Dreading the Dating Apps?
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Dreading the Dating Apps?
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Dating Apps and the Rush to Find Love
I break down dating apps as a tool, not a solution, and share a grounded approach to using them with more patience, self-awareness, and intention. The episode focuses on how your mindset, profile, and expectations shape the kind of connections you attract.
Key topics
- In this episode, I frame dating apps as a stepping stone, not a guarantee of a relationship.
- I explain why it helps to ask what you actually want before using apps: a relationship, connection, validation, or relief from loneliness.
- I share how dating from a place of emptiness or pressure can lead to superficial matches and quick dopamine hits instead of deeper compatibility.
- And more...
Brief Mentions:
Julie and John Gottaman: https://www.gottman.com/blog/an-introduction-to-emotional-bids-and-trust/
Logan Ury: https://www.loganury.com/
Timestamps
04:08 - Dating apps as a tool, not a relationship solution
11:00 - Why you cannot find love in two weeks
16:25 - How profile choices reflect your readiness for commitment
18:25 - Why specificity attracts better matches than generic prompts
21:29 - Using filters for culture, religion, lifestyle, and location
29:20 - How app limits can reduce burnout and overwhelm
32:47 - The maximizer and romanticizer dating mindset