Ep. 72 The psychology of texting, attachment, & digital boundaries
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In this episode, we unpack the psychology of texting and how digital communication can quietly reinforce anxious, avoidant, or disorganized attachment patterns — especially when there are no facial cues, tone, or real-time context to ground us.
We talk about:
- Why texting feels so emotionally charged
- How anxious, avoidant, and disorganized attachment show up in texting behaviors
- Long silences, delayed replies, over-texting, under-texting, and “reading into it”
- How constant contact can blur boundaries and imitate intimacy that isn’t actually there
- Why always being “on” robs us of self-soothing and distress tolerance skills
- When texting supports secure attachment — and when it undermines it
- Why calling and in-person connection matter more than we think
I also share how my own relationship to texting has changed — from using it as a way to create closeness and reassurance, to letting connection develop without forcing constant contact.
If you’ve ever spiraled over a text, avoided replying altogether, or felt like your phone had way too much power over your mood — this episode is for you.
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