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Ep.6 - How to Have Hard Conversations | Wounds, Wisdom, and the Word Podcast

Ep.6 - How to Have Hard Conversations | Wounds, Wisdom, and the Word Podcast

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 Watch the video version here: https://youtu.be/m9B3ApazFfIEmail us @ Jimdouglasgregory@gmail.com🎙️ Show Notes — Episode: How to Have Hard ConversationsHosts:Jamie Shepherd — Counselor and communication coachDoug Gregory — Minister and co-hostOverview:This episode explores how to navigate difficult conversations—the kind that most people avoid but desperately need. Jamie and Doug discuss practical wisdom rooted in Scripture and real-life experience for creating healthy dialogue, maintaining peace, and promoting understanding in relationships, marriages, workplaces, and churches.🧠 Main Themes & Key Insights1. Why We Avoid Hard ConversationsFear of conflict, rejection, or escalation often keeps people silent.Avoidance breeds stress, resentment, and misunderstanding.Doug shares how one good conversation can often dissolve long-standing tension.2. The Role of Psychological Safety“Psychological safety” means both people feel safe enough to speak honestly without fear of attack.Once safety is lost, people stop listening and start fighting.Proverbs 15:1 — “A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” (ESV)3. Speaking the Truth in LoveEphesians 4:15 — “Rather, speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way into him who is the head, into Christ.” (ESV)Truth without love crushes; love without truth deceives.Learn to balance honesty with gentleness and tact.4. Learning from Paul on Mars Hill (Acts 17:22-31)Paul began with common ground, not condemnation.He acknowledged the Athenians’ religious zeal before guiding them to truth.Effective communication starts with shared humanity: “Find what you have in common before pointing out where you differ.”5. Building Bridges Instead of WallsThe root of “communication” is “common.” It’s about making understanding common between two minds.Look for shared values—family, faith, purpose—as foundations for hard discussions.6. Avoiding Assumptions“Assumptions sink ships.”Clarify motives before reacting; ask, don’t assume.Example: The subway story of a father and his children reminds us not to judge before we know the full story.7. Using ‘I’ Statements Instead of ‘You’ Statements“You” language provokes defensiveness; “I” language invites empathy.Example: Instead of saying “You canceled and ruined my day,” say “I felt disappointed when we couldn’t record because I value our project.”8. Preparing for Crucial ConversationsDon’t go in impulsively. Prepare emotionally and mentally.Be ready to hear hard truths, not just speak them.Focus on seeking understanding, not control.9. Self-Worth and AdvocacyOften, we avoid hard talks because we doubt our worth.You can’t wait for others to advocate for you—you must speak up for yourself with humility and respect.“Nobody will advocate for you like you.”10. Application to Marriage and Everyday LifeMany marriage conflicts stem from silence, not shouting.“We don’t ever fight” often means “we don’t ever talk.”Growth comes through honest, grace-filled communication.📖 Key Scriptures:Proverbs 15:1 – A soft answer turns away wrath.Ephesians 4:15 – Speak the truth in love.Acts 17:22-31 – Paul finds common ground at Mars Hill.Matthew 18:15 – Go directly to your brother to resolve conflict.💬 Quotes to Remember:“You may be right—but in the wrong tone.” – Doug Gregory“Assumptions sink ships.” – Jamie Shepherd“You statements are the quickest way to put someone on the defensive.” – Doug Gregory“Nobody will advocate for you like you.” – Doug Gregory🛠️ Practical TakeawaysCreate safety before speaking truth.Use I feel… when… because… statements.Ask questions to understand, not accuse.Release the need to control the outcome.Build bridges with empathy and shared values.Prepare prayerfully and emotionally before hard talks.💌 Listener Invitation:Have a question about a difficult conversation in your life? Email your scenario (without names) for a possible future Q&A episode at: jimdouglasgregory@gmail.com
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