If you've ever said, "The apps are trash," you're not alone. As a dating coach, Nicole hears it every day. And while dating apps can absolutely be frustrating, she and her husband, Joel, met on Bumble. They believe modern dating gets blamed for the wrong problem.

In this episode, they compare the male and female experience of online dating, share what it was really like dating before they met each other, and explain why rejection, unrealistic expectations, and quick assumptions make dating feel harder these days.

You'll also hear:

• Why men and women often think they have it worse on dating apps
• The surprising "red flag" Joel got judged for
• Why you shouldn't spend weeks messaging before meeting in person
• How to build resilience instead of burning out
• Why the dating app is just a vehicle to get you on the date, not the place to build the relationship

Whether you're exhausted by modern dating, thinking about deleting the apps, or trying to figure out why finding a healthy relationship feels so difficult, this conversation offers a refreshing perspective and a little hope that your person might still be one swipe away.

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