Things appear to have gotten worse with trying to chat and meet someone these days and when you are lucky enough to meet them the challenges are comical, in so many ways - are they married? still live at home? have kids at home? ...and more. Yes, I will continue to do waht I can to meet people until I find that "special" person.

Happy New Year and Post Valentines Day Yes, it has been a long time since I posted, mostly because I have been busy with work and personal commitments and projects but recently, I have decided to "lean" back into the "dating pool". Like many of us, I don't NEED someone, but it would be nice to have a companion/partner. Reluctantly I subscribed to Match.com again and registered on Tinder, Bumble and Hinge - what the hell am I doing...ha ha! I have not had any success in any of these in the past so I thought I would try one last time. (wish me luck) I am also going to get out more and see if I can meet someone in the "wild" by playing golf, pickleball, day hikes, sporting events and more.

Here is a link from TicTok regarding the "Tarantula Woman" -

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZThHd1yK8/

I have never heard the term before but as I look back on my last "relationship" this is exactly the woman I was seeing and I was too blind to her behavior until now, and now I see who she was and am glad that I ended that "relationship" a few years ago as it was very draining in many ways. I would be interested in hearing your thoughts on this as I am certain that there are men like this too!

Have a great Memorial weekend!