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"We can only go as high as our character is deep."
In this episode, Jonathan sits down with Darin Sargent — author, coach, and a friend of nearly thirty years — for a conversation that goes past sermon mechanics and into the thing most preachers actually struggle with.
Anybody can learn the skill of putting a sermon together. What most preachers struggle with is learning the character.
This conversation is honest, funny, and at points genuinely vulnerable. It's about who you are when nobody's watching, and what happens when that person and the one in the pulpit aren't the same.
What this conversation covers:
Being born with one hand — and why Darin calls it a qualification, not a limitation. How a visible difference shaped his dependence on God, and what Paul meant about glorying in infirmity.
What younger Darin got wrong. The honest admission that early in ministry he was very concerned about what people thought about his preaching — and where he's landed after thirty-five years: if he ministers to one person something God gave him, that's enough.
Preaching past conviction. Why so many young preachers keep going when hearts are already ready to respond — because there are still three pages of notes left. The word produces faith. And we preach right past it.
Character and calling. Why we elevate people based on talent and ability, what happens when their character doesn't match their gifting, and the honest claim that we have been the cause of a lot of burnout in preachers by pushing them to stages they weren't ready for. Paul told Timothy not to exalt a novice. There's a reason.
Volume does not equal anointing. A frank exchange about whether congregations actually see the gap in a preacher who lacks depth — and Darin's answer, that maybe our measurements are wrong.
Comparison — the lion that attacks preachers most. From memorizing sermons on tape in Bible college to the conclusion that saved him: I have to be Darin Sargent. I can't be Jonathan McClintock. Figure out who you are, and go in that vein.
Benaiah and the lion in the pit. Why going on offense against what's beneath the surface is so counterintuitive — and why you'd better take care of some things in your twenties so they don't destroy you in your forties.
The most vulnerable moment in the episode. Darin on things that came out in his preaching he wishes he could take back: "Please don't take frustrations to the pulpit." What's in the heart eventually leaks — you may be able to control behavior, but speech is harder.
The four-part filter for every decision — faith, family, friends, future — and the sobering line underneath it: one decision can derail your destiny.
Two takeaways for the developing preacher. Life moves at the speed of relationships. And there are some things you'll never know unless you're willing to grow.
Darin is the author of Battle of the Beasts: Defeating the Lions That Oppose Your Destiny and Parenting with Purpose, with more on the way. Find him on the Darin Sargent Podcast.