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  • Sibling Conflict: A Christian Parent's Guide to Raising Peacemakers at Home

    Sibling Conflict: A Christian Parent's Guide to Raising Peacemakers at Home
    2026/06/30
    Bickering. The escalating voices in the next room make you wonder whether to referee or run the other way. If sibling conflict has become the soundtrack of your home, you are so not alone, and this episode is for you! In week two of our Summertime Conflict series, host Stacy Bellward unpacks the heart of sibling squabbles and offers a refreshing reframe: those arguments happening between your kids right now? As a Christian parent, you have golden opportunities to raise lifelong peacemakers under your own roof. Whether you’re parenting toddlers or teens locked in a week-long standoff, you’ll walk away with wisdom, hope, and tangible tools to pursue peace in your family. Listen in! Key Takeaways: Gain insight into when to step into your kids’ squabblesFrom questions to role-playing, discover practical ways to enter into the heat of the moment with your kidsHow learning true reconciliation points us to Christ Our Episode Sponsor Today’s episode is brought to you by David Richter, owner of SimpleCFO and author of Profit First for Real Estate Investing. We’re grateful for David’s sponsorship, which helps make these conversations possible for families everywhere. You can find more information on his website https://simplecfo.com/. Mentioned in this Podcast: Ephesians 4:32Matthew 5:9Sibling Conflict Online Coursecf communityEpisode 305 – Helping Siblings Make Up After A “Fight”Trash, Truth, Treasure Online CourseCalming Strategies PDFThe Table Monthly Giving Program Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! Want to keep this conversation going? Join us inside the cf community — a faith-anchored, coach-supported space where parents grow together. Reflect on episodes like this one, ask hard questions, and celebrate the small wins alongside parents from around the world. 👉 Join the cf community today Love the podcast? Leave a review to help other parents find shows like this one. This podcast was made possible by members of The Table, whose monthly support creates a ripple effect of change for generations to come. We’d love to have you take a seat at The Table! © 2026 Connected Families
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    23 分
  • Helping Siblings Make Up After a “Fight”

    Helping Siblings Make Up After a “Fight”
    2026/06/30
    What if the goal of your kids’ fighting wasn’t silence, but restored hearts? Most parents want the bickering to stop. But what if helping siblings make up after a fight was actually an invitation? An opportunity to show your kids a glimpse of the gospel itself, where broken relationships are made new, and joy is rediscovered on the other side of hard moments. In today’s replay episode, Jim and Lynne Jackson (Co-founders of Connected Families) join host Stacy Bellward for a rich, hope-filled conversation about building the value of restoration in your home. Drawing from Scripture and decades of personal experience, Jim and Lynne paint a beautiful picture of what’s possible when parents shift from solving conflict to restoring relationships. Key Takeaways: How to develop a value of reconciliation rooted in ChristWhy modeling restoration in your own relationships (marriage, friendships, even with your own parents) is the most powerful teacherPractical, lighthearted ways to guide kids through conflictHow to prepare your kids outside of conflictAge-appropriate ways to celebrate restored hearts Our Episode Sponsor Today’s episode is brought to you by David Richter, owner of SimpleCFO and author of Profit First for Real Estate Investing. We’re grateful for David’s sponsorship, which helps make these conversations possible for families everywhere. You can find more information on his website https://simplecfo.com/. Mentioned in this Podcast: Galatians 6:1Matthew 5:23-24Book of JohnEpisode 139 – How to Help Kids Stop Fighting All The TimeBook – Discipline That Connects With Your Child’s HeartSibling Conflict Online Coursecf community Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! Guest Bio: Jim and Lynne Jackson are the Co-Founders of Connected Families in Plymouth, MN. With over 50 combined years of professionally helping families and a love for working in the church, Jim and Lynne have been dedicated to bringing reliable, God-centered, research-based parenting resources to all families since 2002. Want to keep this conversation going? Join us inside the cf community — a faith-anchored, coach-supported space where parents grow together. Reflect on episodes like this one, ask hard questions, and celebrate the small wins alongside parents from around the world. 👉 Join the cf community today Love the podcast? Leave a review to help other parents find shows like this one. This podcast was made possible by members of The Table, whose monthly support creates a ripple effect of change for generations to come. We’d love to have you take a seat at The Table! © 2026 Connected Families
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    41 分
  • Dads, You’re Not Alone: How to Stay Calm When Parenting is Hard | Ep. 304

    Dads, You’re Not Alone: How to Stay Calm When Parenting is Hard | Ep. 304
    2026/06/30
    Father’s Day can stir up a lot for dads. For some, it’s breakfast in bed and handmade cards. For others, it’s a quiet moment of reflection: Am I really the dad I want to be? In this special Father’s Day episode, guest host and Director of Development, Chad Hayenga, sits down with Connected Families Certified Parent Coaches David Cervenka and Joe Dewey for an honest, encouraging conversation about what it looks like to stay calm as dads, especially when things get challenging at home. Together, they share real stories from their own parenting journeys, and share the kind of wisdom that comes from walking the same journey many of you may be on. If you’re a dad who sometimes wonders if you’re getting it right, this episode is for you. You don’t have to be perfect. You just have to keep showing up, and our loving God, who redeems the lives of His servants (Psalm 34:22), is in the business of redeeming our parenting moments, too. Key Takeaways: Hear why your presence matters more than your performance Learn how to do a quick self-inventory, because a dysregulated parent can’t help a dysregulated child Shift your intensity from correction toward connection, encouragement, and coachingGod is in the business of redemption Our Episode Sponsor Today’s episode is brought to you by David Richter, owner of SimpleCFO and author of Profit First for Real Estate Investing. We’re grateful for David’s sponsorship, which helps make these conversations possible for families everywhere. You can find more information on his website https://simplecfo.com/. Mentioned in this Podcast: Psalm 34: 221 Thessalonians 2:11–12 Book – Discipline That Connects With Your Child’s HeartSensitive & Intense Kids Online CourseConnected Families Parent CoachingJust for Dads – Included in the Free Learning LibraryThe cf communityThe Table Monthly Giving Program Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! Guest Bio: Joe Dewey is a Connected Families Certified Parent Coach. He has a Bachelor’s in Mechanical Engineering and has served in full-time ministry with Cru in Leader Development and Human Resources since 2010. He has been a certified life coach since 2017. These experiences and more have molded him into a leader who leads with solutions. Whether in ministry or parenting, he finds clarity amid complexity, providing win-win solutions. David Cervenka is a Connected Families Certified Parent Coach and loves helping people connect with God’s heart. He has found that the Connected Families framework has deeply impacted his own relationship with the Lord. He has almost twenty years of experience in mentoring and coaching ministry leaders in spiritual and family rhythms. David lives in Texas with his wife, Danielle, and their children. Want to keep this conversation going? Join us inside the cf community — a faith-anchored, coach-supported space where parents grow together. Reflect on episodes like this one, ask hard questions, and celebrate the small wins alongside parents from around the world. 👉 Join the cf community today Love the podcast? Leave a review to help other parents find shows like this one. This podcast was made possible by members of The Table, whose monthly support creates a ripple effect of change for generations to come. We’d love to have you take a seat at The Table! © 2026 Connected Families
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    32 分
  • Sibling Competition and Bedtime Chaos: Hear from the cf community

    Sibling Competition and Bedtime Chaos: Hear from the cf community
    2026/06/30
    Ever wished you could pull up a chair with seasoned parent coaches and ask your most pressing questions? Whether you’re in the midst of bedtime challenges or working through sibling competition, host Stacy Bellward invites listeners into a real taste of what’s happening inside the new cf community. Katie Johnson, a Connected Families Certified Parent Coach and dedicated cf community moderator, is joined by fellow certified coaches Jared Kingry and Bekah Idle for a conversation about two real questions that parents submitted in the community! This episode is a heartfelt reminder that you’re not alone, there’s no silver bullet, and growth happens through hard moments, not around them. Press play to listen in, and when you’re ready for more, the door to the cf community is wide open. Key Takeaways: A behind-the-scenes look at the new cf communityHow to reframe competition as an opportunity for connectionDiscover three practical bedtime strategiesThe power of speaking identity statements over your children Mentioned in this Podcast: Join the cf community!Free Learning LibraryBook – Domestic Monastery by Ronald RolheiserConnected Families Ministry Partnership ProgramConnected Families Monthly Giving Program – The TableJared Kingry – Connected Families Certified Parent CoachBekah Idle – Connected Families Certified Parent Coach What we loved from the podcast: “What’s most important is not that I get it right all the time, but that I can stay regulated… “ — Jared Kingry Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! Guest Bio: As a former teacher-turned-homeschool mom with a sensitive & intense child, Katie Johnson came to Connected Families at the end of her rope. As a CF coach, she now helps struggling families adopt a whole-Bible, whole-brain approach for Christ-centered transformation. She loves providing practical tools to help families apply the CF framework to their unique situations. Katie lives in Madison, WI, with her husband, three young kids, a dog, and three chickens. Katie holds a Master’s in Education and has a special passion for supporting families with toddlers. Jared Kingry is a youth pastor, husband, and father of three, bringing both personal and professional perspectives to parenthood. With over a decade in youth ministry, he’s walked alongside families through the challenges and joys of doing life together. He has worked to expand his church’s ministry to include parent coaching that supports discipleship at home, offering a holistic approach that integrates faith, love, and compassion into every aspect of parenting. As a mom of 6 kids (biological and foster), Bekah Idle is a Certified Parent Coach with Connected Families. She walks alongside parents who are ready to move from frustration to fruitfulness. Through years in ministry, homeschool co-ops, and children’s theater, she’s seen it again and again: kids thrive when they feel connected, understood, and deeply loved. She encourages parents with this: You CAN raise wise, confident, connected kids—and ENJOY doing it. 🏡 Ready to Take a Seat in the cf community? This episode is your personal invitation. If anything shared today resonated, if you felt that quiet “yes, I need that” while you listened — we’d love to welcome you in. The cf community is open and ready for you, with coach-led conversations, faith-anchored courses, and parents from around the world walking this road right alongside you. 👉 Join the cf community today Love the podcast? Leave a review to help other parents find shows like this one. This podcast was made possible by members of The Table, whose monthly support creates a ripple effect of change for generations to come. We’d love to have you take a seat at The Table! © 2026 Connected Families
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    42 分
  • You're Not Parenting Alone: Inside the cf community with Katie Johnson

    You're Not Parenting Alone: Inside the cf community with Katie Johnson
    2026/06/01
    In this special episode, host Stacy Bellward sits down with Katie Johnson, Connected Families’ new Community Engagement Manager, Certified Parent Coach, and former educator, to unveil something brand new: the cf community! A place where you’re not parenting alone. After years of watching the Connected Families Framework™ transform households, the team noticed one consistent truth: parents grow faster when they’re not parenting alone. The cf community is designed to be that “people in your corner” space. A faith-anchored, research-informed gathering place where parents can slow down, reflect, ask hard questions, and celebrate small wins alongside a coach and like-minded community. Stacy and Katie walk through what’s inside, who it’s for, and the deep biblical why behind this new chapter of the ministry. Whether you’re a grandparent helping raise grandkids, a parent in a particularly hard season, or someone simply hungry to keep growing, this episode is an invitation to find a resting place for your parenting journey. Key Takeaways: Growth happens in community, not isolation. Learn about what’s inside the cf community!Join others from around the world. Mentioned in this Podcast: Join the cf community today! Philippians 1:62 Peter 3:18Episode 289 – Teaching Kids Responsibility Without Nagging Episode 213 – The Art of Blessing Your Kids Episode 139 – Helping With Sibling Conflict When Kids Fight All the Time Heard in the cf community When Katie shared a post from a mom who had just experienced a profound mindset shift inside the community: “I’m working through Grace and Truth for Moms, and today’s lesson was so impactful. What a mindset shift from ‘it’s my job to get my kids to obey’ to ‘it’s my job to parent wisely.'” Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! Guest Bio: As a former teacher-turned-homeschool mom with a sensitive & intense child, Katie Johnson came to Connected Families at the end of her rope. As a CF coach, she now helps struggling families adopt a whole-Bible, whole-brain approach for Christ-centered transformation. She loves providing practical tools to help families apply the CF framework to their unique situations. Katie lives in Madison, WI, with her husband, three young kids, a dog, and three chickens. Katie holds a Master’s in Education and has a special passion for supporting families with toddlers. 🏡 Ready to Take a Seat in the cf community? This episode is your personal invitation. If anything Katie or Stacy shared today resonated, if you felt that quiet “yes, I need that” while you listened, we’d love to welcome you in. The cf community is open and ready for you, with coach-led conversations, faith-anchored courses, and parents from around the world walking this road right alongside you. 👉 Join the cf community today Love the podcast? Leave a review to help other parents find shows like this one.This podcast was made possible by members of The Table, whose monthly support creates a ripple effect of change for generations to come. We’d love to have you take a seat at The Table! © 2026 Connected Families
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    24 分
  • Parent Ministry That Transforms: A Peek Inside Our Ministry Partnership Program

    Parent Ministry That Transforms: A Peek Inside Our Ministry Partnership Program
    2026/05/18
    What if your church’s parent ministry became the place families pointed to and said, “That’s where everything changed for us”? In this eye-opening episode, host Stacy Bellward sits down with Dr. Cindy Wilson, Connected Families Director of Education, Equipping, and Research, and Joe Dewey, Connected Families Director of Operations, two people who are also living out our Ministry Partnership Program inside their own churches. They pull back the curtain on what it really looks like when a church goes “all in” on equipping parents, the surprising cultural shifts that happen, and the simple first steps any ministry leader can take. Whether you’re a parent who wishes your church offered something deeper, a children’s ministry director hungry for trusted resources, or a school administrator searching for a unifying framework, this conversation will give you both the vision and the practical roadmap. Press play and discover how your church or school can become a place where families don’t just survive parenting, they thrive through it. Key Takeaways: Every church needs a parenting champion. Transformation starts with one person willing to step upConsistency beats one-off eventsThe Connected Families Framework™ works across every context. Churches, schools, foster/adoptive agencies, counseling centers, and even equine therapy ministries are using itWhen teachers, volunteers, and parents all speak the same language, kids hear the same heart-shaping messages Mentioned in this Podcast: Connected Families Ministry Partnership Program Discipline That Connects With Your Child’s Heart Online CourseDiscipline That Connects With Your Child’s Heart Small GroupSensitive and Intense Kids Online CourseThe Power of Questions Online CourseDiscipline That Connects in the Classroom Workshop The Table Monthly Giving Program Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! This podcast was made possible by members of The Table, whose monthly support creates a ripple effect of change for generations to come. We’d love to have you take a seat at The Table! Love the podcast? Leave a review to help other parents discover the show! Guest Bio: Cindy Wilson is a CF-Certified Parent Coach and a Certified Family Life Educator with 20+ years in children & family ministry and academia. As Director of Education, Equipping, and Research for CF, she helps churches, schools, and other organizations use CF resources to equip and support families in their community. She is also helping collect data to show the impact of CF resources on parents and families. Cindy lives in Florida with her husband of over 30 years. She has three adult children, one son-in-law, four grandchildren, and a farm full of animals. Joe Dewey is a Connected Families Certified Parent Coach. He has served as Connected Families Operations Director for the past year and is on the ministry’s leadership team. He is the husband of Courtney, who is also a Certified Parent Coach, and together they have awesome kids. © 2026 Connected Families
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    27 分
  • The Mental Load of Motherhood: Releasing What's Not Yours to Carry

    The Mental Load of Motherhood: Releasing What's Not Yours to Carry
    2026/05/11
    You crawl into bed exhausted, but your brain won’t stop spinning. The to-do list. The moment you wish you’d handled differently. The worry you can’t quite name. There’s a term for what you’re carrying: the mental load of motherhood, and you weren’t meant to carry it alone. In this conversation, host Stacy Bellward sits down with licensed marriage and family therapist Heidi Mortenson to unpack what the mental load actually is, why it’s often rooted in lies rather than tasks, and how inviting Jesus into those quiet, exhausting spaces can change everything. Heidi shares her personal journey of surrender and how the Holy Spirit transformed her marriage, her work, and her parenting. Whether it’s Mother’s Day, an ordinary Tuesday, or 11 pm and you can’t sleep, this episode is a warm encouragement for every mom carrying more than she was meant to carry. In this episode, you’ll discover: What the mental load of motherhood really is, and why it’s often lies, not just tasksHow thoughts fuel feelings and behaviors (and how the Holy Spirit breaks the cycle)Why speaking God’s truth out loud actually builds new neural pathwaysThe Numbers 6 picture that changes how you see yourself as a momOne question to ask when your brain won’t stop spinning A moment we couldn’t stop thinking about: “Jesus doesn’t just love you. He likes you.” Let that calm your soul, Mom. Mentioned in this Podcast: The Table – Connected Families Monthly Giving ProgramGrace & Truth for Moms Online CourseWebsite – HeidiMortenson.comBook – The Brave Encourager by Heidi MortensonPodcast – Strong Tower Mental Health Podcast2 Corinthians 10:5 Matthew 11:28-29 Numbers 6:23-26 Romans 12:2 Ephesians 1 The Immanuel Approach Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! This podcast was made possible by members of The Table, whose monthly support creates a ripple effect of change for generations to come. We’d love to have you take a seat at The Table! Love the podcast? Leave a review to help other parents discover the show! Guest Bio: Heidi Mortenson is a coach and consultant for businesses, leaders, and churches. Having built a mental health practice herself, she understands the ups and downs of balancing personal and business. She is the host of the Strong Tower Mental Health Podcast and the author of the book The Brave Encourager. She speaks on various topics such as identity, parenting, mental health, and leadership. She lives with her husband and three children in Minnesota, where they spend a lot of time at the hockey rink. You can find out more about Heidi at www.heidimortenson.com. © 2026 Connected Families
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    34 分
  • Foster Care and Faith: Supporting Foster Families in Your Community

    Foster Care and Faith: Supporting Foster Families in Your Community
    2026/05/04

    May is National Foster Care Month! For today’s episode, we’ve invited author Jamie Finn to help us discover how faith and foster care are deeply connected. Jamie Finn opens up about the surprising realities that reshaped her family’s mission. You’ll hear what truly sustains foster families through their hardest seasons. Listen in for practical wisdom that applies whether you foster yourself or simply want to love foster families well.

    Key Takeaways:
    • Trauma reshapes the brain.
    • Regulated parents create safety for dysregulated children
    • Foster families thrive when their community refuses to look away
    • Following Jesus leads us toward discomfort, not away

    Mentioned in this Podcast:
    • Ebook – What Kids Need: 4 Messages That Build Identity
    • https://www.instagram.com/fosterthefamilyblog/
    • https://www.fosterthefamily.org/
    • https://www.filledretreat.com/
    • https://www.filledtogether.com/
    • Book – Foster the Family by Jamie Finn
    • Book – Filled: 60 Devotions for the Foster Parent’s Heart by Jamie Finn
    • Book – God Loves Kids: A Gospel-Centered Book About Foster Care by Jamie Finn
    • Podcast – A Parenting Framework for Adoption and Fostering? Yes! | Ep. 157
    • Podcast – Parenting Adopted Children: Building Connection After Trauma | Ep. 272

    Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting!

    This podcast was made possible by members of The Table, whose monthly support creates a ripple effect of change for generations to come. We’d love to have you take a seat at The Table!

    Love the podcast? Leave a review to help other parents discover the show!

    Guest Bio:

    Jamie C. Finn is the author of the bestselling book, Foster the Family, as well as Filled: 60 Devotions for the Foster Parent’s Heart, and a new children’s book, God Loves Kids: A Gospel-Centered Book About Foster Care. She is the founder and President of Foster the Family and founder of the Filled Gathering. She uses her social media accounts to offer a glimpse into the real life of a foster parent and provide encouragement to tens of thousands of foster and adoptive parents. Jamie is the mother to 7 children through foster care, adoption, and birth. She lives in Sicklerville, New Jersey, with her husband, Alan.

    © 2026 Connected Families
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    35 分