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Black women are exhausted — and it’s not because we aren’t soft enough.
It’s because we’re constantly being told to be his peace while he brings chaos, emotional immaturity, and unpaid labor into the relationship.

In this episode, we unpack how that phrase is used to silence women, excuse men from accountability, and turn people-pleasing into a requirement for love. We talk the difference between peace and self-abandonment, why we’re done emotionally raising grown men, and what a real partnership actually looks like.

This isn’t about being difficult.
It’s about being equal.

If you want peace, you have to provide safety.
If you want softness, you have to show up whole.

Segments:
💔 Street Love Diaries — When he asked for peace but brought war
🚩 Red Flag Stories & Relationship Standards — Emotional accountability is the standard
🧠 Hood Love & Healing — Breaking nurturing patterns and choosing mutual peace

Because we’re not your pacifier.
We’re your partner. 💕✨

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In this powerful episode of City Girls Decoded, Morgan Chanel dives deep into the intersection of Black women and trans women, exploring fascination, envy, admiration, and reflection. From street-level observations to heartfelt stories about accountability, self-love, and hood love, Morgan unpacks why these dynamics can feel complicated—and how they can also lead to growth, understanding, and empowerment.

She also opens up about getting sick after a heavy studio week, shares behind-the-scenes insights from recording her new single Close the Door (dropping 12.12), and gives glow getters practical advice for setting boundaries, embracing reflection, and celebrating their own brilliance.

Tune in for honest conversations, personal stories, and actionable takeaways that will leave you thinking, reflecting, and glowing.

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Modern dating has officially entered the danger zone. This week on City Girls Decoded, Morgan breaks down the wild world of dating apps — from the ghosters to the love bombers and everything in between. Tune in for unfiltered laughs, real talk, and a few survival tips for anyone brave enough to still be swiping. 💅🏽📱

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