Most of us are using the wrong filter when it comes to relationships.

We lead with chemistry. The spark, the connection, the way someone just clicks with you. And when the feeling fades, we're left wondering what went wrong. But what if the problem isn't who we chose? What if it's what we were looking for in the first place?

In this message from our series Finding God in the Ordinary, we walk through Ruth 2:15-23 and discover something that changes the way we think about every relationship in our lives. God reveals the character of a man named Boaz not through a dramatic moment or a big speech, but through how he treats a foreign widow who can offer him absolutely nothing in return. Through attentiveness, inclusion, generosity, and protection, we get a picture of what Godly character actually looks like in practice. And through the ancient concept of the kinsman-redeemer, we get a glimpse of the Gospel itself. Romans 5:8 says it plainly: "God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us." Boaz points us to Jesus, the ultimate Redeemer who stepped into our story at great personal cost.

Whether you are searching for the right person or striving to become one, this message is for you. Watch the full message, subscribe to the channel so you never miss a week, and drop a comment below sharing what stood out to you. If this encouraged you, share it with someone who needs to hear it. For more resources, teaching, and encouragement, head over to LeadBiblically.com.

TIMESTAMPS

00:00 The CEO Who Hired for Character

01:51 Introduction and Series Context

04:24 Chemistry vs. Character

04:47 The Four Traits of Boaz

06:37 The Kinsman-Redeemer Revealed

07:47 Institution 1: Redemption of Family Land

08:56 Institution 2: Provision of a Family Heir

11:24 Joyce Baldwin on the Greater Redeemer

12:50 The Gospel Connection

14:34 Invitation and Closing Prayer

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