This week on the pod, we're melting in London’s heatwave and breaking down everything from emotional breakdowns in Ubers to actual breakdowns in Bavarian hotel lobbies (spoiler: it involves a rogue zipper and zero backup trousers).

We also dive into the age-old debate of when is the “right” time to have kids — especially when your mum had you at 25 and mine was 45. From wildly different parenting styles to hiding our parents’ ages at school, we reflect on how age gaps shaped us, and how they might shape our future choices.

Plus: celeb couple sleuthing (are Emma and Carlos the new It pair?), the politics of mixed doubles tennis, and a painfully relatable reminder to never pack light for a work trip. It’s hot, it’s chaotic, and it’s (somehow) deeply insightful.

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We’re back and as chaotic as ever — with grass courts, groundhogs, and more feelings than we know what to do with. We chat about the grass season kicking off at Queen’s Club, the long-awaited return of women’s tennis there, and whether Carlos Alcaraz’s Ibiza night out really matters. And of course, there’s a detour into dog sitting disasters, peeing Labradors, and accidental Instagram likes that will make any stalker’s heart stop.

But beyond the sports and slip-ups, we dive into what it means to be a highly sensitive person (HSP) in a noisy, messy world. From absorbing other people’s moods to struggling with criticism, we explore the joys and challenges of being wired to feel everything deeply. If you’ve ever been told you’re “too sensitive” — this one’s for you.

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In this episode Theo and Andrea ditch the usual format to relive one of the most electrifying weekends in tennis history at Roland Garros 2025. From Carlos Alcaraz’s legendary five-set comeback against Jannik Sinner in a men’s final for the ages, to Coco Gauff’s emotional and historic French Open victory — nothing is off-limits. Theo shares what it was like to be there in the crowd, and the hosts dissect everything from crowd bias and player mentality to post-match drama, celeb sightings, and chaotic courtside energy. Expect obsessive fangirling and heartfelt reflections on why live sport hits so deeply. Whether you watched the match or not, this is your official invite to feel the full drama — and maybe become a tennis convert.

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In today's episode, we’re catching up on weddings, bachelorettes, and personal disasters — including a public ankle sprain and a highly controversial bouquet drop. We reflect on the social politics of bridal events, the group dynamics that make or break a weekend, and why Burger King at 7am might be our new emotional low.

On the celeb front, we spiral over Timothée Chalamet’s undeniable riz, Jon Hamm’s eternal hotness, and Lando Norris being the golden retriever of F1. We get into the Knicks playoff buzz, the Kylie/Chalamet courtside PDA, and the drama heating up at Roland Garros.

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This week, Andrea and Theo are joined by Andrea’s long-time best friend Katie—writer, therapist-in-training, and certified chaotic force. She shows up armed with strong opinions, stripy socks, and a dangerously well-balanced gin + Dash cocktail. The trio dives into everything from their high school mean girl phase to Andrea’s elite status as the world’s chillest houseguest (just add a weighted blanket and some leftovers).

There’s unapologetic Rafa fangirling (cardboard cutout and all), a hate-watch of Meghan Markle’s Netflix doc, and Katie’s firm belief that every healthy friendship needs a four-year break. Also: Theo gets dive-bombed by a bird hours before a red-eye flight, and Andrea nearly throws up cleaning it off her head. Oh, and Andrea took a mirror selfie of herself after meeting Rafa—not with him, of herself. It’s pure chaos and exactly the energy we needed this week.

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We’re back! After an accidentally extended five-week hiatus, the chaos queens return with stories from across the globe — kicking things off with sunburns, tennis crushes, mistaken toilets, and surprise celebrity run-ins. There’s a recap of the Barcelona trip, complete with beach fails, peeling skin, and strategic tennis star avoidance. Andrea catches a glimpse of Carlos (aka future husband) in action, while Theo makes her Nashville debut — no bulls involved, just intense AC and conference room fatigue. Back in New York, the duo dives into NYU nostalgia with hotel hopping and one unexpected bouncer reunion. They also get real about dating apps, emotional chemistry, and the red-flag reality of certain social media behaviour. Plus, there’s Theo’s accidental bathroom detour and Andrea’s dramatic tumble — saved at the last second by none other than Matt Smith. As always, we love hearing from you, so DM us your chaotic moments or thoughts on the episode!

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This week, we talk about going public with the podcast - and the strangely vulnerable, slightly terrifying feeling of finally telling more than just our close friends. From hitting “post” on Instagram to overthinking every reaction, we get into the fears, the self-conscious spirals, and why sometimes, done really is better than perfect. We also dive into some chaotic life updates (one of us is wearing a reflux monitor, wrist brace, and glasses… it’s a look), plus why announcing a podcast feels weirdly more exposing than a job interview.

There’s also a detour into the emotional labour of being a WAG, a Eurostar saga that almost ended in disaster, and a run-in with a very tall man who may or may not have been an NBA player. We’re taking a short Easter break, but we’ll be back soon - ideally with fewer medical devices and plenty more chaos to report.

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It’s a monumental episode - our very first guest joins the pod! Interior designer, entrepreneur, and our longtime friend Alessia Miro steps in to bring some much-needed calm to our chaos. We dive into the story of our friendship (which started with mutual hatred and a pivotal period moment), reflect on what it means to grow up alongside someone, and explore how Alessia found the balance between independence and partnership. From New York to London, heartbreaks to healing, we unpack everything from codependency to the power of being single—even when it really sucks.

If you’ve ever felt a little lost, this episode is a reminder that your path doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s. Better things are coming.

Find Alessia:

Website: https://www.alessiamiro.com/

Instagram: @alessiamirointeriors

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