Abandonment leaves deep scars—but it doesn’t have to define your legacy. In this episode of Dr. Norma Speaks, Dr. Stephon Ferguson and Dr. Norma McLauchlin confront the pain of waiting for someone who never came—and the strength God awakens when you rise for yourself.

From Psalm 27:10, “Even if my father and mother abandon me, the Lord will hold me close,” we discover that rescue isn’t always someone showing up—it’s alignment with God’s presence that empowers you to stand.

✨ In this episode you’ll discover:

• Why waiting for rescue keeps cycles alive—and how sovereignty breaks them.

• How presence, not perfection, is the real rescue children are praying for.

• Dr. Norma’s BAA Moment to release abandonment and become the presence.

• A practical analogy: a fire alarm won’t pull itself—stop waiting for someone else to act.

Parents, no one may have come for you then. But you are here now. And that presence is the rescue your children need.

🎧 Press play now and stop passing down abandonment.

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Breaking doesn’t mean you’re destroyed—it means what was hidden is finally exposed. In this episode of Dr. Norma Speaks, Dr. Stephon Ferguson and Dr. Norma McLauchlin challenge parents to face their wounds instead of projecting them forward.

From Psalm 147:3, “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds,” we uncover that fragments are not trash—they’re sacred material when surrendered to God.

✨ In this episode you’ll discover:

• Why projection passes wounds down to children.

• How binding isn’t a band-aid, but a true seal of healing.

• Dr. Norma’s BAA Moment to identify wounds you’ve projected—and end the cycle.

• A vivid analogy: broken glass cuts, but stained glass tells a story.

Parents, your breaking is not your ending. It’s God’s invitation to create beauty that your children don’t have to bleed from.

🎧 Press play now and see your fragments become sacred.

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Have you ever prayed and felt nothing but silence? In this episode of Dr. Norma Speaks, Dr. Stephon Ferguson and Dr. Norma McLauchlin explore the pain of unanswered prayers—and the deeper truth behind divine silence.

From Psalm 22:1, “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?” we learn that silence is not abandonment—it is invitation. God’s stillness is often the pause where alignment, choice, and awareness are awakened.

✨ In this episode you’ll discover:

• Why silence can feel like absence—but is really God’s nearness in disguise.

• How faith is built in the pause, not just the proclamation.

• Dr. Norma’s BAA Moment to help you sit with silence and transform it into strength.

• A modern analogy: how losing a signal doesn’t mean the tower moved—it means we stepped out of range.

Silence is not empty—it’s a mirror. Parents, what do you hear in your quiet spaces?

🎧 Press play now and choose alignment in the pause.

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Forgiveness isn’t weakness—and it isn’t pretending nothing happened. In this episode of Dr. Norma Speaks, Dr. Stephon Ferguson and Dr. Norma McLauchlin dive deep into the truth behind forgiveness: it is the seal that closes toxic cycles so your children don’t inherit your pain.

From Psalm 34:18, “The Lord is near to the brokenhearted,” we explore what it really means to face wounds, expose false strength, and finally let God bind the leaks in your life.

✨ In this episode you’ll discover:

• Why bitterness feels powerful but drains generations.

• How forgiveness marks the end of a cycle—not a free pass for others.

• Dr. Norma’s BAA Moment (Breathe, Acknowledge, Act) to help you release and rebuild.

• A powerful analogy of purifying water in a stream—and how it changes what your children drink.

Forgiveness isn’t about letting anyone “off the hook.” It’s about reclaiming your foundation and handing your children freedom instead of chains.

🎧 Press play now and start sealing the cycle.

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Parenting is not about perfection—it’s about presence. Galatians 6:9 tells us: “Do not grow weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.”

In this Parent Edition of Dr. Norma Speaks, Dr. Norma McLauchlin reminds mothers and fathers that the seeds you plant in your children are not wasted, even when you can’t see the fruit yet. Children may test you, push you away, or stay silent—but what they remember most is not flawless parenting, but faithful presence.

✨ In this episode, Dr. Norma shares:

• Why children need consistency more than perfection.

• How to endure the weary seasons of parenting with grace.

• The hidden power of showing up—even when you feel unseen.

💡 Reflection Prompt: What’s one way you can stay present with your child this week, even in weariness?

Your presence is watering seeds. And in due season, the harvest will come. 🌱

Proverbs 31:8 calls us to “Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves.” But before parents can speak for their children, they must first reclaim the parts of their own voice that silence has stolen.

In this Parent Edition of Dr. Norma Speaks, Dr. Norma McLauchlin challenges mothers and fathers to see silence for what it truly is—not absence, but testimony. Some children don’t know how to ask for help. Some have learned that speaking up only leads to labels. Others have inherited the quiet wounds of generations before them.

✨ In this episode, Dr. Norma shares:

• Why silence is often a language of survival.

• How parents can translate what looks like defiance into a deeper cry for love.

• The importance of healing your own unspoken wounds, so your children can heal too.

📖 Scripture reminds us: God defends the voiceless. Parents, will you?

✨ Reflection Prompt: What words did you need someone to speak over you as a child? Begin speaking those words over your children today.

Because when you speak life into the silence, you break cycles—and you open the door for healing that no system can silence.

Silence isn’t always peace—it can be pain. In this Parent Edition of Dr. Norma Speaks, Dr. Norma McLauchlin reminds parents that the quietest children often carry the heaviest stories.

Psalm 34:18 says, “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted.” But are we? As parents, we can mistake stillness for safety, when in truth, some wounds sit quietly until love draws them out.

In this episode, Dr. Norma challenges parents to:

• Recognize silence as a language, not disobedience.

• Replace labels with listening.

• Create a home where broken hearts feel safe enough to heal.

✨ Reflection Prompt: Ask your child this week, “What makes you feel safe?” Then listen—not with your ears alone, but with your spirit.

Because systems may celebrate quiet, but God calls us to hear the cries beneath it. And in your presence, healing begins.

Every word we speak over a child is a stone in their foundation. Too often, those stones are labels we once carried ourselves—false names passed down from one generation to the next. In this episode of Dr. Norma Speaks, we reflect on John 7:24 and uncover how the way we judge ourselves shapes the way we judge our children.

Dr. Norma’s message is simple yet profound: foundations can be rebuilt. Man’s words can be replaced by God’s truth. Parents who reclaim their own identity not only restore themselves, but also lay a stronger foundation for their children.

This reflection invites you to examine the labels you’ve carried, the ones you’ve unknowingly passed on, and the truth God is calling you to reclaim. Because when you rebuild your foundation—you rebuild theirs.