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  • The BPD Fantasy Why Codependents Feel Stuck

    The BPD Fantasy Why Codependents Feel Stuck
    2025/08/05
    The BPD Fantasy Why Codependents Are Stuck

    The BPD Fantasy of who you thought they were and then that loss, over and over again, is why Codependents are stuck in the Fantasy and Trauma Bond abandoning self not knowing how to face your own multi-layered pain now. The idea of letting go feels like an imminent ending to who you used to be, who you have lost in the BPD relationship that was a BPD Fantasy.

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    10 分
  • The Lost Self - Childhood Roots of Codependency

    The Lost Self - Childhood Roots of Codependency
    2025/08/03
    The Lost Self: Childhood Roots of Codependency


    The lost self - childhood roots of Codependency. The lost self in Codependency is not as profound or complete of a lost self as it is in Borderline Personality Disorder. To a lessor degree this is a partial over-lap with BPD but not enough to mean you have BPD. Codependency has its roots in childhood. It is what turns out to be in adulthood, a maladaptive reality that was adaptive and help you to survive adverse experience or trauma in your childhood.

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    25 分
  • Is Codependency Really An Addiction?

    Is Codependency Really An Addiction?
    2025/07/31
    Is Codependency Really an Addiction?

    An often asked, and I think, an often misunderstood question where Codependency is concerned. My answer in this podcast to "Is Codependency Really an addiction" with my 35 years experience working with clients in Codependency recovery is, "yes" and "no" and I think that this approach gives my clients the best of "both" possible asserted "understandings" of Codependency.

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    21 分
  • Struggling to Know Self Through a BPD Partner

    Struggling to Know Self Through a BPD Partner
    2025/07/09
    Struggling to Know Self Through a BPD Partner

    Codependency presents the struggle to know "self" through a BPD Partner and/or Ex. This is the Codependent part of the Trauma Bond. People with Codependency are repeating their own childhood woundedness, often unconsciously, in these toxic relationships. It just isn't all about the person with Borderline Personality. You need to become more consciously aware of your own choices and get into therapy to break the trauma bond and stop abandoning yourself.

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    33 分
  • Two Codependents in Relationship After Previous Cluster B Relationships & Counter-Dependen

    Two Codependents in Relationship After Previous Cluster B Relationships & Counter-Dependen
    2025/01/17
    Two Codependents in Relationship After Previous Cluster B Relationships & Counter-Dependency

    A Youtube commenter asked can you be Codependent in a relationship with a partner with Codependency and both manifest codependency more as counter-dependency when each person in the relationship has had a previous Cluster B relationship?

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    25 分
  • Codependency Painful Emotional Dangers Rooted In Family Systems Re-Enacted In Adult Relationships

    Codependency Painful Emotional Dangers Rooted In Family Systems Re-Enacted In Adult Relationships
    2023/06/11
    Codependency Painful Emotional Dangers Rooted In Family Systems Re-Enacted In Adult Relationships

    People with Codependency, more often than not, re-enact core childhood woundness from Family Sytems in Family of Origin in adulthood with people with BPD or NPD especially in significant other relationships. You need to focus on you now and your patterns and what you need to heal not continue to focus on a Borderline or a Narcissist and recycling relationship breakups with them which is only you repeating your multi-layered trauma and increasing your pain and loss of self.

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    50 分
  • Codependency Is A Trauma Response - Therapy Is The Way To Heal Not 12 Step Groups

    Codependency Is A Trauma Response - Therapy Is The Way To Heal Not 12 Step Groups
    2022/12/24
    Codependency has its roots in a childhood trauma response to varying degrees for people who have Codependency. People cannot heal from Codependency and/or the trauma bonded relationships with CLuster B's without a trauma-based and trauma informed healing and recovery process working with ana expert in this area.

    The Codependent's Anonymous 12 Step program or other 12 step programs are not designed for the depthy of the process to heal your codependency. The 12 step groups are not the way to go and certainly not something to choose instead of working with an expert in your reccovery process.
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    48 分
  • Codependency 12 Core Signs & Understanding Dysfunctional Relational Patterns

    Codependency 12 Core Signs & Understanding Dysfunctional Relational Patterns
    2022/12/10
    Codependency 12 Core Signs that indicate codependency and understanding the
    dysfunctional relational patterns of Codependency that have their causation in
    childhood woundedness.
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    46 分