What if your relationship wasn’t meant to complete you—but to awaken you?

In this episode of Deep, Funny, Dirty, we sit down with Jared and Laurie Archbold for a raw, spacious conversation about what they call soul partnership—a way of relating that prioritizes the soul’s unfolding over comfort, convention, or certainty.

Beginning with the question “What is a soul relationship, really?”, the conversation moves into lived experience: tending one’s own soul inside partnership, honoring individual paths, and allowing relationship itself to become a third living entity with its own purpose and call to service.

Jared and Laurie share vulnerably about the moments that tested everything—separation, near-divorce, opening their marriage, and standing in love even when the future was completely unclear. Rather than centering romance as rescue, they explore devotion as integrity: keeping one’s word, choosing presence, and supporting a partner’s becoming—even when it hurts.

Have you ever felt the tension between love and freedom, certainty and mystery, devotion and self-trust. It’s an invitation to rethink “normal,” to listen for the deeper tether beneath relationship roles, and to ask a braver question: How do we love in a way that serves the soul—ours, theirs, and the world’s?

Connect with Laurie Archbold

Website | ConfluenceMentoring.com

Website | LaurieArchbold.com

IG | @Laurie.Arch

Connect with Jared Archbold

Website | ConfluenceMentoring.com

Website | JaredArchbold.com

Website | RedwoodSacredMuse.com

IG | @JaredArchbold

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FB | ⁠⁠⁠⁠@ReviveYoSenses⁠⁠⁠⁠

Connect with Adam Riehl

IG | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@AdamRiehlHealing⁠⁠⁠⁠

FB | ⁠⁠⁠⁠@AdamRiehlHealing⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Website | ⁠⁠⁠⁠AdamRiehlHealing.com⁠⁠

In this episode of Deep, Funny, Dirty, we explore the emergence of the Spiritual Madam—a bold, embodied archetype that refuses spiritual bypassing, guru worship, and “good girl” healing narratives.

Jen Cabot joins us for a raw, intimate conversation about what happens when years of therapy, self-help, and spiritual practice stop working—and you’re forced to meet the parts of yourself that can’t be affirmed away. We talk sacred rage, nervous system regulation, grief, sensual power, and the death of identities that once kept us safe but no longer serve.

The Spiritual Madam isn’t about manipulation, performance, or seduction for approval. She’s about seduction for truth—guiding people into depth, intimacy, and self-mastery by staying present with discomfort instead of avoiding it. Jen shares how this archetype was born through betrayal, trauma, and years of burning old scripts, including the spiritual ones.

This episode challenges the idea that healers should be polished, peaceful, or “love and light.” We explore embodiment as gritty, costly, and profoundly alive—and why real healing often feels taboo before it feels freeing.

Connect with Jen Bailey

Website | JenniferCabot.com

IG | @SpiritualMadameJen

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IG | ⁠⁠⁠@SensuousRevival⁠⁠⁠

FB | ⁠⁠⁠@ReviveYoSenses⁠⁠⁠

Connect with Adam Riehl

IG | ⁠⁠⁠⁠@AdamRiehlHealing⁠⁠⁠

FB | ⁠⁠⁠@AdamRiehlHealing⁠⁠⁠⁠

Website | ⁠⁠⁠AdamRiehlHealing.com⁠

In this episode of Deep, Funny, Dirty, we sit down with Jesse Rose West for an honest, grounded conversation about trauma, healing, and what it actually looks like to move through life when everything you’ve built starts to fall apart.

Jesse shares how a major rupture in midlife forced her to slow down, listen, and confront patterns of self-abandonment, control, and survival. We talk about nervous system regulation, grief, anger, movement as medicine, and the long process of learning to sit with discomfort instead of outrunning it. Through embodiment, breath, and deep self-inquiry, Jesse found a new way forward—one rooted in presence rather than performance.

Along the way, animals—especially horses—appear as mirrors, reflecting the beliefs, fears, and truths we often avoid seeing in ourselves. Not as something to control or fix, but as teachers that respond when we get honest and grounded.

This episode explores what happens when healing becomes less about achievement and more about listening—letting life meet you where you actually are.

It’s deep. It’s funny. It gets a little dirty.
And it’s a conversation about learning how to stay.

Connect with Jesse Rose West

Website | JesseRoseWest.com

IG | @JesseRoseWest

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Connect with Aiua Wild

IG | ⁠⁠@SensuousRevival⁠⁠

FB | ⁠⁠@ReviveYoSenses⁠⁠

Connect with Adam Riehl

IG | ⁠⁠⁠@AdamRiehlHealing⁠⁠

FB | ⁠⁠@AdamRiehlHealing⁠⁠⁠

Website | ⁠⁠AdamRiehlHealing.com

If you’ve ever wondered why your life feels like it’s in a weird in-between season—or why your creativity disappears exactly when you need it—this episode is going to hit home. Poet and author James Pearson joins us to break down the emotional “seasons” we all move through: the falls where everything you relied on stops working, the winters that strip you down to the essentials, and the infamous “mud season” where you’re not stuck… you’re just slogging your way toward the next version of yourself.

We talk burnout, identity shifts, creative rebirth, and why some of the most important transformations happen quietly, slowly, and usually at the worst possible time. James shares the breakdowns, breakthroughs, and the moments that forced him to stop performing who he thought he should be—and start listening to who he actually is.

Welcome to Deep, Funny, Dirty—
where the conversation gets real, the humor sneaks in,
and you might just learn something about yourself along the way.

Connect with James Pearson

Website | JamesPearson.com

IG | @JamesAPearson

Book | The Wilderness That Bears Your Name

Connect with Aiua Wild

IG | ⁠@SensuousRevival⁠

FB | ⁠@ReviveYoSenses⁠

Connect with Adam Riehl

IG | ⁠⁠@AdamRiehlHealing⁠

FB | ⁠@AdamRiehlHealing⁠⁠

Website | ⁠AdamRiehlHealing.com

Dirty Lola joins us to share how an anonymous Twitter account, a craving for authenticity, and a whole lot of curiosity led her into an unexpected career as a sex educator. What began as playful online exploration grew into Sex Ed A Go-Go, teaching gigs, and becoming a trusted voice for people hungry to talk about sex without shame.

We dive into the awkward, beautiful reality of sex—why it’s so hard to discuss, how porn shaped a generation, what gets in the way of pleasure, and why honesty is one of the most powerful healing tools we have. Lola opens up about trauma, desire, aging bodies, and giving people permission to explore who they really are.

This episode embodies everything Deep, Funny, Dirty is about: real stories, real laughter, and real conversations about the things we were never taught to talk about.

Connect with Dirty Lola

Website | SexEdAGoGo.com

Website | DirtyLola.co

IG | @DirtyLola

Threads | @DirtyLola

Connect with Aiua Wild

IG | @SensuousRevival

FB | @ReviveYoSenses

Connect with Adam Riehl

IG | ⁠@AdamRiehlHealing

FB | @AdamRiehlHealing⁠

Website | AdamRiehlHealing.com

Welcome to DFD! In our first episode, we explore what the show will be, the kinds of topics we’ll unpack, and the guests we’re excited to bring into the mix. Our goal is to blend depth, humor, and unfiltered honesty in a way that feels real, refreshing, and human. If you’re new here, welcome—pull up a chair and join us for the ride.