In this episode, I sit down with PJ Milani (you may know him by Milani Creative), a high school film teacher who's built an inspirational brand sharing visual metaphors that's attracted an audience of over 400,000 people across platforms by embracing quantity over quality and abandoning perfectionism.

We dive deep into his creative philosophy, the psychology behind consistent output, and how he overcame decades of creative paralysis to become one of the most recognized visual metaphor creators online. PJ shares his approach to handling imposter syndrome, the constraints that fuel his creativity, and why "good enough" might be the secret to unlocking your creative potential. This conversation will completely change how you think about creative work and hitting publish.

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CONNECT WITH PJ Milani:

• https://www.milanicreative.com/art
• The visual metaphor we talk about at the end of the episode: https://www.instagram.com/p/DFxaB-Hx2md/

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TOPICS DISCUSSED:

• Perfectionism is often disguised procrastination - Waiting for the "perfect approach" or "right tools" can delay creative output for years, as PJ experienced before finally starting at age 40.
• Creative accents (your imperfections) become your unique signature - In an AI-dominated world, the way you imperfectly create something is what makes your work distinctly human and memorable.
• "Good enough" should be redefined as "as good as I can make it today" - This shifts the question from impossible perfection to achievable daily excellence within your current constraints.
• You are not the best judge of what will resonate with your audience - PJ's most viral content was often work he didn't think was his best, proving creators can't predict what will connect with people.
• Creative practice should align with meaningful work, not just cool achievements - Focusing on work that feels personally fulfilling sustains long-term creative output better than chasing viral moments.
• Imposter syndrome intensifies with success rather than disappearing - The feeling of not belonging in certain rooms persists even at high achievement levels, requiring ongoing psychological management.
• Constraints actually fuel creativity rather than limit it - Having boundaries provides a framework that makes creative decisions easier and prevents paralysis from infinite options.

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TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 - Overcoming Perfectionism Through Consistency

06:16 - From Teaching to Creating: PJ's Background

24:08 - Crossing the Fame Threshold

30:47 - Navigating Imposter Syndrome

43:55 - Balancing Cool vs. Meaningful in Creative Work

50:45 - The Overwhelm of Being Multi-Passionate

56:20 - Metrics of Success: What Actually Matters

1:12:02 - The Art of "Good Enough" and Creative Accents

1:23:04 - Technical Skills vs. True Creativity

1:44:08 - Creative Constraints That Fuel Innovation

1:49:18 - How to Overcome...

Tobi Emonts-Holley is a CEO, father of seven, and high-performance coach for fathers who want to thrive at home and at work without burning out.

In this episode, Tobi shares hard-earned insights about what it takes to be a true leader (and why leadership starts with humility, not ego), how to lead yourself in order to lead others, the power of building systems instead of relying on willpower, how to approach work-life balance and burnout when you can’t clock out, how he manages to stay present as a father and husband raising 7 kids and maintain a happy marriage—and how he manages to do all of this while also staying fit, building a huge social media following, and coaching other high-performers.

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CONNECT WITH Tobi Emonts-Holley:

http://hybrid-dad.com

http://instagram.com/tobi_emonts/

https://www.youtube.com/@tobi_emonts

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TOPICS DISCUSSED:

• Being a leader means transitioning from being a hard worker to a hard thinker - As you advance in leadership, your most important job becomes creating space to think strategically rather than executing tasks.
• Leading yourself is a prerequisite for leading others effectively - You can’t inspire or guide others until you've done the inner work to understand and manage your own insecurities and patterns.
• Self-respect is the root issue behind most fitness and time management failures - People who can't stick to exercise routines or boundaries often lack fundamental self-respect, not discipline or knowledge.
• Systems and boundaries allow you to be present with family while maintaining performance - Having structured work processes and protected personal time allows you to be fully present during family moments without sacrificing professional output.
• Different life areas can elevate each other rather than compete - Morning workouts improve emotional stability for parenting, better work boundaries create more family time, and strategic thinking enhances all areas of life.
• Parenting is about raising future adults, not managing current children - The decisions you make about screen time, work ethic, and presence today shape the adults your children will become.
• Stillness and uninterrupted thinking time are competitive advantages for leaders - Taking walks without distractions and creating protected space for deep thought leads to better decision-making across all life domains.

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TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 From Volunteer to CEO

07:30 Setting Healthy Boundaries When You’re Always On

11:38 Productivity Myths and How to Have It All

26:40 The Power of Stillness

34:52 Leadership Myths vs. Reality

45:03 How Leaders Deal with Self-Doubt

48:20 Why You Have to Lead Yourself to Lead Others

55:54 Tobi’s 10-Year Vision and His...

In this episode, I sit down with Jay Yang, a 19-year-old who landed jobs with Noah Kagan and Tyler Denk before graduating high school and is now working with Alex and Leila Hormozi. We explore his "permissionless approach" to creating opportunities, finding your obsession, navigating imposter syndrome, and why most people wait for permission that will never come. If you've ever wondered whether you're too young, too old, too inexperienced, or too whatever to go after what you want, this conversation will shift your perception of what’s possible when you adopt a permissionless approach.

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ABOUT JAY YANG:

Jay Yang proves you don't need permission to create extraordinary opportunities. He built a six-figure business and hundreds of thousands of social media followers before graduating high school, then became Head of Content for Noah Kagan where he led the social media campaign that made Noah's book a NYT bestseller. Now 19 and working with Alex and Leila Hormozi at acquisition.com, Jay shares his permissionless strategies in his new book You Can Just Do Things: The Power of Permissionless Action.

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CONNECT WITH JAY YANG:

• Twitter (X): @jayyanginspires
• Instagram: @jayyanginspires
• LinkedIn: Jay Yang
• Weekly Newsletter: The Spark

Get Jay’s Latest Book: You Can Just Do Things: The Power of Permissionless Action

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TOPICS DISCUSSED:

• Do the Work Upfront - Instead of asking "how can I help," create actual value first and show them what you can do.
• The Three Obsession Tests - Find what makes you lose track of time, keeps you up past midnight, and what others find boring but you love.
• Show Evidence, Not Arguments - When family doubts your non-traditional path, prove it works rather than trying to convince them why it should.
• Build Friends, Not Networks - Focus on genuine relationships and being generous without expecting anything in return.
• Reframe Imposter Syndrome - That uncomfortable feeling means you're growing and entering new territory, not that you don't belong.
• The North Star Decision Filter - Evaluate every opportunity by asking if it moves you closer to your ultimate goal.
• Find Your Torture - Success comes from finding the suffering you're willing to embrace because you love the work itself.
• Permission is a Myth - Most doors are unlocked; people just assume they're locked and never try the handle.
• Compress Your Timeline - You can achieve in months what others take years to do by strategically connecting with the right people.
• Choose Long-term Fulfillment - Prioritize what's worthwhile over the long run rather than chasing short-term...

Jon Denton shares his 20-year journey from games journalist to 500K-subscriber YouTuber, revealing the hidden mental health crisis plaguing creators. We discuss burnout, isolation, surviving online hate mobs, audience capture, and why he's launching a mastermind to help other creators navigate the psychological toll of putting themselves online.

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ABOUT JON DENTON:

Jon Denton is a "Level 99 Unc," grown his YouTube channel to over 500k. He spends half his time "reacting to stuff," and the other half helping people break through their limits.

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CONNECT WITH JON DENTON:

Jon's Newsletter: https://jondenton.substack.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jondenton22/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JonDenton

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TOPICS DISCUSSED:

• Why success amplifies past wounds - Why external achievements often make old wounds louder instead of healing them.
• The creator isolation paradox - Performing connection for thousands while experiencing deep disconnection and loneliness.
• When your audience becomes your prison - How creators become trapped by audience expectations and lose the ability to evolve.
• The psychology behind online hate - Understanding that criticism of your work often reflects the attacker's identity issues, not your content.
• The RAIN protocol for emotional regulation - Practical frameworks for creating space between triggers and responses.
• Mental health as a strategic advantage - Why emotional regulation is foundational to sustainable creator success, not separate from it.
• Creating the stimulus-response gap - How to notice faster and recover quicker from criticism and setbacks.
• Why you can't think away emotional wounds - Why positive thinking alone doesn't work and what actually helps with creator burnout.
• Creator communities as survival tool - How connection with other creators becomes essential for survival, not just networking.

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TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 Intro

01:35 From Journalist to YouTuber

5:45 The Psychology Behind Reaction Videos

13:52 The Craft of Being an Entertainer

22:50 What Makes Great Music

31:06 Meeting The Weeknd - The Power of Putting Yourself Out There

38:50 The Fear of Ridicule and Tall Poppy Syndrome

48:50 The Uncertainty of Being a Creator

54:34 Burnout and Chronic Fatigue

01:01:35 The Inner Journey of Mental Health

01:18:14 The Stimulus-Response Gap and Emotional Regulation

01:24:35 Handling Online Hate

01:41:04 Scarcity vs. Abundance Mindsets in the Creator...

In this in-depth conversation, I talk with Dan Bennett, video expert and founder of Hot Sauce Studio, about the psychology of camera confidence (and why your gear only makes up 5% of your success on camera), sharing your expertise with the world, and navigating the insecurities and uncertainties of entrepreneurship. We explore how fear, authenticity, and personal development intersect with being on camera, building a business, and finding your voice as a creator, and share insights into overcoming creative blocks.

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ABOUT DAN BENNETT:

Dan Bennett helps remarkable people look and sound great on camera. After years working with corporate clients, he shifted his focus to helping entrepreneurs and professionals build camera confidence and create effective video content. His company is currently rebranding as Hot Sauce Studio. Dan emphasizes making video simple (though not necessarily easy) and focuses on the psychological aspects of camera confidence.

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CONNECT WITH DAN:

Website: danhaslinks.com

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KEY TOPICS DISCUSSED:

• The psychological barriers to camera confidence and how to overcome them

• Dan's "85% rule" - how most of video success is giving yourself permission to be great

• The "Four Horsemen of Fear": fear of failure, fear of ridicule, fear of uncertainty, and fear of success

• How video acts as "the ultimate mirror" that forces creators to confront themselves

• The importance of authenticity versus creating a persona

• Both hosts' personal journeys from difficult backgrounds to entrepreneurial success

• Craftsmanship and taking pride in your work, whatever that work may be

• The power of tactical vulnerability in building audience connection

• How entrepreneurs often face their biggest personal growth challenges through building businesses

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TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 Intro

02:57 The Tech Debt Problem

10:51 Why Authenticity Beats Perfection

17:51 The Psychology of Camera Confidence

24:38 The Four Horsemen of Fear

30:32 Growing Up Poor and Becoming a First-Generation Entrepreneur

46:15 Dan’s 85% Rule for Winning on Camera

50:57 Why Video is the Ultimate Mirror

54:11 Navigating Imposter Syndrome

1:14:38 The Lost Art of Craftsmanship

1:33:30 Tactical Vulnerability

1:51:27 The Lazy Authenticity Method

1:59:45 Final Thoughts

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SOCIAL LINKS:

Website: https://coreywilkspsyd.com/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@coreywilkspsyd

Substack: https://substack.com/@coreywilkspsyd

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/coreywilkspsyd/

Twitter: https://x.com/CoreyWilksPsyD

Instagram:

In this conversation, Corey Wilks, Psy.D., explores the concept of impostor syndrome, emphasizing that many successful individuals feel like imposters in their respective fields. He discusses the common rooms where people feel they don't belong, highlighting the importance of embracing one's imposter status as a pathway to personal growth and authenticity. Through examples of well-known figures, he illustrates that everyone grapples with self-doubt, yet these feelings can lead to meaningful contributions and connections.

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EPISODE LINKS:

Danny Miranda: https://www.youtube.com/@DannyMiranda

Lex Fridman: https://www.youtube.com/@lexfridman

Ali Abdaal: https://www.youtube.com/@aliabdaal and check out Ali's book: https://www.feelgoodproductivity.com/

Leila Hormozi: https://www.youtube.com/@leilahormozi

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SOCIAL LINKS:

Website: https://coreywilkspsyd.com/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@coreywilkspsyd

Substack: https://substack.com/@coreywilkspsyd

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/coreywilkspsyd/

Twitter: https://x.com/CoreyWilksPsyD

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coreywilkspsyd/

Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/coreywilkspsyd.bsky.social

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In this conversation, psychologists Dr. Corey Wilks and Dr. Nick Wignall discuss essential mental health habits tailored for entrepreneurs. They explore strategies to manage overwhelm, anxiety, and burnout, emphasizing the importance of sleep and relaxation. The dialogue also covers building assertiveness and confidence through incremental steps, as well as the distinction between pursuing fleeting pleasures and long-term fulfillment. The conversation is rich with practical tips and insights aimed at fostering emotional well-being in the entrepreneurial journey.

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NEWSLETTER:

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EPISODE LINKS:

Nick’s channel: https://www.youtube.com/@TheFriendlyMind

Nick’s newsletter: https://nickwignall.com/newsletter/

Nick’s 13 Spike Points of View on Emotional Health article: https://nickwignall.com/13-spiky-points-of-view-on-emotional-health/

Anne-Laure Le Cunff’s Liminal Creativity article: https://nesslabs.com/liminal-creativity

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TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 Intro

02:33 How to overcome overwhelm and close open loops

07:52 How to take back control of chronic worry and anxiety

16:53 How to overcome self-limiting beliefs

24:25 How to overcome insomnia and improve sleep

40:20 How to manage burnout

47:00 How to build confidence and overcome insecurity

59:36 How to jump off the Hedonic Treadmill and do fulfilling work

01:04:30 Final Thoughts and Recommended Resources

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SOCIAL LINKS:

Website: https://coreywilkspsyd.com/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@coreywilkspsyd

Substack: https://substack.com/@coreywilkspsyd

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/coreywilkspsyd/

Twitter: https://x.com/CoreyWilksPsyD

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coreywilkspsyd/

Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/coreywilkspsyd.bsky.social

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In this conversation, Corey Wilks and performance coach Steve Timoney explore frameworks for reaching one's potential through the concept of the future self. They discuss strategies for defining and aligning with one's ideal future self, the importance of values, the use of feedback loops, and the creation of a mental advisory board to guide decision-making. The dialogue emphasizes the need for clarity in identity and actions to avoid cognitive dissonance and achieve personal and professional goals.

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EPISODE LINKS:

Steve Timoney's Links:

X/Twitter: https://x.com/SteveTimoney

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephen-timoney-214306101/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@stephentimoney

Website: https://www.stephentimoney.com/

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TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 Intro

01:41 How to define your ideal future self

07:55 How to focus on what matters and filter out distractions

13:46 How to develop a process to align your actions and intentions (and avoid doing unaligned work)

23:33 How to overcome short-term thinking and clarify what’s worth your most precious resources

31:02 How to leverage feedback loops to get 12 months’ worth of work done in 3 months

33:40 How to leverage a Mental Advisory Board to guide yourself toward your ideal future

41:30 Final Thoughts on reaching your potential by leveraging “Future Self” frameworks

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SOCIAL LINKS:

Website: https://coreywilkspsyd.com/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@coreywilkspsyd

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/coreywilkspsyd/

Twitter: https://x.com/CoreyWilksPsyD

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coreywilkspsyd/

Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/coreywilkspsyd.bsky.social

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