Have you ever cared about the amount of someone's…ahem…ejaculation?

In this episode of Do As We Say, Not As They Did, Harris O'Malley and Dr. Liz Powell talk about the men who really, really care about shooting ropes like Spider-Man. That's right. They're talking about nutmaxxers. Fueled by the fantasies of porn and a desire for self-optimization, these men might say their "enhanced performance" is for their partners, but Dr. Liz and Harris have their doubts.

Highlights of the episode:

• Porn "money shots" aren't what you think

• Fast and Furious movies are a little like porn

• Having sex…with your balls?! 👀

If you're interested in staying blissfully unaware about the secret lives of nutmaxxers, turn away now, because things are about to get a little sticky.

Time Stamps

0:00 – Intro bloopers & ADHD brains unite

2:00 – Why this podcast is pre-recorded

5:00 – Meet the Nutmaxxers: semen obsession & supplement culture

10:00 – Cum fetish vs. the unbearable cringe of this article

14:00 – Porn isn't real

20:00 – Male insecurity

26:00 – Fantasy vs. reality

34:00 – "I don't want a gallon on my face"

38:00 – Micropenises, oral skills, and redefining good sex

45:00 – Bad partners, poor communication, and load shame

52:00 – Actually useful advice

58:00 – Why men need to listen (and not just to each other)

1:06:00 – What's really sexy

1:12:00 – Final thoughts: Be a person, not a cum performance robot

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Where do you draw the line between calling out cheaters and a surveillance state?

In this episode of Do As We Say, Not As They Did, Harris O'Malley and Dr. Liz Powell dive deep (deep 😉) into the surveillance nightmare that is Cheater Buster's facial recognition software. While their hearts go out to folks who've been cheated on, they also can't overlook how this technology will 100% be used by stalkers and abusers.

They chat about public call-out culture and the complete lack of privacy we've all come to expect, how technology is somehow made with negative ethical considerations, and the fact that men are often the ones at the scene of the crime.

Highlights of the episode:

• FetLife privacy scandals

• Debating the ethics of "Are We Dating the Same Guy?" Facebook groups

• Remembering a time when life wasn't the constant content grind

Before you race to see if your partner is secretly still on Tinder, listen to this. You might just find that trusting someone (or breaking up with them) is better than turning to spyware tech.

Time Stamps

00:00 - Welcome back!

02:00 - Cheater Buster, Tinder, and facial recognition

05:00 - FetLife privacy scandal

10:00 - Meta smart glasses and surveillance tech

16:00 - Why Cheater Buster is actually stalkerware

21:00 - Trust in relationships

24:00 - You can't prove a negative

31:00 - The death of privacy and content-ifying people's worst moments

36:00 - Weaponizing apps

43:00 - Dating entitlement

49:00 - Healing trust issues

54:00 - Dr. Liz and Harris get recognized

60:00 - Final thoughts

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You've had some dramatic break ups, but have you ever had a relationship that ended with an album full of bangers about dysfunction, heartbreak, and anger?

In this episode of Do As We Say, Not As They Did, Dr. Liz Powell and Harris O'Malley break down Lily Allen's therapeutic divorce album, West End Girl. And I gotta tell ya, they're so here for seeing a powerful man actually get his just deserts. They go through each song and all the raw, messy, and painfully relatable emotions.

In between Harris and Dr. Liz's in-depth chat about an open relationship that's nothing more than a smokescreen for selfishness, they go over:

• The power of the Nice Guy™ persona

• Why saying yes doesn't always mean consent

• The reason why rules for opening relationships usually bring more hurt

• Dr. Liz and Harris' favorite breakup bangers

Press play, pour a drink, and get ready to scream at David Harbour (and all the men who always fail upwards).

Time Stamps

00:00 Introduction

01:00 West End Girl: The call that changed everything

07:00 Ruminating: Saying yes when you mean no

12:00 Madeline: Broken agreements and love-light gaslighting

20:00 Sleepwalking: Emotional erasure

26:00 Relapse: Trying to be the "modern wife"

27:30 Nonmonogamummy: Insecurities, age, and emotional exposure

29:00 Dallas Major: "I hate it here"

31:00 Tennis: Emotional betrayal in the smallest things

33:00 Pussy Palace: The moment of discovery

36:00 Madeline (Revisited): Real consequences

38:00 4chan Stan: The greatest insult on the album

39:00 Beg for Me: Wanting to be desired

40:00 Let You Win: No longer carrying his shame

44:00 Fruityloop: It's not me, it's you

49:00 Album Reflections

55:00 Favorite Breakup Songs

1:03:00 Outro & Where to Find Us

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