks like. 💡 What We Talk About in This Episode • The Solo Mum Society Bali trip debrief • What we packed but never used • The items we forgot and wished we'd brought • Overpacking, underpacking and ADHD travel habits • Why kids club became one of the children's favourite experiences • Mum guilt and balancing work while travelling with children • Neurodivergence, overstimulation and holiday overwhelm • The importance of realistic expectations on family holidays • Sleepovers, chosen family and travelling with close friends • Miscommunication, language barriers and travel logistics • The hilarious time-zone mix-up that nearly caused panic on day one • Why flexibility often creates better holidays than rigid plans 🔑 Key Takeaways • Children often define a successful holiday very differently from adults. • Parents frequently put pressure on themselves to create "perfect" family moments that their children may not even want. • Kids club isn't a sign of poor parenting—it can be one of the highlights of a child's holiday experience. • Neurodivergent adults and children can become overstimulated by exciting experiences just as much as stressful ones. • Holidays often require letting go of expectations and responding to what's actually happening in front of you. • Packing lists only work if you actually follow them. • Sometimes the biggest lesson is discovering that your child was happier than you realised. ✈️ Travel Lessons We Learned Things We'd Do Again Choose family-friendly resortsBook connecting rooms whenever possibleUse kids club without guiltBuild opportunities for children to socialiseCreate flexibility rather than over-schedulingPrioritise experiences over perfect plans Things We'd Skip Next Time Bringing scooters that never get usedPacking multiple "just in case" outfitsOverthinking every detail before departureAssuming children will enjoy activities the same way adults doCreating unnecessary pressure around holiday expectations Practical Travel Reminders Double-check chargers, adapters and convertersKeep a dedicated travel supplies box for future tripsReview your packing list before you leaveAllow extra time for adjustments to new environmentsRemember that holiday success isn't measured by productivity 🧠 Neurodivergent Travel Insights This episode highlights something many neurodivergent families experience: Excitement can be just as overwhelming as stress. When children are having the time of their lives, they're often processing huge amounts of stimulation, social interaction, change and emotion. The result can sometimes look like emotional outbursts, big feelings or unexpected behaviour. The same is true for adults. Whether it's navigating a new environment, managing expectations, handling logistics or simply being away from familiar routines, travel can bring both incredible joy and unexpected challenges. 👩‍👧 Who This Episode Is For This episode is for: • Solo parents travelling with children • ADHD and autistic adults • Parents of neurodivergent children • Families planning holidays • Anyone who struggles with mum guilt • Parents who feel pressure to create perfect family experiences • People who overpack, overthink and still forget something important 💬 A Message From This Episode Your child doesn't need the perfect holiday. They don't need every minute planned, endless activities or ...
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