As a daughter, do you want to know why guilt and enmeshment keep you stuck in a cycle of pain for life? Here it is: because your mother has conditioned to feel responsible for her moods and emotions since you were a child.

As daughters of narcissistic mothers we are all familiar with the feeling of guilt that comes up anytime we want to set a boundary, but what about when that guilt is omnipresent any time your mother is upset? What can you do then? Whether your mother is narcissistic, emotionally immature or just self-absorbed, this conditioning is one you need to recover from in order to transform your life.

In this episode I share when the conditioning actually started (most people don’t know this), the main examples of what your mother might be saying to you that has confirmed the patterns of guilt, and the impossible choice between being a “good daughter” if you please her or a “bad daughter” when you upset her that you should have never been forced to make.

Listen now to gain clarity on this mother wound that is controlling your life, and to know what you can do to break free.

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To know more about breaking free from the guilt you feel listen here:
Ep 103 Guilt: the biggest mistake we make when dealing with guilt & 3 steps to heal it for daughters of narcissistic mothers

Here's the episode I mentioned:
Ep 60 Wedding Planning with a Narcissistic Mother - What can happen & How to deal with
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Have you tried everything to recover from your mother's abuse and yet you are still feeling stuck and not in control of your life? You are not alone. 85% of daughters of narcissistic mothers who have completed our assessment say they understand the problem but they don't know how to change it.
The first step in healing mother wounds and recovering from abuse is to become aware of what is happening, but what about when we get stuck there?
Many remain stuck in a cycle of consuming podcasts, books, and labels without experiencing tangible change in their lives.
In this episode I share how to avoid the trap you risk falling into that will hold you stuck in survival mode.
You pain has lasted a lifetime, your recovery doesn't have to.

Take the FREE assessment NOW to know which is your main coping pattern👇
Your Coping Pattern Assessment

Related episodes:
Ep 77 A 3 Steps Process to Set Successful Boundaries with Your Narcissistic Mother

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Do you want to know how to break free from people-pleasing, procrastination and perfectionism?
To do that there's one thing you need to understand about these 3 patterns... one thing all of them have in common.
By getting this one thing these patterns will stop defining you and you will be able to see a real shift in your life.

It is common to develop survival patterns when growing up with a narcissistic mother, actually it is nearly impossible not to. Learning that these patterns do not define you but can be shifted is a truly essential piece for your healing journey and recovering from maternal narcissistic abuse.

Take the FREE assessment NOW to know which is your main coping pattern👇
Your Coping Pattern Assessment

Related episodes:
Ep 133 - Perfectionism holds you back: 10 signs to recognise it and 2 steps to help. A quick test for you to know if perfectionism is holding you back.

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