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When Jeffery May’s son Jackson was diagnosed with autism, he and his wife didn’t just search for answers, they created one. Our Amazing Minds isn’t just a children’s book; it’s a powerful tool for helping kids understand autism in a way that’s honest, inclusive, and visually relatable.

In this episode, Jeffery shares what it was like to process the diagnosis as a father, how grief turned into creative action, and why representing the full spectrum of autism matters. He opens up about marriage under pressure, the overlooked emotional journey of dads, and how he and his wife turned frustration into a publishing brand.

If you’ve ever struggled to explain autism to your child, or yourself, this conversation will hit home.

TOPICS

• How Our Amazing Minds helps children understand autism through relatable characters
• The emotional impact of receiving an autism diagnosis as a father
• Balancing attention between a neurodivergent child and a neurotypical sibling
• The role of faith in navigating autism and family life
• Why dads must avoid isolation and become more emotionally available
• Building a family-led brand to create awareness and resources
• Future plans for Our Amazing Minds and representation through media

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Jeffery May / Our Amazing Minds: https://ouramazingminds.org

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QUOTES:

• “Even though they share similarities, every autistic child is different—just like every person is.”
• “The diagnosis journey isn’t uniform. It’s different for every family, every child.”
• “Sometimes it takes seeing your story in someone else’s to realize you’re not alone.”
• “Structure matters—our son knows exactly what day it is and what to expect.”
• “You mentally start ruling things out for the future…until you hear another dad’s story that changes everything.”

ℹ️ Note: Every autistic person's journey is unique. This video shares one family's experience of finding success through focusing on interests and abilities rather than limitations. Always consult with appropriate professionals when developing employment plans.

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In this special solo episode of Dads in Autismland, host Mark de Grasse launches the Guide to Autismland series—a curated journey through the most impactful moments from the podcast’s first 27 episodes. Sharing his own experiences as a father to a profoundly autistic son, Mark dives into the earliest and often most confusing stage of raising a child on the spectrum: the diagnosis.

With stories from other dads like Corey Michael, Dennis Procopio, Steve Levine, and more, this episode paints a realistic, heartfelt picture of what it looks like when families first begin to realize their child is different.

Mark emphasizes that while every autism journey is unique, no dad is alone in this. It's an honest, empathetic guide that empowers fathers to recognize signs, take action, and find community through shared experience.

TOPICS:
- Common early signs of autism shared by dads
- Differences in diagnosis timelines and processes
- Personal experiences with school systems and therapy
- Emotional challenges and stages of acceptance
- Importance of flexibility and family partnership
- Stories of hope, including older children finding success
- The unique bond and support among autism dads

ADVERTISING LINKS:
Dads In Autismland Membership: https://dadsinautismland.com/dads-in-autismland-membership-the-pathfinder-collective/

QUOTES:
“Even though they share similarities, every autistic child is different—just like every person is.”

“The diagnosis journey isn’t uniform. It’s different for every family, every child.”

“Sometimes it takes seeing your story in someone else’s to realize you’re not alone.”

“Structure matters—our son knows exactly what day it is and what to expect.”

“You mentally start ruling things out for the future…until you hear another dad’s story that changes everything.”

ℹ️ Note: Every autistic person's journey is unique. This video shares one family's experience of finding success through focusing on interests and abilities rather than limitations. Always consult with appropriate professionals when developing employment plans.

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Drawing from his personal journey as a father to a profoundly autistic son and insights from the first 26 episodes, Mark offers an encouraging and practical starting point for dads new to the autism journey.

With empathy and humor, he explores the emotional challenges, lifestyle changes, and community support that autism dads often encounter. This episode sets the tone for a powerful series designed to empower, connect, and guide fathers who may feel alone.

Whether you're just beginning your journey or need a refresher on shared experiences, this episode is a heartfelt invitation to join a supportive, no-judgment space built just for dads.

TOPICS:
- Why the “Navigating Autismland” series was created
- Mark’s personal experience raising a profoundly autistic son
- The importance of connection and avoiding isolation as an autism dad
- Addressing common challenges: diagnosis, family dynamics, stress
- Upcoming topics in the series: early signs, coping, advocacy, and more
- The need for individualized parenting strategies
- How humor and real talk build a stronger autism dad community

ADVERTISING LINKS:
Dads In Autismland Membership: https://dadsinautismland.com/dads-in-autismland-membership-the-pathfinder-collective/

QUOTES:
- "You’re not alone. As tough as your situation is, you don’t have to do it by yourself."
- "This is not about giving you exact steps—it’s about showing you options."
- "Every autism journey is unique, but the struggle of fatherhood unites us."
- "I believe my son is one of the happiest people I know. That makes me feel like a success."
- "You’ll get some humor—because otherwise, we’d just cry all the time, and that’s not an option."

ℹ️ Note: Every autistic person's journey is unique. This video shares one family's experience of finding success through focusing on interests and abilities rather than limitations. Always consult with appropriate professionals when developing employment plans.

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