Ever feel like dating today is just a big multiple choice test — pick from what's left and hope it's right? In this episode of Date, Affirm, the Real, Keya and Shimeka explore how we choose our partners: Are we truly manifesting and affirming what we want, or settling and filling in the blanks? For men and women, it’s time to check in on those non-negotiables.#BlackLove #DatingStandards #RelationshipTalk #AffirmYourWorth

In this episode of Date, Affirm, the Real Podcast, hosts Marcus and Don dive deep into the heart of modern dating with "The Prize and the Pursuer: Analyzing Current Dating Dynamics."Is it okay for both men and women to chase? Or does that signal imbalance and potential failure from the start? We’re unpacking the raw truths, emotional stakes, and outdated norms surrounding pursuit and value in today’s dating scene. Get ready for unfiltered opinions, real talk, and honest questions you need to be asking.

Can love truly thrive when pain from the past still lingers? In this eye-opening episode of Date, Affirm, the Real, Keya McClain the Poet and Shimeka the DAR Therapist dive deep into the emotional baggage we carry into relationships. From silent resentment to unresolved heartbreak, learn how holding on can hold you back from the love you deserve.Let’s get real about healing.

What the hell is Black Love, really? In this episode of Date, Affirm, the Real, Marcus and Don sit down to unpack what Black Love means to them — the beauty, the struggle, the stereotypes, and the questions around whether it's something only African Americans can truly understand. This is a real, honest convo about love, culture, and connection from two Black men keeping it all the way real.#BlackLove #DateAffirmTheReal #RealTalk

Dating with an open mind and intent means being honest and wanting the best for you and those you encounter. You may find them attractive and really nice, however they are not for you and you have the right person in mind. No spark here but a flame is waiting for you. Are you open to it??

Traditional marriage often comes with the expectation of sharing a home, but what if that’s not the only way? In this episode, we’re diving into the concept of married couples living in separate homes—by choice.Could having your own space strengthen the relationship rather than weaken it? Does distance truly make the heart grow fonder, or does it create disconnection? We’ll explore:🔥 The reasons couples choose to live separately🔥 The benefits—personal space, independence, and maintaining individuality🔥 The challenges—logistics, intimacy, and societal judgment🔥 How to make it work for those considering this lifestyleIs living apart the key to a healthier, more fulfilling marriage, or does it create unnecessary distance? Let’s unpack this modern approach to love and commitment.

"She needed me to hear her… I just wanted to fix it."On this episode of Date, Affirm, the Real, Marcus Goodwin and Don (Jr. Lily) break down the masculine instinct to leap into action—and how it can silently sabotage emotional connection. Is quick action a strength or a smokescreen? We’re talking about how listening, not fixing, is the real power move in love.

In this episode of Date, Affirm, the Real, Marcus Goodwin and Don (Jr. Lily) get real about the way men and women often handle emotions differently. They dive into the idea that men tend to have "waffle minds," where thoughts and feelings are kept in neat little boxes, while women often have "spaghetti hearts," where emotions are all connected and flowing together.Marcus and Don open up about their own experiences, sharing how these differences can create confusion — but also how understanding each other better can strengthen relationships. This episode is all about building bridges, breaking down walls, and learning to communicate with empathy.Don't miss this honest and insightful conversation — it's one you’ll want to share with your partner or friends!