If They’re With Someone Else But Still Think About You – What It REALLY Means

Recover From Your Breakup, Save Your Relationship, And Find Lasting Love - Without No Contact, Mind Games, Or Losing Yourself

Are they in a relationship with someone else… but still reach out, check your stories, or say they miss you? 💔

You're not alone — this emotionally confusing situation is more common than you think.

In this episode, Clay Andrews from Modern Love breaks down exactly what’s going on when your ex is with somebody new, but still thinking about you.
You'll learn:

• Why it’s not enough to wait and hope they'll come back
• How to stop feeling powerless and start influencing the situation
• How to strengthen emotional connection — even from a distance
• When (and how) to apply pressure for them to finally make a choice

Plus, hear a powerful real-life client story of how this strategy helped rekindle love — even on the edge of marriage to someone else.

🎯 If you’re caught between hope and heartbreak, this video will show you how to take your power back and create real momentum.

They Still Feel the Bond — even if they’re acting like they don’t.

In this episode, Clay Andrews explores the emotional imprint that lingers after a relationship ends. Whether you’re the one who walked away or the one still hurting, the truth is this: when two people truly connect, that bond doesn’t just vanish.

Clay breaks down why emotional ties are stronger than we think, why social media isn’t the full story, and how your ex might still be feeling the weight of your connection—no matter how things ended or what they show on the surface.

If you’ve ever wondered, “Do they still think about me?” or “Was it real for them too?” — this episode will give you clarity, reassurance, and next steps.

The 5 Emotional Stages Your Ex Goes Through Before Getting Back Together

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What is your ex really going through emotionally after a breakup—and what does it mean for your chances of getting back together? In this episode, Clay Andrews of ModernLove.Life breaks down The 5 Stages Your Ex Goes Through Emotionally Before Reconciliation—from the Wall of Reactance to New Beginnings.

Whether your ex is ignoring you, sending mixed signals, or slowly warming up again, this episode will help you decode their behavior, understand their internal emotional journey, and give you clarity on how to respond at each stage. Clay also shares tips to avoid common mistakes and how to shift from surface-level conversations to genuine emotional connection.

If you're serious about saving your relationship—without playing games or pretending to be someone you're not—this episode is your guide.

🎧 Listen now and take one step closer to the relationship you truly want.

Take The Risk: Why Betting on Yourself Changes Everything

If you've been holding back—too afraid to text your ex, start the conversation, or take that next step—this episode is your wake-up call. Clay Andrews breaks down how staying in your comfort zone keeps you stuck, and how even a small risk can move you toward the love, life, and self-worth you truly want. It's time to stop betting against yourself. You deserve more.

Listen in and start taking your power back—one bold step at a time.

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Is It Wrong To Want Your Ex Back
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Is it wrong to want your ex back? That's what we're gonna be talking about in this video. There's a lot of people that will say it is. There's a lot of people that say it's not that we will get to the bottom of it in this video. And we'll give you some advice about what you can do to help make sure that you're in a great place emotionally to move forward, no matter what might be unfolding for you.
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What to say to turn potentially devastating situations with your ex into opportunities for connection

Ex Solution Program: https://modernlove.life/esp
Navigate your ex’s emotional world to build a stronger connection and inspire commitment for lasting love

Effortless Connection: https://modernlove.life/ec
Build the foundation for a strong relationship with more cooperation, connection, and consistency.

Emotional Freedom (Formerly "Compatibility Code"): https://modernlove.life/ef
Overcome the pain of your breakup to build a new possibility for love with your ex or with someone new

Authentic Dating: https://www.modernlove.life/ad
Successfully find a new, thriving relationship with your dream partner in 5 first dates or less.

Unstuck Coaching: https://modernlove.life/coaching
Work with us to develop a custom solution for your current situation or block

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Is My Ex In A Rebound Or Is It Serious
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Is your ex's new relationship, a rebound or the real deal? This can be confusing for a lot of people. So stay tuned through to the end so that you can get an understanding about what's going on here.
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Work with me:

Connect and Commit: https://www.modernlove.life/cc
What to say to turn potentially devastating situations with your ex into opportunities for connection

Ex Solution Program: https://modernlove.life/esp
Navigate your ex’s emotional world to build a stronger connection and inspire commitment for lasting love

Effortless Connection: https://modernlove.life/ec
Build the foundation for a strong relationship with more cooperation, connection, and consistency.

Emotional Freedom (Formerly "Compatibility Code"): https://modernlove.life/ef
Overcome the pain of your breakup to build a new possibility for love with your ex or with someone new

Authentic Dating: https://www.modernlove.life/ad
Successfully find a new, thriving relationship with your dream partner in 5 first dates or less.

Unstuck Coaching: https://modernlove.life/coaching
Work with us to develop a custom solution for your current situation or block

Commit Group Coaching: https://www.modernlove.life/quiz
Apply for our 6 month premium coaching program to get you into a thriving committed relationship where you can be loved for who you are.

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***** IMPORTANT *****

This is an internet video, and it should be obvious, but this video and other videos on this channel should not be taken as a substitute for the evaluation of a psychologist, therapist, counselor, etc. This video and other videos on this channel are intended for informational uses only, and only reflect the personal opinions of the creator. The creator of this video is not responsible for your actions or choices or the consequences of your actions or choices.

Is The Breakup My Fault?
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Is the breakup that you've had with your ex your fault? And if so, what do you do about it?

My name is Clay Andrews with modernlove.life, where you help you get the great loving relationship that you're looking for without having to play mind games, without having to play hard, to get in without having to pretend to be someone or something you are not because you deserve to be loved for the unique and wonderful person that you are.

We're talking about whether or not your breakup is, is your fault. Now again, you know, I don't know all the details of your situation here. I don't know what happened, but one thing that I can tell you is that chances are, it's not a hundred percent your fault. Know why here!
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Work with me:

Connect and Commit: https://www.modernlove.life/cc
What to say to turn potentially devastating situations with your ex into opportunities for connection

Ex Solution Program: https://modernlove.life/esp
Navigate your ex’s emotional world to build a stronger connection and inspire commitment for lasting love

Effortless Connection: https://modernlove.life/ec
Build the foundation for a strong relationship with more cooperation, connection, and consistency.

Emotional Freedom (Formerly "Compatibility Code"): https://modernlove.life/ef
Overcome the pain of your breakup to build a new possibility for love with your ex or with someone new

Authentic Dating: https://www.modernlove.life/ad
Successfully find a new, thriving relationship with your dream partner in 5 first dates or less.

Unstuck Coaching: https://modernlove.life/coaching
Work with us to develop a custom solution for your current situation or block

Commit Group Coaching: https://www.modernlove.life/quiz
Apply for our 6 month premium coaching program to get you into a thriving committed relationship where you can be loved for who you are.

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This is an internet video, and it should be obvious, but this video and other videos on this channel should not be taken as a substitute for the evaluation of a psychologist, therapist, counselor, etc. This video and other videos on this channel are intended for informational uses only, and only reflect the personal opinions of the creator. The creator of this video is not responsible for your actions or choices or the consequences of your actions or choices.

Is The Breakup Permanent?
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Is your breakup permanent or can it actually be saved? This is actually a really interesting question and something that I've learned a lot about as a breakup coach over the past. We're gonna go into how you can tell if your breakup is permanent or maybe just temporary.

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Work with me:

Connect and Commit: https://www.modernlove.life/cc
What to say to turn potentially devastating situations with your ex into opportunities for connection

Ex Solution Program: https://modernlove.life/esp
Navigate your ex’s emotional world to build a stronger connection and inspire commitment for lasting love

Effortless Connection: https://modernlove.life/ec
Build the foundation for a strong relationship with more cooperation, connection, and consistency.

Emotional Freedom (Formerly "Compatibility Code"): https://modernlove.life/ef
Overcome the pain of your breakup to build a new possibility for love with your ex or with someone new

Authentic Dating: https://www.modernlove.life/ad
Successfully find a new, thriving relationship with your dream partner in 5 first dates or less.

Unstuck Coaching: https://modernlove.life/coaching
Work with us to develop a custom solution for your current situation or block

Commit Group Coaching: https://www.modernlove.life/quiz
Apply for our 6 month premium coaching program to get you into a thriving committed relationship where you can be loved for who you are.

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***** IMPORTANT *****

This is an internet video, and it should be obvious, but this video and other videos on this channel should not be taken as a substitute for the evaluation of a psychologist, therapist, counselor, etc. This video and other videos on this channel are intended for informational uses only, and only reflect the personal opinions of the creator. The creator of this video is not responsible for your actions or choices or the consequences of your actions or choices.