On the 26th of March 2026, the Institute for Fiscal Studies — one of the UK's most respected independent economic research institutions published a report on the economic consequences of gender-based violence. The headline finding: a permanent 12% drop in income for survivors of domestic abuse. Not temporary. Permanent.

In this episode, J'K responds to that report in real time. She connects the number to her own experience on both sides of employment navigating therapy, PTSD, court cases, and the daily performance of being fine. She traces a straight line from a legal doctrine written in 1736 to a report published this week. And she asks the question the data now makes impossible to avoid: who has been paying, and for how long?

KEY TOPICS

— The IFS report published 26th March 2026 and why it matters

— The 12% permanent income drop and what career scarring actually means

— The history of UK law written without women in mind — from 1736 to 2026

— The survivor tax as it falls on anyone surviving the unbearable and still showing up

— The employed experience: return-to-work pressure, mask-switching, and performing fine

— The freelance experience: invisible stress, no safety net, delivering anyway

— The Commitment Gap: why strategies exist but infrastructure does not

— IWD 2026: two themes, eighteen days apart — Give to Gain versus Rights, Justice, Action

— Safe leave, financial discretion, and named accountability in the workplace

— The Flow 60 framework and operating on a 58% deficit

— Dr Maya Angelou on defeat, rising, and knowing your own strength

— Reclaiming the 12%: from surviving the dark night to lighting it up

RESOURCES & REFERENCES

IFS Report — Economic Consequences of Gender-Based Violence (26th March 2026)

ifs.org.uk/articles/economic-consequences-gender-based-violence

Institute for Fiscal Studies — Homepage

ifs.org.uk

R v R [1991] UKHL 12 — House of Lords judgment abolishing the marital rape exemption

bailii.org/uk/cases/UKHL/1991/12.html

Istanbul Convention — Council of Europe key facts

coe.int/en/web/istanbul-convention/key-facts

UK ratification of the Istanbul Convention — House of Lords Library

lordslibrary.parliament.uk/istanbul-convention

UK VAWG Strategy — Freedom from Violence and Abuse (December 2025)

gov.uk/government/publications/violence-against-women-and-girls-strategy

The Commitment Gap — J'K Frederick, The Convening (2026) linkedin.com/in/jkfrederick

Domestic Abuse Safe Leave Bill — Parliamentary debate June 2025

bills.parliament.uk

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