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Most people believe that once an advance directive is signed, their wishes are protected. But for countless families — including those navigating advanced dementia — that piece of paper isn't enough. In this weekly dispatch episode, we explore why advance directives so often fail in practice, what it looks like to truly advocate for a dying loved one inside a medical system that defaults to more treatment, and what you can do right now to make sure your wishes — or someone you love — are actually honored. Inspired by a powerful New York Times story that sparked important questions about dying, dignity, and the limits of paperwork.

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

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