In this episode Evie and Axel discuss roleplay and the role it plays in their relationship and their work as escorts. They look at what roleplay can mean beyond the surface level, and why for both of them specific experiences have been connected to healing rather than just sexual variety.

Evie shares what it meant to finally feel safe enough to access a more vulnerable part of herself that she had kept protected for a long time. Axel reflects on his early sexual experiences in Sweden and what it was like to revisit that time through roleplay with Evie. They also share what each of them wants to explore next.

TOPICS

• Why fear of judgment or ridicule stops most people from ever asking a partner for roleplay in the first place
• What Evie had kept protected for years in sexual contexts, and what it took for her to offer it to someone
• What Axel was trying to reconnect with when Evie put on the blonde wig and changed her whole presence
• How intuition works in offering someone an experience they need without having to script it in advance
• What the difference is between surface-level roleplay and the kind that becomes something more significant
• What Evie and Axel are each looking to explore next

QUOTES

• Evie: "I've found it incredibly edgy and there was a lot of shame, or discomfort attached to role play."
• Axel: "For me, the fear of being ridiculed for the sort of thing I would ask for from my partner would've stopped me from even exploring that."
• Evie: "It's like going back and rewriting the script, re-experiencing it — and that is a healing experience."
• Axel: "I remember afterwards being filled with love and gratitude. You gave me that — it was a gift from you, an offering."
• Evie: "A lot of role play does tap into our deeper selves and allows us to go back and reconnect, remind ourselves that we are worthy, we are capable, we are safe — whatever the message is that we need."

ABOUT

Evie Elysian and Axel Meridius are a real-life Melbourne couple who work together as escorts under the name Evie + Axel. Rawdog is their unfiltered take on sex, intimacy, and what they've learned from years in the adult industry.

This podcast contains explicit sexual content and is intended for adult audiences. Discretion is advised for sensitive listeners.

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• Evie + Axel
• Evie Elysian
• Axel Meridius

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In this episode Evie and Axel discuss the hotwife dynamic and how it differs from cuckolding, both in terms of what drives each arrangement and what it means psychologically for the people involved. They draw on their own relationship and their experience as escorts to explain why the same act can feel completely different depending on the energy and intention behind it.

Axel shares how his position on the idea has shifted dramatically over the past five years and what that process actually looked like. Evie reflects on her own conditioning around wanting multiple male partners, and how that complicated her response to something Axel introduced. Together they get into the psychology of permission, what it means to offer versus concede, and why the person who appears to be giving something up often has more power than it looks.

TOPICS

• How the hotwife and cuckold dynamics differ psychologically even when the physical act looks the same
• Why Axel's response to the idea five years ago was categorically different from his response today
• What Evie found surprisingly difficult to accept, despite having no shame about her work as a sex worker
• What Axel means when he describes sharing Evie as an offering rather than a concession
• How cuckolding can serve a therapeutic function rather than simply being a kink
• Why some experiences feel possible in a professional context but not a personal one, and vice versa

QUOTES

• Axel: "Five years ago, I would've been like, not in a million years would I be able to identify with hotwife energy at any level."
• Evie: "I didn't come to you and say, hey babe, I'd really just love some extra dick, please. Could I have some extra dick? It was more like you came to me. Hey babe would you like some extra dick?"
• Evie: "Thanks for the extra dick."
• Axel: "Right now 50% of the listeners are probably thinking you're a cuck, mate. But it's like, no, no, haha.."
• Evie: "I love me a man sandwich. I've been saying that a lot lately."
• Axel: "I don't mind myself a pussy platter either."

ABOUT

Evie Elysian and Axel Meridius are a real-life Melbourne couple who work together as escorts under the name Evie + Axel. Rawdog is their unfiltered take on sex, intimacy, and what they've learned from years in the adult industry.

This podcast contains explicit sexual content and is intended for adult audiences. Discretion is advised for sensitive listeners.

WEBSITES

• Evie + Axel
• Evie Elysian
• Axel Meridius

SOCIALS

• YouTube
• Instagram
• TikTok

LISTEN

• Spotify
• YouTube
• Apple Podcasts
• Amazon Music
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In this episode Evie and Axel discuss performance anxiety and erectile dysfunction, and how both topics show up consistently in their work as escorts and in Axel's own sexual history. Evie shares what she encounters with most new clients, and why she considers it completely normal despite how distressing it can be for the men involved.

Axel reflects on the impact that watching porn as a teenager had on his sense of sexual adequacy, and the years it took to unlearn the benchmark that it set. Together they work through why most people have never had this conversation, why Viagra is more complicated than advertised, and what it would actually take for things to change.

TOPICS

• Why new clients Evie sees usually experience, and what she tells them about it
• How Axel's early sexual experiences were shaped by watching porn, and what that cost him over time
• What a soft penis actually communicates, and why both men and women tend to read it incorrectly
• Why Viagra often doesn't work for the men who feel they need it most
• Why advice to focus on a partner's pleasure can create more performance pressure, not less
• What Evie thinks the porn industry is missing, and what she believes would change if that content existed

QUOTES

• Axel: "A lot of us have expectations of ourselves that are completely unrealistic, and once we've been deconditioned about them, we have a very different experience of sexuality in general."
• Evie: "I was there once. I felt the same way. I'd be with partners and wonder what's wrong with me, and feel really ashamed of myself — like I wasn't enough."
• Axel: "That's pressure. And nothing gives you anxiety like pressure."
• Axel: "If your body's full of cortisol and adrenaline because you're genuinely scared of screwing up, there's not going to be any nitric oxide to make you hard. Good luck."
• Evie: "You know what? We're going to have a really good time getting you to a place where you can enjoy this experience, and then your cock will join in when it's ready."
• Evie: "Men regularly leave an interaction going: I'm so glad I booked you, because I had no idea this was normal. I honestly thought you were just being nice. I thought I was one of the unlucky ones whose penis just doesn't work properly."

ABOUT

Evie Elysian and Axel Meridius are a real-life Melbourne couple who work together as escorts under the name Evie + Axel. Rawdog is their unfiltered take on sex, intimacy, and what they've learned from years in the adult industry.

This podcast contains explicit sexual content and is intended for adult audiences. Discretion is advised for sensitive listeners.

WEBSITES

• Evie + Axel
• Evie Elysian
• Axel Meridius

SOCIALS

• YouTube
• Instagram
• TikTok

LISTEN

• Spotify
• YouTube
• Apple Podcasts
• Amazon Music
• iHeart Radio
• SoundCloud
• Podcast Addict
• Pocket Casts
• Player FM