Straight from the podcast room and dangerously unsupervised, this episode of Cutting Up With The Crawfords is packed with hot takes, real talk, and the kind of commentary that might get us canceled.

Derrick and Dari are going all in. No script, no filter, no holding back. From random rants to full on soapbox moments, this is what happens when two opinionated people sit in front of a mic and forget that the world is listening.

It’s funny, it’s honest, and it’s exactly the kind of chaos you didn’t know you needed.

If you’ve ever shouted “Who let them talk?!” while laughing out loud, this one’s for you.

Drop your hottest take in the comments, tag a friend who needs to hear this, or send us a voice memo. You might just end up in the next episode.

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Episode Description

In this vulnerable and hope-filled episode of Cutting Up With The Crawfords, Derrick and Dari open up about life with chronic illness — Crohn’s Disease and Rheumatoid Arthritis (RA) — and what it looks like to love, lead, and laugh through flare-ups, fatigue, and faith.

From multi doctor visits to daily joint pain, they’re sharing the real stuff: how chronic illness impacts their marriage, parenting, and purpose — and how they choose to show up anyway. Whether you’re battling your own health challenges or supporting someone who is, this conversation is a reminder that strength isn’t about being symptom-free — it’s about staying connected in the storm.

Why Haven’t You Healed Me? (The Chosen Scene): Season 3. Little James has followed Jesus faithfully despite a painful disability. Now, when he receives power to heal others, James must ask why he hasn’t been healed himself.

Link to video: https://youtu.be/KZDvcEkjthA?si=dse8cU1TfAp4BacD

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S2 E5: “Built Different: How a Father-Daughter Bond Stays Strong Through Every Season”

Dari sits down with her dad for a heartfelt, faith-filled convo on what’s kept their bond strong through every season of life. From childhood laughs to adult wisdom, they dive into stories of growth, grace, and the power of presence.

Perfect for:
Father-daughter relationships
Faith and family connections
Real talk and legacy-building

🎧 Watch, listen in, laugh with them, and leave inspired.

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Episode Summary
In this heartfelt episode of Cutting Up with the Crawfords, Derrick and Dari Crawford sit down with their kids, D’Wayne and Dasia, for an honest conversation about what happens when life doesn’t go as planned. From post-graduation uncertainty to dreams that detoured, this full-family conversation brings wisdom, laughter, and real talk about navigating disappointment, faith, and purpose when you feel lost without a map.

Each family member shares their unique journey of adjusting expectations, wrestling with God’s timing, and learning to find meaning in the middle of life’s pivots. Whether you're a young adult questioning what’s next or a parent supporting a child through the unknown, this episode reminds us that even when the map disappears, God never does.

Proverbs 16:9 (ESV):“The heart of man plans his way, but the Lord establishes his steps.”

Watch now on YouTube and tag someone who needs a reminder that their detour might just be divine direction.

Don’t forget to subscribe, like, and leave a comment sharing your own “lost without a map” moment—we’d love to hear your story.

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Summary

In this episode of Cutting Up with the Crawfords, Dari and Derrick Crawford discuss the significance of regular check-ins in relationships, particularly focusing on emotional health and communication. They share personal experiences and insights on how check-ins have transformed their marriage, emphasizing the importance of understanding each other's emotional states, overcoming pride and shame, and creating a judgment-free zone for open communication. The conversation also touches on mental health awareness and the necessity of having supportive relationships. The Crawfords encourage listeners to actively check in with their partners and friends, fostering deeper connections and understanding.

Takeaways

• Check-ins are essential for maintaining emotional health in relationships.
• Understanding each other's emotional states can prevent misunderstandings.
• Therapy can provide tools for better communication and emotional awareness.
• Mental health issues like anxiety and depression are real and should be addressed openly.
• Pride and shame can hinder honest communication about feelings.
• Creating a judgment-free zone allows for more open and honest conversations.
• Asking open-ended questions can lead to deeper discussions.
• Regular check-ins can strengthen relationships and foster connection.
• It's important to share struggles with trusted friends or partners.
• Being aware of each other's schedules can enhance support during tough times.

Chapters

00:00 The Importance of Check-Ins in Relationships
06:21 Understanding Emotional Responses and Communication
10:06 Navigating Anxiety and Support in Marriage
12:00 The Role of Communication in Strengthening Bonds
17:09 Mental Health Awareness and Cultural Perspectives
19:07 The Struggle of Sharing Emotions
21:10 Understanding Anxiety and Excitement
22:10 The Burden of Sharing
23:53 Wringing Out Pride and Shame
25:18 Creating a Judgment-Free Zone
27:46 The Importance of Open-Ended Questions
30:13 Checking In with Each Other
32:46 Building Safe Spaces
35:48 Call to Action: Checking In

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S2: E2 - "Who or What is Discipling You?"

Summary: In this episode of 'Cutting Up with the Crawfords', Dari and Derrick explore the concept of discipleship, discussing its importance in personal growth and spiritual development. They share personal experiences and insights on how various influences shape our lives, emphasizing the need for accountability, community, and mentorship. The conversation highlights practical steps for fostering a deeper relationship with God and encourages listeners to reflect on their own discipleship journey.

Takeaways:

• Discipleship is about walking alongside others in their faith journey.
• Everyone is being influenced by something, whether positive or negative.
• Accountability in relationships is crucial for growth.
• Community plays a vital role in discipleship and support.
• Mentorship can come from both older and younger individuals.
• Discipleship is not just about teaching but living out faith together.
• We should regularly audit our influences and their impact on us.
• Biblical teachings provide a foundation for understanding discipleship.
• Spending time with God is essential for spiritual growth.
• Reflection on personal influences can lead to meaningful change.

How to start letting Jesus disciple you:

1. Audit your influences – What are you consuming daily?
2. Prioritize time with God – Prayer, scripture, and community.
3. Find mentors and accountability partners.

Reflection: Who or what is discipling you right now?

Call to action: Identify one thing discipling you that needs to change.

Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Personal Updates
02:20 Understanding Discipleship
04:52 The Importance of Discipleship
07:33 Influences in Our Lives
09:56 Negative Influences and Social Media
12:39 Biblical Discipleship and Community
15:07 Accountability in Discipleship
23:35 The Importance of Community and Accountability
25:35 Mentorship Across Generations
27:40 Discipleship and Personal Growth
29:58 Navigating Cultural Influences
32:27 Discipline in Discipleship
34:54 The Role of the Church
36:11 Shifting Influences and Priorities
40:49 Organic Discipleship in Relationships
45:29 Reflecting on Personal Discipleship
47:21 Identifying and Replacing Negative Influences

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S2: E1 - "Blessings in the Chaos: Finding God Through Change"

Keywords: Crawfords, faith, job transitions, community, God, blessings, financial changes, emotional journey, family, podcast

Summary: In this episode of 'Cutting Up With The Crawfords', Dari and Derrick share their journey of returning to the podcast after a hiatus, discussing the emotional transitions in their lives, particularly Derrick's job changes and the impact on their family. They reflect on their faith, the importance of community, and how they find God amidst chaos. The couple also touches on financial changes, the significance of support from friends and family, and their future plans, all while maintaining a light-hearted and engaging conversation.

Chapters

00:00 Welcome Back and Life Updates

02:39 Navigating Job Changes and Community Loss

05:20 Finding God in the Chaos

08:14 Reflections on Faith and Transition

11:07 The Impact of Ministry and Relationships

13:44 New Beginnings and Future Plans

16:28 Financial Changes and Personal Growth

19:26 The Role of Faith in Daily Life

21:59 Embracing Change and Trusting God

25:01 The Importance of Community Support

27:47 Looking Ahead and Future Endeavors

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I Respectfully Disagree: How to Have Difficult Conversations in a Divided World
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Get ready for an insightful episode of "Cutting Up With The Crawfords" as Dari takes the mic with her closest girlfriends to explore one of the vital "F" words of marriage: Friends.

In this candid conversation, Dari and her girlfriends unravel the layers of friendship within the context of marriage. From reminiscing about the single days when friendship meant late-night adventures to unpacking what it's like to be best friends with your spouse, they share laughs, lessons, and a few surprises along the way.

Join the lively discuss the importance of maintaining connections outside of marriage and why a robust friend circle is a key ingredient in a thriving relationship. Whether you're navigating the complexities of married life or just curious about the dynamics of friendship within matrimony, this episode offers a genuine exploration of the "F" word that often takes a back seat in marital discussions.

Tune in to "Friends Forever: Dari and Her Girlfriends Unravel the 'F' Word of Marriage" for laughter, shared experiences, and valuable insights into the multifaceted world of friendship in marriage. Press play and join the Crawford conversation—it's like a girls' night out, but with a podcast twist!

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