There are moments when illness doesn't just affect the body — it quietly changes the way we relate to ourselves.

In this episode, Connie shares the moment she realized she wasn't failing at healing — she was living against herself. Not because she lacked discipline, intelligence, or effort, but because she was trying to survive inside systems that couldn't see her whole.

This is not a story about blame or fixing. It's a story about misalignment, self-abandonment, and the subtle ways capable people learn to distrust their own signals when answers don't come.

2:00 – Living Between Health and Illness

2:25 – The Day I Realized I Was Living Against Myself

3:32 – High-Functioning While Falling Apart

4:58 – When Medicine Has No Answers, Self-Blame Begins

5:43 – Editing Your Intuition & Self-Abandonment

6:55 – Misalignment vs Resilience (The Hidden Cost)

8:42 – Effort Is Not Safety

10:29 – The Real Damage Isn't the Illness

15:54 – You Don't Need to Try Harder — You Need a Map

If you've ever:

• done everything "right" and still felt off

• blamed yourself when things didn't resolve

• stayed functional while quietly disconnecting from your body

• felt strong on the outside and misaligned on the inside

This episode will likely feel uncomfortably familiar — and deeply relieving. This podcast is part of EASE OS™, a system for human coherence. Not optimization. Not bypassing. But learning how to live as a whole human again.

Be sure to subscribe to our podcast and YouTube channel so you never miss an episode of the EASE OS: Less Effort, More Power! We release new episodes every week.

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What happens when hope doesn't save you — but reveals the truth?

In this deeply personal manifesto episode, Dr. Connie Cheung shares how kidney failure, repeated near-transplants, and life on dialysis dismantled a false identity built on performance, resilience, and survival — and returned her to herself.

This is not a story of toxic positivity or glossy healing. It's a meditation on paradox:

✨ gratitude and grief

✨ hope and fear

✨ control and surrender

✨ survival and freedom

Drawing from lived experience as a patient, clinician, and founder of EASE OS™, this episode explores why healing is not linear, why fixing yourself often perpetuates suffering, and why true wholeness comes from integration — not answers.

You'll hear reflections on:

✔️ Why chronic illness often initiates identity collapse

✔️ The hidden cost of resilience and "being brave"

✔️ Fragmentation in modern healthcare and why integration matters

Carl Jung's idea of individuation, lived — not theorized Why many people are living in lives that don't fit — and how to reorient without abandoning yourself

This episode is for anyone who feels tired of trying to get it right, tired of fixing, tired of forcing certainty — and ready to live with presence instead.

Subscribe, follow, and stay — if you're ready to heal without abandoning yourself.

#healingjourney #chronicillness #kidneyfailure #dialysislife #non-linearhealing #nervoussystemregulation #integrationvsfragmentation #CarlJungindividuation #EASEOS #somatichealing #functionalmedicine #yogaandhealing #emotionalresilience #livingwithuncertainty

Be sure to subscribe to our podcast and YouTube channel so you never miss an episode of the EASE OS: Less Effort, More Power! We release new episodes every week.

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Why Pausing Isn't Falling Behind | Nervous System Healing, Cortisol & Timing.

If you feel like your life or healing journey has slowed down—and part of you is panicking that you're "falling behind"—this conversation is for you.

In this episode, Dr. Connie Cheung explores why pausing often feels like failure, especially for high-achieving, self-aware people navigating health challenges, burnout, or recovery.

This is not a mindset talk.

This is a nervous system conversation.

Inside this episode, you'll learn:

✔️ Why urgency is a nervous system signal, not a personality trait

✔️ How cortisol rises when healing is rushed—and what that does to digestion, hormones, fascia, and focus

✔️ Why timelines and deadlines become emotional safety structures during uncertainty

✔️ What actually happens in the brain when plans change

✔️ Why discipline and willpower can't override physiology

✔️ How pausing with awareness preserves capacity, while pausing with judgment drains it

Dr. Connie also shares lived insight from navigating medical uncertainty, inflammation, body changes, and recovery timelines that were not hers to control—offering grounded wisdom without oversharing or blame.

This episode reframes healing, productivity, and timing through the lens of regulation, safety, and biological truth. If you've tried pushing, forcing, or "powering through" and still don't feel better, this conversation may explain what's been missing.

🌱 Gentle Invitation

This episode is part of a larger conversation on nervous system regulation and whole-system healing. In March, Dr. Connie will be hosting a free 3-part training:

EASE OS™ — Gut–Brain Stability Reset

REGISTER NOW ➡️ https://www.easeossystems.com/ease-os-3day-training-gut-brain-stability

00:00 – Healing Without Forcing | Listening to the Body

01:12 – Stop Overriding Yourself | The Power of Regulation

03:05 – Orientation Explained | Where Real Healing Begins

05:48 – Healing Is Not Something to Chase

08:22 – Nervous System Safety & Inner Permission

11:04 – When the Body Finally Allows Healing

13:10 – Why Pausing Is Not Failure but Growth

15:26 – Healing Becomes Effortless When You Stop Pushing

15:44 – If This Resonated, Here's How to Stay Connected

15:57 – Podcast & YouTube Subscription Invitation

16:04 – When Life Asks You to Pause, Let It

16:18 – Deep Regulation & Growth From Within

16:29 – Reorienting Your Life Requires Letting Go

#NervousSystemRegulation #HealingJourney #BurnoutRecovery #ChronicStress #GutBrainAxis #SomaticHealing #TraumaInformedCare #ChronicIllnessSupport #StressAndCortisol #MindBodyHealing #RegulateDontRush #EASEOS #HealingWisdom #HolisticHealth

Be sure to subscribe to our podcast and YouTube channel so you never miss an episode of the EASE OS: Less Effort, More Power! We release new episodes every week.

Click here to subscribe to our podcast on iTunes: Apple Podcast: EASE OS™: Less Effort, More Power

Click here to subscribe to our podcast on Spotify: Spotify: EASE OS™: Less Effort, More Power

And if you liked this message, please leave us a review on iTunes!.

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