Dating choices don’t just shape romance, they shape your nervous system, your sleep, and the story you tell yourself about who you are. We sit down with licensed therapist and social worker Jenna Myers to map the real links between relationships and mental health, from the lift of secure attachment to the toll of criticism, conflict, and constant anxiety. If you’ve ever wondered why the first months feel magical and then turn messy, this conversation offers a practical lens and a calmer pace.

We dig into green flags that actually matter, emotional regulation, vulnerability that feels safe, and partners who protect your individuality rather than consume it. Jenna breaks down love bombing, the neurochemistry behind that early rush, and a simple 90–120 day window that reveals character under stress. You’ll learn how to separate wants from needs, set boundaries rooted in values, and say them out loud so respect isn’t left to chance. For teens and parents, we unpack why young brains magnify heartbreak and how listening, validation, and quick connection to trusted adults can prevent isolation and risky choices.

The episode also looks at system health: how nightly fights rob sleep, how worry kills appetite, and how fatigue erodes resilience. We share ways to create closure when you won’t get it from someone else, keep therapy as prevention rather than a last resort, and notice the moment your gut says something’s off. Expect clear tools, steady encouragement, and the reminder that hopelessness is a state, not a sentence.

If you’re ready to choose better, heal cleaner, and feel more like yourself, press play, take notes, and share this with someone who needs a healthier map for love. Subscribe, leave a review, and tell us the boundary you’re setting next.

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