What’s it like to follow you?

It’s a simple question, but answering it honestly can reveal a lot about the way others experience your leadership, relationships, coaching, and everyday influence. In this episode of The Coaching and Positive Psychology Podcast, Valorie Burton reflects on a powerful question posed by John Maxwell and explores why the gap between our intentions and our impact can become one of our greatest opportunities for growth.

Valorie challenges you to get curious about how you show up for the people around you, whether you are leading a team, raising a family, coaching a client, or navigating your closest relationships. You’ll learn why curiosity creates wisdom, how assumptions can keep us from seeing our blind spots, and how a shift in perspective can help us become more intentional about the experience we create for others.

In this episode, you’ll explore:

• The difference between your intentions and your impact
• Why seeing yourself from another person’s perspective can build greater self-awareness
• How curiosity and humility help uncover blind spots
• The importance of balancing correction with encouragement and affirmation
• Self-coaching questions to help you become a better leader, coach, parent, partner, and friend

If the people who know you best were completely honest, what would they say it’s like to experience you? And what is one change you could make to improve that experience?

Why do some people flourish while others stay stuck, even when they have similar goals, resources, and challenges?

In this episode of The Coaching and Positive Psychology Podcast, Valorie Burton explores the science behind human flourishing and why understanding positive psychology can make you a more effective coach. She shares how research into well-being, resilience, confidence, relationships, purpose, and human potential can help coaches move beyond simply asking great questions to better understand what actually helps people create meaningful, lasting change.

You’ll discover why coaching is ultimately about transformation, how positive psychology provides an evidence-based framework for understanding what helps people thrive, and why great coaches stay curious about the research behind human behavior and growth. Valorie also explores concepts including the PERMA model, psychological capital, self-efficacy, and the role coaches can play in helping clients build greater resilience, clarity, confidence, and momentum.

Whether you are already coaching or considering becoming a coach, this episode offers a deeper look at what becomes possible when strong coaching skills are paired with the science of human flourishing.

Interested in developing your coaching skills? Learn more about the CaPP Institute’s coach training programs at cappinstitute.com.

What is coaching, really? And how is it different from counseling, consulting, mentoring, training, or even AI?

If you've ever considered becoming a coach, hiring a coach, or simply using a coaching approach in your leadership, business, parenting, or relationships, this episode is for you.

In this episode, Valorie Burton breaks down what professional coaching actually is, why it's often misunderstood, and why it has become one of the fastest-growing professions in the world. You'll discover the unique role coaching plays in helping people think more clearly, make meaningful changes, and unlock their personal and professional potential.

You'll learn:
• What coaching is (and what it isn't)
• The differences between coaching, counseling, consulting, mentoring, and training
• Why coaching focuses on helping people think rather than giving advice
• How coaching creates lasting transformation through awareness, accountability, and intentional action
• Why coaching is becoming even more valuable in the age of artificial intelligence

Whether you're exploring coach training, considering working with a coach, or simply curious about the profession, this conversation will help you understand why coaching is such a powerful catalyst for growth.

Learn more about coach training and positive psychology at cappinstitute.com.

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