Episode 10: Sibling Rivalry — Rethinking Fairness at Home

In this episode, Rebecca and Belann unpack the roots of sibling rivalry and explore why striving for perfect fairness can sometimes make things worse. Learn how to help your kids navigate feelings of unfairness, celebrate their differences, and build stronger, more understanding relationships with each other.

They answer the questions:

• What is the role of the concept of fairness in sibling rivalry and how does it impact children?

• Why might striving for fairness (in the sense of equality) actually exacerbate conflict between siblings?

• How can parents help children understand and accept differences between siblings, instead of consistently treating everything as “fair”?

• How can parents support children in navigating feelings of unfairness—rather than simply trying to make everything equal?

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