Ever feel like you're failing at something new? Like maybe you should just quit before embarrassing yourself? That's exactly where I found myself recently - hesitating to record this podcast after taking time off for my new full-time job. But then I remembered a pivotal moment with my teenage daughter that changed everything.

When my daughter asked to make cloud bread in our kitchen, my first instinct was to say no. Kitchen messes stress me out, and I knew the first attempt would likely fail. But something made me say yes - and what followed was a masterclass in persistence. After seven failed attempts, detailed note-taking, and countless eggs, she finally created the perfect, fluffy cloud bread. The kitchen was a disaster, but the lesson was priceless: consistent effort combined with intentional reflection leads to growth.

This principle has transformed how my family manages our chaotic schedule with five kids, two full-time careers, and both parents in school. Instead of completely overhauling our systems when things get overwhelming, we identify one specific adjustment to make each week. We take notes, track results, and gradually build processes that work. The results aren't instant, but they're sustainable.

Whether you're struggling with establishing routines, building habits, or simply getting out the door with kids on time, remember: consistency matters, but not just any consistency. It must be paired with reflection and adjustment. Let yourself make messes, take notes on what works, and keep showing up. What's your "cloud bread moment"? I'd love to hear what you're consistently working toward even when it's difficult. Message me on Instagram @onestrongmother_ashleym

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