In this episode of Family Troubles, I sit down with Frank Furstenberg, one of the most influential sociologists of family life, to unpack how modern families are evolving and why parenting today feels harder than ever. We explore how rising inequality, shifting expectations, and longer paths to adulthood are reshaping the bond between parents and children in ways that are both deeply meaningful and, at times, incredibly challenging.

We also get into the “good news, bad news” of modern family life: while many relationships are closer and more emotionally connected than ever before, the pressure, expectations, and stakes have never been higher, sometimes leading to distance, conflict, or even estrangement.

Listen for more on:

• Why parenting today is more expensive, demanding, and longer-lasting
• How inequality is increasing stress and pressure on families
• Why adulthood is delayed and how that impacts parent-child relationships
• How closer, more involved parenting can sometimes lead to tension or distance
• Why estrangement feels more intense today, even if it’s not entirely new
• A hopeful truth: families may be more emotionally connected than ever

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