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Is it something wrong with NOT WANTING TO KNOW

“Coach DTM, KD, Keke and Miss Mouthy, I know this sounds crazy, but hear me out.

My best friend told me they saw my boyfriend out with another woman. At first, I didn’t believe them. Then they showed me pictures, and it was definitely him. Instead of feeling grateful, I got angry at my friend. I felt like they ruined my relationship. Ever since then, every time I look at my boyfriend, I think about those pictures. We probably would’ve still been happy if I never knew.

Now my boyfriend says my friend was just trying to break us up because they were jealous of our relationship. My friend says they couldn’t sit back and watch me get played.

I haven’t spoken to my friend in almost two months, but I’m still with my boyfriend. My family says I’m blaming the wrong person. I honestly don’t know anymore.

Was my friend wrong for telling me… or did they save me from living a lie? And why am I more angry at the messenger than the person who cheated?

Motivation:

The truth didn’t break your heart—the betrayal did. Don’t punish the person who turned on the light because you don’t like what the darkness was hiding. Healing begins when your anger is aimed at the decision, not the discovery.” — Coach DTM

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