What if I told you that you don’t have to have sex and that it's a perfectly valid and fulfilling way to live?

In this episode, we're flipping the script on one of society's biggest unspoken rules: that everyone wants sex, everyone should want sex, and if you don't, something must be wrong with you. Spoiler alert: that's a load of pressure we don't need.

I'm sitting down with the fabulous sex, relationship, and intimacy coach Jamie Azar to unpack the concept of compulsory sexuality. We're talking about why this idea flies under the radar, how it affects everyone (including sex coaches), and why saying "no thanks" to sex can be one of the most radical things you do. Whether you're asexual, going through a dry spell, or just feeling the pressure to perform, this conversation is your permission slip to do pleasure on your own terms.

We talk about:

- what compulsory sexuality is and how it shows up everywhere

- why not wanting sex doesn't mean that there’s something wrong with you

- the difference between sexual liberation and sexual obligation

- how to deal with mismatched desire in a relationship

- expanding your definition of sex and intimacy

- centring pleasure over performance

If you've ever felt like you're doing something wrong for not prioritizing sex, this episode is for you. Let's get curious about what actually feels good and not what we're told should feel good.

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