Welcome back to the second part of our incredible
conversation with renowned autism consultant and educator, Melissa Reiner. In
this episode, we dive deeper into the practical side of parent training and
explore how we can better communicate with neurodivergent children. Melissa
shares her powerful evolution from working as a one-on-one therapeutic
companion to collaborating with the entire family unit to foster true
connection and growth.

We explore the vital importance of understanding the
"why" behind a child's behavior, rather than simply reacting to it.
Melissa also introduces her transformative OGC technique (Observe, Guess,
Explore, Communicate) and explains how shifting from questions and commands to
simple "I statements" can drastically reduce a child's anxiety.
Furthermore, she offers profound insights on navigating divorce and
co-parenting while prioritizing the emotional well-being of the kids. Melissa's
broader mission to support families shines through every story and strategy she
shares.

Key Talking Points:


Parent
Training Evolution: Melissa discusses how her practice shifted from
one-on-one therapy to collaborating with the whole family, including
siblings and grandparents, to advocate effectively for children.



Understanding
the "Why": Discover why looking past the surface of a
behavior to understand the root cause is essential. Melissa shares a
touching story of a child struggling on the playground simply because he
did not know how to play.



The
Power of "I Statements": Learn how questions and commands
can trigger anxiety, and how replacing them with simple, factual "I
statements" creates a calmer environment.



The
OGC Technique: Melissa breaks down her step-by-step communication
framework: Observe without judgment, Guess the child's feelings, Explore
the reasons why, and Communicate through collaboration.



Navigating
Divorce and Co-Parenting: We share personal experiences and vital
advice on communicating with children during a divorce, emphasizing the
need to validate their feelings and reassure them that they remain a
family.



Conversation
over Confrontation: An exclusive sneak peek into Melissa's upcoming
book, which is packed with real-life stories from her incredible work with
families.


Resources Mentioned:

Company Name: Melissa Reiner Speaks

Website: http://Www.AskMNow.com

Phone Number: (818) 613-1793

E-mail: MReinerSpeaks@gmail.com

Linkedin Profile Link: https://linkedin.com/in/melissa-reiner-med-9a880823

Instagram Profile Link: https://Instagram.com/MelissaReinerSpeaks



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