Can people actually change… or do we just tell ourselves they can?

This week, I sit down with New York Times Magazine writer and Emerson professor Benoit Denizet-Lewis to talk about his new book You’ve Changed: The Promise and Price of Self-Transformation — and why we’re living in a culture obsessed with reinvention, identity, and becoming “better” versions of ourselves.

We start with a story that genuinely unsettled me: Benoit once watched a colleague go from outspoken gay activist to “ex-gay.” How does something like that happen? And why do we react so strongly when someone transforms in a way we don’t expect?

Because let’s be honest — most of us act like a digital parole board.
We judge.
We doubt.
We question whether someone’s change is “real.”

So what actually makes change possible?

We get into the psychology of self-transformation:

• Does personality really change?
• What stays the same?
• Why does doubt often spark growth?
• Why are some transformations lasting… and others temporary?

Then we zoom out- And here’s where it gets interesting:

The most meaningful change might not come from obsessing over yourself at all.

It might come from relationships. From service. From looking outward instead of inward.

If you’ve ever wondered:

• Can I really change?
• Can someone I love change?
• Or are we all just becoming more extreme versions of who we already are?

This conversation is for you.

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On this episode of Duke’s Download, I’m celebrating some major milestones — one year with my boyfriend Armie, my parents’ 40th anniversary, and an early 34th birthday celebration — before diving into a big announcement: I’ve joined Matt Mahan’s California governor campaign as an LGBTQ+ advisor.

Why?

Because I’m less interested in performative politics and more interested in results.

We talk about what “pragmatic progressivism” actually means — focusing on measurable outcomes around crime, homelessness, government efficiency, and LGBTQ+ rights in California — and why I believe campaigns should be judged on impact, not Instagram captions.

Then it’s time for Ask Duke Anything — and you all did not disappoint.

We cover:
🎬 My all-time favorite films (Platoon, Terminator 1 & 2, Back to the Future)
🎥 New Queer Cinema & today’s LGBTQ+ TV
🇪🇺 Europe vs. America — where would I rather live?
🏳️‍⚧️ Trans rights, political fear tactics & U.S. policy backsliding
⚖️ The Supreme Court and conversion therapy challenges
🌎 Gun violence, healthcare, climate policy & Ukraine

It’s political. It’s personal. It’s cinematic. It’s a little chaotic.

And that’s exactly how we like it.

If you care about:
✔️ California politics
✔️ LGBTQ+ rights
✔️ The 2026 governor race
✔️ Culture & media
✔️ Where America is headed

This episode is for you.

For more information about Matt Mahan’s and his campaigh go to https://www.mahanforcalifornia.com/

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This week on Duke’s Download, I sit down with singer‑songwriter and multi‑instrumentalist ZEE Machine — and we talk about what it really takes to find your voice and go all in.

Zee shares how music grabbed him early — from obsessive guitar days to digging through older albums before streaming ruled everything. We get into his Berklee story — auditioning as a guitarist, not getting in, pivoting, and coming back stronger and getting in as a vocalist and songwriter. That shift changed everything.

We break down:

• How he built his bold, 80s‑inspired maximalist pop sound
• Why chemistry matters more than credentials in the studio
• The fan favorites (“The Radio”)
• The live bangers (“Good Boy,” “I’m In Love With Everybody”)
• Writing from real experience
• Being openly queer in pop music
• Touring red‑state pockets
• And why he’s releasing music single‑by‑single instead of chasing albums

This is a conversation about artistic evolution, creative confidence, queer visibility, and building a music career without compromise.

If you care about independent pop artists, authenticity in music, or what it means to fully own your sound — you’ll love this one.

For more about Zee Machine- just google it and you will find him everywhere!

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This week, I’m joined by RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 13 queen Elliott with Two T’s — a classically trained dancer turned Las Vegas performer who grew up as a gay kid on a Texas farm.

We talk about how dance became her safe place, and how her fiercely supportive mom helped her build confidence early on. Elliott shares what it was like performing in drag for the first time at 15 through a Dallas LGBTQ youth center charity event — and how drag quickly became more than performance. It became creative control.

We get into auditioning for Drag Race during COVID, filming under intense pressure, and what life looked like after the show — nonstop touring, burnout, and learning when to “bed rot” and recharge.

We also talk about advocacy. Elliott reflects on how LGBTQ rights have shifted from gaining ground to fighting to protect what we have — and why youth safe spaces matter more than ever. She credits the Human Rights Campaign (HRC) with teaching her how to understand and use her legal rights in school. Plus, she shares surreal moments from lobbying in D.C., including AOC running over to meet her.

This is a conversation about resilience, performance, advocacy, and finding your voice — onstage and off.

You can follow Elliott @TheRealElliottQeen

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This week on Duke’s Download, I’m joined by writer and former TV producer Mary Ann Cherry, author of Morris Kight: Humanist, Liberationist, Fantabulous — a biography that took more than a decade to write and was created with Morris’s personal blessing.

Mary Ann didn’t just research Morris Kight — she knew him. Their ten-year friendship shaped this book, and her reporting took her deep into the untold parts of his life, including multiple trips to Texas to interview his ex-wife after she had a stroke, uncovering the double lives and hidden chapters that history almost lost.

So who was Morris Kight?

Before he became a leader in the Gay Liberation Front in Los Angeles after Stonewall, Morris was a Depression-era Texas kid with a fierce moral compass. As a young man, he helped women in a brothel access medical care — an early sign of the justice-driven activism that would define his life.

From there, we trace how that same instinct led him to:

• Organize underground STD treatment when queer people were denied care
• Build housing networks and bail funds during LAPD entrapment
• Help launch early Los Angeles Pride organizing
• Lead bold boycotts like Coors and Barney’s Beanery
• Use street theater and “fantabulous” tactics to demand visibility

Morris believed activism wasn’t just about protest — it was about people. One-on-one conversations. Coalition building. Working with unlikely allies. Sometimes even working with your enemies.

We talk about what made his strategy different — and why his approach to money, compromise, incremental progress, and resisting purity tests feels incredibly relevant right now.

We also dig into:

• Post‑Stonewall organizing in Los Angeles
• Early gay rights activism before marriage equality
• Coalition building across movements
• The loneliness of long-term activism
• AIDS-era unity and unexpected allies
• Why visibility was revolutionary
• Lessons modern LGBTQ activists can learn from Morris Kight

This conversation is a reminder that the LGBTQ rights movement didn’t happen by accident. It happened because people like Morris Kight were willing to be bold, strategic, and yes — sometimes “fantabulous.”

And maybe most importantly: they were willing to stay in the fight.

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In this episode, I sit down with one of the most unexpected — and fearless — figures in modern LGBTQ political history: Fred Karger.

Before he became a nationally recognized LGBTQ activist, Fred was a longtime Republican political consultant working inside the GOP at the highest levels. But in 2004, after retiring from political consulting and taking a life-changing trip to Peru, everything shifted.

What started as a local fight to save Laguna Beach’s historic Boom Boom Room — one of the country’s oldest gay bars — became the moment that publicly brought him out at age 53 and launched him into full-time activism.

We talk about how that campaign (“Save the Boom”) ignited something bigger. After California’s Proposition 8 passed in 2008, Fred founded Californians Against Hate, targeting the major donors behind the anti-marriage equality movement. Instead of yelling into the void, he focused on strategy:

• Publicly tracking Prop 8 donors
• Publishing a “dishonor roll”
• Organizing high-profile boycotts — including the Manchester Grand Hyatt
• Forcing accountability through economic pressure

Those efforts cost businesses millions and ultimately pushed several donors to redirect money toward LGBTQ causes.

Fred also details his years-long battle exposing the Mormon Church’s behind-the-scenes involvement in Prop 8, filing ethics complaints across multiple states, facing threats and subpoenas, and refusing to back down.

Then we get into history.

In 2012, Fred became the first openly gay major-party candidate to run for President of the United States as a Republican. We talk about:

• Why he decided to run
• His experience campaigning in New Hampshire
• Media breakthroughs
• What it was like challenging his own party
• The global impact of that historic candidacy

This conversation isn’t just about the past. It’s about strategy, courage, and what effective activism actually looks like. Fred shares his rules for winning political change, lessons from independent organizing, and why voter registration and campaign involvement still matter more than outrage.

We also discuss his two books and how he wants his legacy — as an activist and as a presidential candidate — to be remembered.

If you care about LGBTQ political history, marriage equality, the fight over Prop 8, or how to create real accountability in politics, this is a conversation you need to hear.

For more about Fred Karger check out his website https://fredkarger.com/

And also “FRED” the documentary https://youtu.be/sb6__cDI1o4

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Ok.. this one is really special and this week’s episode feels a bit different.

For the first time ever, I sat down with my very private father, Morgan Mason — at home — and just… talked.

About growing up in a version of Hollywood that doesn’t exist anymore. When movie stars were neighbors. When Marilyn Monroe just popped by. When meeting The Beatles wasn’t a headline — it was a story from down the street.

We talk about him acting at nine with Elizabeth Taylor and Richard Burton, later becoming Elizabeth’s agent, and somehow weaving through decades of culture, politics, and history — from Elvis encounters to working in the Reagan White House to traveling with five presidents on Air Force Two.

But what makes this episode special isn’t the names.

It’s getting to sit across from my dad and hear how he’s moved through all of it — fame, politics, loss, family — and most importantly,how he showed up for me when it mattered most.

It’s Old Hollywood.
It’s 80s politics.
But really it’s father and son ‘at the table.’

And it’s one of my favorite conversations I’ve ever recorded.

Welcome to my family. 💙

It’s time for an Ask Duke Anything episode of Duke’s Download — and yes, my boyfriend Armie is guest-hosting from his apartment, which means I’m answering everything. 😅

You sent in questions via social media and email, and nothing was off limits — from serving your country and running for office to vinyl collecting, growing up in France, and what it was really like having a famous mom.

In this episode, I open up about:

• 🇺🇸 What “serving your country” actually means in 2026 (and why nuance matters)
• 🗳️ Whether I’ll ever run for office again
• 🏡 My Beverly Hills childhood home and memories of my grandmother Pamela Mason
• 🇫🇷 Growing up in France and why I chose California as home
• 🎶 My love of vinyl and bands that shaped me (New Order forever)
• 💻 My early political obsession (shoutout Kids for Kerry)
• 🌟 What it was like growing up with my mom, Belinda Carlisle
• 🏳️‍🌈 Coming out and family support
• ❤️ How Army and I reconnected — and why 2025 changed everything

This one is personal, reflective, and a little chaotic (in the best way). Thank you for the thoughtful questions — I loved this format.

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