In this episode, Ashley walks through Chapter 13 of Cradled in Hope, “With the Same Comfort: When You Want to Use Your Grief for Good.” She reflects on how God can use our heartbreak to minister to others and reminds grieving moms that purpose flows from a transformed heart—not from striving or pressure to “make meaning” out of tragedy.

Ashley shares a powerful story about the day of Bridget’s funeral and how their procession unknowingly passed by the future headquarters of Bridget’s Cradles—a building not yet built, but already known to God. This moment, years later, became a testimony to His faithfulness and sovereign plan.

In this episode, Ashley shared:

• The story of Bridget’s funeral day and the moment sunbeams broke through the clouds over the cemetery

• Why grief feels unbearable at first and how Ashley once told God, “Nothing good will ever come from this”

• How years of walking through loss, including her dad’s death, revealed that God could redeem her pain for good

• A reflection on 2 Corinthians 1:3–4 and how we’re called to comfort others with the same comfort we’ve received from God

• Why moms don’t need to strive to honor their babies—their value is inherent, and they are already honored in Heaven

• The distinction between serving God from love and gratitude vs. striving to earn worth or validation

• How Bridget’s Cradles is not just a grief project but a ministry rooted in obedience and the Great Commission

• Encouragement that everyone’s calling will look different—and why obedience in small acts is where impact begins

• How her ministry started with a single cradle in Bridget’s nursery, and grew through thousands of small, unseen yeses

• An explanation of the difference between purpose (which is always to serve Jesus) and calling (which is specific to each woman)

• Testimonies of grieving moms who’ve found unique ways to serve others and share the hope of Christ

• A reminder that we may never see the fruit of our obedience here on earth—but God sees every seed planted

• An encouragement to keep serving, keep shining, and keep running your race until the day you hear, “Well done, good and faithful servant.”

Ashley reminds us that we are called to serve the one who sees us—Jesus—and to love the one in front of us, even in small ways. We don’t have to do something grand. We just have to begin.

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[www.bridgetscradles.com/post/bookclub14]

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In this episode, Ashley walks through Chapter 12 of Cradled in Hope, “More Than Gold: When You Allow God to Transform You,” and reflects on how her faith has been shaped through trials—even before losing Bridget. She shares how past hardships prepared her to walk through grief with Jesus and how those earlier seasons of suffering laid a foundation of trust in God's goodness.

Ashley explains that transformation doesn’t mean moving on from grief—it’s about sanctification: becoming more like Christ through the pain. Rooted in 1 Peter 1:6–7, she talks about how God can use the fire of loss to refine our faith. With honesty and hope, she encourages grieving moms to surrender their broken hearts to Jesus and to consider how He might be working in them—even in the midst of deep sorrow.

In this episode, Ashley shared:

• How suffering is often the way Jesus molds and refines us through trials

• The biblical meaning behind the title “More Than Gold” from 1 Peter 1:6–7

• Her personal story of walking through many painful trials—including a divorce due to adultery, Bridget’s death, her son Brenner’s medical crisis, and her father’s tragic death

• A chart she includes in the book illustrating that in life, we are always either about to enter, in the middle of, or coming out of a trial

• How her questions to God have shifted over time—from “Why me?” to “What do You want to teach me through this?”

• Why pruning is part of the process of bearing more fruit for God’s Kingdom (John 15)

• How our desperation in grief leads us into deeper dependence on Jesus

• Scriptural promises that link suffering with future glory and purpose

• The urgency to live for eternity, invest in Heavenly treasure, and serve God out of gratitude—not obligation

Ashley gently reminds moms that God never wastes our pain. If we allow Him, He will take the ashes of grief and turn them into something more beautiful and eternal than we could ever imagine—faith that is more precious than gold.

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[www.bridgetscradles.com/post/bookclub13]

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In this episode, Ashley shares a deeply personal story of how grief resurfaced during her third pregnancy, years after the loss of her daughter Bridget. Centered on Chapter 11 of Cradled in Hope, “Holding Both: When You Experience Both Joy and Sorrow,” she reflects on how conflicting emotions—gratitude and grief, joy and sadness—can coexist and create confusion, guilt, and shame for grieving moms.

Through honest storytelling and gentle encouragement, Ashley invites listeners to reframe “either/or” thinking into “both/and” truth. With grace, she reminds moms that it’s possible to feel immense love for one child while still mourning another, and that sorrow and joy can live side-by-side in the sacred space of a grieving mother’s heart.

In this episode, Ashley shared:

• The emotional experience of finding out her third child was a boy, and the waves of unexpected grief that followed

• The phrase “holding both” and how her counselor introduced it as a healing framework for complex emotions

• How expectations versus reality can lead to disappointment—and how the enemy uses that gap to plant lies

• Real-life examples of “both/and” experiences in grief (e.g., being thankful and heartbroken, smiling while missing your baby)

• Why joy does not cancel out sorrow, and laughter is not a betrayal of your grief

• The temptation to tie grief up with a “rainbow baby” happy ending—and why only Jesus can be our redemption

• How rainbow babies can bring joy, but should never bear the burden of being our hope or healing

• Encouragement to trust God’s sovereignty even when your story doesn’t go the way you planned

Ashley reminds grieving moms that time alone does not heal all wounds—but Jesus does. And though we live in the tension now, one day in Heaven, we will no longer have to hold both—because we’ll be holding our babies again.

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[www.bridgetscradles.com/post/bookclub12]

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In this episode, Ashley walks through the many ways grief after losing a baby can trigger anxiety, panic, and overwhelm in daily life. Centered on Chapter 10 of Cradled in Hope, she shares real examples of past, present, and future (anticipatory) triggers and how they impact grieving moms emotionally and physically. Drawing from personal experiences and biblical wisdom, Ashley offers practical tools for navigating triggers and renewing your mind through Christ.

Ashley shared:

• The difference between past, present, and future triggers—and examples of each from real life (like birth trauma, seeing baby items in stores, or dreading future events)

• Why grieving moms may relive the past or spiral in anxious thoughts (including "what if" ruminations and anticipatory anxiety)

• The neuroscience behind trauma and anxiety—including how amygdala hijack and the nervous system affect your reactions

• Practical ways to protect your heart and set healthy boundaries during grief (social media breaks, saying no to events, unfollowing or muting triggers)

• How to prepare for difficult situations and give yourself grace to step away if needed

• The power of grounding techniques and Scripture to calm your nervous system and refocus on the present

• How worship, biblical imagery, and speaking affirmations can bring peace in moments of panic

• Encouragement to seek counseling or professional help for intense grief, anxiety, or depression—alongside Christ-centered support groups

Ashley reminds grieving moms that protecting your heart is not selfish—it’s a wise and loving act that gives Jesus space to heal you. When we choose to invite Him into the overwhelm, He replaces our panic with His peace.

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[www.bridgetscradles.com/post/bookclub11]

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This special bonus episode highlights the program from the Wave of Light 2025 event that Bridget’s Cradles hosted in Wichita, Kansas, on October 15, 2025, Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day.

In this episode, we shared:

• The full program from the 2025 Wave of Light candlelight vigil at Beech Lake, including worship, messages of hope, and the reading of babies’ names in Heaven
• Opening remarks by emcee Scott Evans and an opening prayer by Pastor John Carney of Central Community Church
• A message from Christ Church Pastor Doug Hodgens, representing this year’s Presenting Sponsor, sharing their mission of compassion and faith in Christ
• Worship led by Brice Basquez and the Christ Church Worship Band, featuring heartfelt songs such as Firm Foundation, It Is Well, Homesick for Heaven, and Amazing Grace
• Brice’s personal testimony of loss, faith, and the sustaining hope of Jesus
• Ashley Opliger’s speech, which included gratitude for sponsors, volunteers, and families; a tribute to Susan Burrus and the Burrus family; fundraising updates for the Shine Their Light campaign; and excerpts from her book Cradled in Hope connecting each worship song to Scripture and themes of Heaven, healing, and eternal reunion with our babies.
• Recognition of fundraising families, including Stephen and Laura Ondrovich, who received the Shine Their Light Award in memory of their son Thomas
• A call to faith and salvation, inviting attendees to find hope in Jesus and connect with local churches for ongoing support
• The Hope Walk—a candlelit remembrance through rows of 50,000 pink, blue, and white lights, followed by a lantern release over the lake as each baby’s name was lovingly read aloud
• The Reading of Names of Babies in Heaven (for families that registered, attended, or sponsored the event)
• A closing performance of “Amazing Grace” and final words of gratitude to all who made the night possible

The episode captures a sacred evening of remembrance, worship, and community—celebrating the promise that one day, we will see our babies again in Heaven through faith in Jesus Christ.

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https://www.bridgetscradles.com/post/waveoflight2025

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In this episode, Ashley vulnerably shares how spiritual warfare often intensifies in the wake of pregnancy and infant loss. Centered on Chapter 9 of Cradled in Hope, “The Good Fight: When You Encounter the Enemy’s Attacks,” she recounts her own season of darkness on bedrest with Bridget—and the moment she voiced aloud, “Nothing good will ever come from this.” In that valley of isolation, fear, and pain, Ashley came to understand how the enemy targets grieving moms with lies meant to destroy their hope and faith.

Through personal testimony and biblical truth, Ashley exposes the enemy’s tactics: sowing lies about God’s goodness, confusing us with counterfeit answers, and isolating us when we are already hurting. But she also shares how we can fight back—with Scripture, discernment, and the full armor of God. This episode is both a warning and an encouragement to moms walking through spiritual battle in grief.

In this episode, Ashley shared:

• The types of lies the enemy speaks to grieving moms—and how to recognize his tactics

• How isolation and pain make grieving moms especially vulnerable to the enemy’s attacks

• A biblical understanding of how Satan schemes to steal, kill, and destroy in seasons of suffering

• The truth that our fight is not against flesh and blood, and how the armor of God equips us to stand

• A breakdown of the “rotten seeds” the enemy plants and the “spoiled fruit” they produce

• A side-by-side comparison of God’s voice versus the enemy’s voice

Ashley reminds us that while the enemy is cunning, Jesus is our Shepherd—and when we listen closely for His voice, we will be led into truth, peace, and hope.

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EPISODE SHOW NOTES & FULL TRANSCRIPT:
[www.bridgetscradles.com/post/bookclub10]

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In this episode, Ashley speaks to the deep wounds that can come from others’ words—or their silence—after the loss of a baby. Centered on Chapter 8 of Cradled in Hope, “They Know Not What They Do: When You Are Hurt by Others,” she gently walks alongside grieving moms who have experienced secondary pain in the wake of their primary loss. Whether through insensitive comments or heartbreaking absence, Ashley shares how Jesus understands—and how He calls us to respond with grace.

Through personal stories, biblical wisdom, and practical tools, Ashley invites listeners to process their relational grief with honesty and hope. With heartfelt compassion, she shares how Jesus, even in His own suffering, forgave those who hurt Him—and how we, too, can follow His example, even when it’s hard.

In this episode, Ashley shared:

• How a stranger’s comment at a park triggered unexpected waves of grief

• The “Tale of Two Cups” analogy that explains why small remarks can feel so big when our emotional cup is full

• The concept of the “Grace Cup”—a mindset of pre-filling our hearts with grace for others

• Real-life examples of insensitive things people say—and how to lovingly respond or set boundaries

• How to identify your love language in grief and communicate your specific needs to others

• Why some friendships fade while others deepen—and how grief can clarify who your true community is

• Encouragement to forgive those who’ve hurt you, even if they never realize it—just as Jesus did on the cross

• An invitation to find support through Bridget’s Cradles’ Hope Online groups or your local community

Ashley reminds us that while grief may reveal who stands beside us and who stays silent, God is always faithful. And He often brings new, meaningful relationships in the midst of our pain. In Jesus, we find the grace to forgive, the wisdom to communicate, and the strength to heal.

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[www.bridgetscradles.com/post/bookclub9]

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In this episode, Ashley walks alongside grieving moms who are struggling with guilt, shame, or regret after the loss of their baby. Centered on Chapter 7 of Cradled in Hope, “Grace Upon Grace: When You Can’t Forgive Yourself,” she offers compassionate truth for the mom who wonders if she could have or should have done something differently. With tender honesty and biblical reassurance, Ashley shares how grace—not guilt—is the way forward.

Ashley shares her personal struggle with shame and how she once believed her body had failed her daughter. With real-life stories, scriptural encouragement, and an invitation to rest in the finished work of the cross, this episode helps grieving moms understand that self-forgiveness is possible through Christ—and that His mercy is more than enough.

In this episode, Ashley shared:

• Why grieving moms often struggle with shame and regret after loss

• Her personal battle with body resentment after Bridget’s stillbirth

• The impact of living in broken bodies in a broken world—and how that shapes our perspective

• The difference between hindsight and control, and how we can’t hold ourselves accountable for things we didn’t know

• Why we need to extend the same compassion to ourselves that we would give to a friend

• What it means to forgive our bodies, our decisions, and our broken expectations through the lens of grace

• A biblical understanding of how our babies were knit together body, soul, and spirit

• The eternal hope we have because our babies are alive in Heaven

Ashley reminds us that our bodies were never meant to carry the blame. They were created by God, designed to be temples for His Spirit—and through Christ, we are forgiven and free. Our babies were miraculously knit together, and even if their lives were brief on earth, they are eternal in Heaven. There is no condemnation in Christ—only grace upon grace.

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EPISODE SHOW NOTES & FULL TRANSCRIPT:
[www.bridgetscradles.com/post/bookclub8]

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